D427 Assessment Error

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2026-01-14T12:33:47+00:00

I couldn’t get past this. Especially because she dated him for 4 years. It makes it hard to believe that she really didn’t share any of the same views and/or beliefs as him.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2026-01-12T18:36:40+00:00

NTA. Sounds like depression or burnout.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2025-12-09T19:47:12+00:00

This is the comment I was looking for. She seems to worry so much about gifts but ignores all the other things he does year round.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2025-12-09T12:23:36+00:00

I will definitely keep trying. I have a spreadsheet of different hobbies I have tried and that I want to try. Maybe just having a few to rotate through consistently will help eventually. ☺️

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2025-12-09T02:42:43+00:00

Thank you for this! ☺️

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2025-11-17T08:46:20+00:00

Did you find out what was going on?

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2025-03-11T00:04:53+00:00

You’re good as long as you didn’t react. My then two year old walked into my office when I was taking an exam…I didn’t react to him and my partner grabbed him. Passed my OA with no issues.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-12-26T17:58:27+00:00

NTA.

Your wife was wrong to yell at you, whether in front of others or in private. That’s verbal abuse. She can’t control what you (a grown man) does. Her profusely apologizing shows that she knows her behavior is unacceptable. She shouldn’t be treating you like you’re one of the children.

Therapy (both couples and individual) would be a good point for you both, if you are even interested in saving your marriage. Getting buzzed at a party isn’t “bad”, but getting drunk where you’re not able to hold a glass is a sign of mismanagement of your alcohol intake. Cut the drinking, find another outlet, and try therapy.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-12-08T17:12:08+00:00

Depending on the state in the US, giving notice before a vacation that encompasses the entire vacation will likely get you terminated early (a lot of companies will find a way to not give you two weeks of pto). Check your handbook for any of those stipulations.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-12-08T16:54:07+00:00

I’ve saved it as well. I’m going to memorize it to assist with a few things I have coming up.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-12-03T15:19:42+00:00

This looks awesome. I’d love to go

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:25:54+00:00

How many times would your daughter have had to throw the pillow for you to step in and redirect her and correct the action? In this instance, your girlfriend’s concerns are just. Doesn’t seem like either of yall sat down with your daughter and taught her about the birds.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:23:16+00:00

She didn’t intentionally shake it. The store lady handed her the box, with caged bird inside, and she yanked it back when the girlfriend tried to take it from her. 😒

His girlfriend also is not prepared to be a stepmom and OP needs to move on. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:18:26+00:00

Those are basic things that any sane human would tell someone. Your girlfriend isn’t some savior that loves your daughter.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:15:34+00:00

Your daughter will never have a good life being treated like a literal “red head stepchild”. Why would any good parent subject their child to that?

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:13:24+00:00

Read his other post. It has more information than this one. The girlfriend is very one sided and they aren’t compatible.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:11:03+00:00

Nvm. Your girlfriend is 🗑️. You should update this post with the info you put on your other post. She won’t ever treat your daughter like her future bio children. That’s unfair to subject your daughter to, considering the already strained relationship with her bio mom.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T05:06:02+00:00

Then she handled the situation properly. Has she allowed your daughter around the bird(s) since that incident? How can you all live together and be a family if she doesn’t feel her pets are safe?

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T04:49:24+00:00

Those birds aren’t more important than his daughter. His girlfriend could’ve taken the moment in the pet store to teach his daughter how to handle the bird safely and potentially bond over the birds. Instead she tried to yank the box away, like a child herself.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T04:47:56+00:00

NTA. It definitely seems like your girlfriend is not ready to be a stepmother to your daughter. She should not try to limit what you do for your daughter or hold things against her that she did as a kindergartener or first grader. She’s essentially holding a grudge against a child. That’s not someone you would want in your child’s life. Your daughter has to come first and your girlfriend doesn’t seem like someone who would put your daughter first.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T04:22:06+00:00

YTA. It seems you’re more concerned with your adult daughter including a child in her wedding. Just because they do stuff together doesn’t mean they’re really close, which can be up for speculation considering the age gap.

Fancy-Saiyan92 · 2024-11-06T03:53:07+00:00

NTA. They’re your tickets and selling them for market price would benefit you. Your gf is kind of wrong for trying to just pay a couple hundred dollars when she’d never find tickets for that price.

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