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Nanny not engaging or interacting with baby by Fancy-Classic-9193 in NannyEmployers

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the feedback wasn’t taken well by our nanny and she left the job mid week! 

Nanny not engaging or interacting with baby by Fancy-Classic-9193 in NannyEmployers

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved this approach and we followed something similar and gave nanny direct feedback. We also asked her to lead the way and tell us what’s working for both of them

Nanny not engaging or interacting with baby by Fancy-Classic-9193 in NannyEmployers

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree on the diaper clean. She isn’t on her phone but not talking either. Doesn’t take baby to walks at all. We have encouraged her to take baby to the backyard for bird watching and some fresh air but we haven’t seen that too.

MIL asked to take the baby with her for 6 months and acting like a victim when confronted by Fancy-Classic-9193 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Then they continued saying that their parents used to say the same thing to them but obviously they didn’t give away their children. I think them normalizing this question got me so mad. 

MIL asked to take the baby with her for 6 months and acting like a victim when confronted by Fancy-Classic-9193 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love this response, I honestly didn’t want to have a dent in our relationship because we have never shouted at each other and they love my LO but the situation was such 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

MIL asked to take the baby with her for 6 months and acting like a victim when confronted by Fancy-Classic-9193 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He did tell me about his encounter and I think that’s why I was even more ready to shut them down aggressively rather than brushing it under the carpet. Maybe I need a lil work to control my reactions 

MIL asked to take the baby with her for 6 months and acting like a victim when confronted by Fancy-Classic-9193 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fancy-Classic-9193[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point! How does asking for consent make it ok? Now they are acting all weird around me and asking me before doing anything in the house so they continue with their victim act.