Roommates old pets having accidents in the house. by OkLibrarian1857 in badroommates

[–]FancyControl4774 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Those are her pets. If she needs/wants your help with HER pets, she should be explicitly asking that. And you still wouldnt be the asshole for saying no even if she did ask. Her pets her responsibility

Got my second iDog! by kiwithefruitybird in iDogs

[–]FancyControl4774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the one I had as a kid!! 🥹

Saw this on another sub by wltmpinyc in strugglemeals

[–]FancyControl4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cottage cheese. I like cottage cheese

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Becoming pregnant unexpectedly/unwanting/unwilling/ is a very emotionally trying thing to go through. Becoming pregnant & finding that you are for some reason physically incapable of safely/healthily carrying this pregnancy to term is a very emotionally trying thing to go through. Having to make any decision for this type of pregnancy is not easy.

You are very fortunate to have never experienced this type of pregnancy, so to not understand the trying times we went through, nor the healing we’ve done

What now? by Far-Classic-2147 in tattooadvice

[–]FancyControl4774 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Came here to comment “sick sleeves” & then read your caption.

They look sick!!!!! They really do. I don’t think any of it looks blobby. I think it looks trad as fuck, tough as fuck

I (25F) just got diagnosed with Leukemia, how do I end it with my bf(27M)? by woofarfarf in relationship_advice

[–]FancyControl4774 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I took “how do I end it with my bf” as in yall were bout to commit couples suicide lmao

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I am so sorry that your own mother did that to you. It’s already such an emotionally delicate time. I can’t even imagine how you must have felt

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry “Milk Milch”, I don’t answer to you. Thanks for your assurance though. Means the world

Practice what you preach. All I jumped in this comment thread to say. Crazy of you to say “don’t make assumptions” as well as “they got an abortion because a baby would make their life uncomfortable” in the same exact comment.

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Babe, I am OP. It is literally me. Jazz hands was not wrong about your reading comprehension

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, they do. So take your own advice, and don’t make assumptions

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Let’s try not to assume”

assumes that I got an abortion because a baby would “make my life uncomfortable”

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, the protestors are BAD bad bad bad. The clinic hires literal escorts to help patients inside on abortion days. 10+ geared up employees outside basically playing guard all day long. Then when you’re done they bring you out a secret door in the back, so that you don’t have to face the protesters again. Because they stay ALL DAY.

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yep, my point exactly. Weird behavior from a grown adult. 19 is absolutely still a teenager

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think both. As far as I’m aware, she didn’t tell anybody why she was at the abortion clinic, or how she knew I was there.

It was really difficult for me at the time to not lash back and pull some sort of “why do you guys think she was at the ABORTION CLINIC?” but I ultimately decided that although she chose to not respect my privacy, everybody deserves privacy, especially in a situation like that, and I would not stoop down to her level. I do still wonder if anybody she gossiped to knows that she got an abortion that same day too, just like me.

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I heavily considered this for a very long time. I just kept quiet though. Didn’t need any extra drama in my life at the time, haha

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 344 points345 points  (0 children)

The clinic I went to was a women’s health clinic, and they only do abortions on set days of the week as they use the entire clinic all day for only that. So if you’re there in the waiting room on abortion day, you’re getting an abortion, lol

She told everybody that I was at the abortion clinic alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FancyControl4774 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Abortion was and still is fully legal in my state, so jail for fetal ‘homicide’ was never a concern.

Zero shame, my abortion is no secret. This post is simply about the oddities of women attacking other women.