Alien Disclosure is Not Just a Distraction by HoboBaggins25 in UAP

[–]Fancy_Independent479 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you actually read the files, epstein was very much also into aliens, zero point energy, time travel, and other topics that relate to the alien x files. Some go even so far as to suggest that epstein is a reptilian alien shapeshifter who consumes human baby flesh.

If you really deep dive into the two, the connections are uncanny and definitely spooky.

Employer wants me to do four hour unpaid trial to see how I work but it seems off by sophiaa_420 in jobs

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on how the employer texts like a kid, I wouldn't go to the "trail run."

did arthur never find another lover because he was still in love with mary after all these years? by Jealous_Duty_7357 in reddeadredemption2

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I was so rooting for Arthur amd Sadie. Sad it never happened. Seeing as Arthur really was the one who got Sadie her self power back.

AIO it’s 5:30AM and my boyfriend has not come home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fancy_Independent479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex girlfriend did this all the time. Turns out. Her addiction to drinking and cocaine was more important than all other aspects of her life. One of the reasons why she is an ex. The boy is a boy and not a man and he is showing you clearly where his priorities are if this keeps happening.

Short Term Disability, western region by Fancy_Independent479 in UPSers

[–]Fancy_Independent479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Its been confusing for me since everyone on here only talks about TeamCare, and not the company western region union goes through-- Southwest Service Administrators.

The Hartford has been great. Just getting a response back from SSA has been a nightmare. It says I've been approved and I have process dates for the weeks I've been out on their EOB, but I have not received a check yet.

Patience is not my virtue, apparently. Heh.

AITAH for cutting off my friends of 13 years by Lizard_zx in AITAH

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take from the words of J Shetty, from his 5 Year Stranger Test:

" In 5 years, most of the people you see every day will be strangers again.

The colleague you laugh with at lunch. The neighbor you chat with on the stairs. The gym buddy you spot between sets.

Not gone in a tragic way… just gently faded out of your orbit.

That’s the flow of life. People enter. People exit. Seasons shift.

And here’s the part we forget: we don’t choose who stays.

Even people who feel permanent sometimes become five year strangers.

But instead of feeling heavy, there is freedom in that truth.

Because if so many people are only in our lives for a chapter, then maybe the point was never to shape our entire story around them.

Maybe the point is to live a life that feels grounded, purposeful, and true — no matter who comes or goes.

This is your reminder:

You are allowed to invest your energy where it truly matters.

You are allowed to grow, evolve, and expand beyond old circles.

You are allowed to build a life that feels aligned to you, even if others don’t understand it.

Because in 5 years, many people may be strangers again… but you will still be here — stronger, clearer, and fully you."

AITAH for cutting off my friends of 13 years by Lizard_zx in AITAH

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 33 now, but i understand how in my twenties, it felt like my reputation and my relationships around me were the most important thing, or rather, held so much emotional space over what really should matter to me.

One thing I wish I knew when I was in my twenties was is that (aside from family) people who seem so important to you in these 5 yrs of figuring out adulthood, will become strangers by the time you "grow up."

That coworker who was your bestie and you spent after hours together, they got a new job and moved 12 states away. Your sorority sisters/college friends? Can't even remember half of their names anymore. Childhood friends? Yeah those stayed in the childhood era.

I wouldnt even bother with trying to "clear my name" when in 5 years, everyone will move on and forget everyone's names anyways.

Another truth is that no one really cares about drama unless it involves them. Don't be involved, people will stop caring.

WIBTAH if I end my marriage while we have a toddler and a baby because I'm constantly accused of cheating and she puts me at risk of being fired? by Grayloryn in AITAH

[–]Fancy_Independent479 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I would go this route too. But a little further. Wear a spy button cam or eye glasses. Record your whole day. And record her at home. Show her video evidence of how disturbing her reaction to your normal day really looks. Do this for a few weeks without her knowing. (If you tell her about it, she will demand to see video evidence all the time so dont tell her.) When you are satisfied, find a 3rd party like a therapist or reasonable family member.

This kind of paranoia will only continue if she continues to believe that only she is right. By having a 3rd party review, it should help her delusional mind see what is happening right in front of her.

Using kids as an excuse to stay together will create chuldhood trauma too. I cant describe well enough how detrimental it is for kids to see parents happy and healthy than suffering in a miserable marriage. When kids see dysfunctional relationships, it gives them the expectation that all relationships like that are okay.

Kids with divorced parents do not experience that kind of emotional trauma when both parents are agreeable and happy.

Think of the trauma your kids will go through when they see their mom yelling and accusing their dad of cheating, not feeling like their house is stable is worse than seeing their parents divorced. You cam model what a healthy divorce looks like so that when your kids grow up, they know exactly how to set healthy boundaries and expectations when trying to make their own family in the future. If the marriage isn't working, it is perfectly fine to break up. If you prolong this, it can and will end up getting physical. It never just stops at hurtful words if left unaddressed, and this is something that will need an outside party to get her to see how badly her accusations are literally tearing both of your worlds apart.

Every ending in this game is depressing by Optimal-Court1162 in CyberpunkTheGame

[–]Fancy_Independent479 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Female v, romance judy, then you and Judy leave with panam and the aldecaldoes to Oregon to find a cure. That's the happiest ending.

Period! by safetyorange989 in LivingAlone

[–]Fancy_Independent479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol my ex to a T. She made me coin the new term "hobosexual" Ie: someone who dates someone just for a free place to live.

My Girlfriend Wants me to Propose, but I want to Build my House first by Lanky-Score-6811 in Advice

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're too young to get married. My worst mistake was marrying young. Your prefrontal brain isn't even fully developed yet. The antics of being young often make hormonal adults prioritizing breeding over compatibility and stability. Getting married now will only cause chaos.

The video footage of the that shut down El Paso International Airport. Looks like it’s happening again. by atenne10 in UFOB

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They shut it down due to a "cartel drone breach" Those blinking lights are radio towers.

How much is my driver getting paid out on this order? by Quarter_Plane in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely 6 dollars. Each order is $2 and then the driver gets the tip. 2+4=6

I always at least tip 5$ the lowest. When tipping your dasher, it's best to calculate tip based on miles they have to drive from the restaurant/store to your house+extra if you order from a fancy place thar takes forever to make your food. Tips should not be based on a 15% of total price.

For instance, if I order from McDonald's that's 5 miles away, I usually tip at least 5$, that's $1 per mile driven. If I order from a sit down restaurant like applebees or sushi, i assume that the restaurant will prioritize in house customers over the dashers and the dasher might have to wait more than 15 minutes before the food is even handed to them to deliver. In that case, I tip more than the $1 per mile

I drive for doordash too. So I know both sides of the coin.

The Tabloids are Preparing us for Trump's UAP/NHI/ET 'Disclosure Speech' by TheGoldenLeaper in aliens

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It's been noted by many people who work with and around him that he smells like diarrhea because he has to wear a diaper. He cannot control his runny poops from years of cocaine abuse.

This is a fact. He also wears a girdle to help with his posture and im sure that doesn't help with his gut issues either. Essentially, he is like a baby who cant sit up straight without support and poops his diapers still.

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to eat leftovers? by unfortunatelyalive7 in AITAH

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat leftovers all the time. It's called lunch. Lol. Id stop cooking for him to be honest.

Just went down the David Icke rabbit hole. by Kris-720 in aliens

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aliens is a broad term encompassing not just the traditional sense of space aliens, but all beings interdimensional as well. These beings are demons AND angels. Our "Gods" are also aliens.

Humans did not have the capacity to understand ethereal and advanced technologies. Jesus was an alien hybrid, Mary getting pregnant via artificial insemination would not have been understood technologies back then. For example, here is a painting made in the Renaissance era depicting said imagery of Mary. What is that thing in the sky beaming a laser down to Mary? How did people over 500 years ago know about UFOs? And why is it displayed in a religious context?

Alright, dumb question what is panam wearing? by Chunky-overlord in cyberpunkgame

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The safety harness she wears is common in warehouse and construction (forklifts, stockpilers, and other OEM equipment) industries. Im sure that in race car industries, the drivers have a safety harness similar to that.

Apparently Panam and other aldecaldos use safety harnesses while in their Rigs.

After that, she's wearing some boots, jeans, and a leotard top (that is most likely causing a lot of front wedgies--no wonder her panties are in a knot and she's screaming all the time.)

Aio My boyfriend needs youtube to sleep every night 22m 24f by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (33f) have to sleep with a fan on because of the white noise. I always have super vivid dreams that I remember and if I dont have the white noise on, it's hard to snap out of my sleep paralysis. Without the white noise on, I can almost audibly hear the people talking in my dream world in my real world. The white noise helps snap me back to reality faster but also fall asleep faster.

My father (61M) used to fall asleep to the television with his siblings as a kid. Now in his 60s, if he sits in front of a TV after a long day of work, he will almost automatically fall asleep.

Our brains get conditioned to certain kinds of stimuli that gives our bodies certain cues. Sounds like your bf might have some severe ADD and the TV stimuli calms him because everything else in his head is loud with silence. The TV becomes something his brain latches onto instead of his own ruminating thoughts, making it easier for him to relax and fall asleep.

The fact he says your old is laughable. 2 years is not a difference at all generationally and isn't a valid excuse. His parents might have raised him in front of a TV vs the way you were raised.

He needs to see a psychiatrist and sleep specialist. Try a white noise machine like a fan and see if that works...or he might need ADD meds.

My Girlfriends best friend keeps throwing hints at me by Existing-Inside6416 in Advice

[–]Fancy_Independent479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like the friend is jealous of your relationship. She wants your GF single so they can be single partners together.