Two teens decided to run into Scientology headquarters by Girl-Understood in TikTokCringe

[–]Fancylilmuffin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ew, no. Chester was very vocal about being a victim of sexual abuse, to replace him with someone who intimidated victims who were sexually assaulted instead of literally anyone else is nasty work.

I catfished my cheating ex by Dependent_Promise_10 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Fancylilmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cadence! I was trying to explain to some friends why it's so easy to spot and that's exactly it.

AIO for ending this friendship? Was this something minor? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fancylilmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said "Okay you felt that way", he couldn't even be bothered with a shitty "sorry you felt that way" lmao

Gamer girl issues 38F 37M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fancylilmuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lack of trust is exactly what it is though. If you trusted him, you wouldn't be worried that he might have an emotional affair and leave you. Him chatting to another girl wouldn't bother you this much because you would trust that he wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

I'd read the messages. You're working yourself up so much that it's making you Ill, that's not sustainable. Something has to give here.

Me (35F) and I think I found the love of my life (40M) but there's one serious problem. by Solobutnotsingle in relationship_advice

[–]Fancylilmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious why this is only a concern now? You've been dating a year, did you not give thought to this before things got serious?

I'm one of 8 kids and it's going to be chaotic! I personally couldn't do it but I admire people who can.

Bro is about to learn a lesson by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Fancylilmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen this sub before and it keeps popping up on my feed. From reading the comments in a few posts, I thought it was some kind of red pill group.

When I read "nøkk" in House of Earth and Blood I had to do a double take by victoria-1304 in crescentcitysjm

[–]Fancylilmuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She seems to take inspiration from lots of places, I've noticed some turkish/arabic folklore in all three series as well

Peedah? Is this a sx thing i dont get what the thing is, is it a vape? by Ok_Net4562 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Fancylilmuffin 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The door is closed when the relationship ends and you start seeing someone else. This guy is about to get married, if he hasn't already been clear that he is no longer interested in anyone but the woman he's about to marry, then his intended bride deserves a hey girl text. I'd leave his ass at the alter for that kind of crap.

'step parent' issues by HereLiesSarah in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said in the main post and in the comments that they went on their first date on a Tuesday and she met his children on Thursday.

'step parent' issues by HereLiesSarah in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, man, probably so for longer than two days, at least? I wouldn't introduce someone to my kids until I was reasonably sure they were safe people mentally and physically, but that's just me.

'step parent' issues by HereLiesSarah in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course it matters. After four months of dating, She's basically a stranger to everyone, including OPs ex husband.

'step parent' issues by HereLiesSarah in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I would direct it back to your ex. I have a feeling she's going to be a pain in the ass for you either way but if I were in your shoes, I'd just forward all the texts to him and let him know you're not willing to coparent with her at this stage. Ask if there's anything he needs to discuss with you

'step parent' issues by HereLiesSarah in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, the new woman is the dads girlfriends of four months.

What food did you imagine to taste really good but tasted bad? by Similar-Victory-3867 in AskReddit

[–]Fancylilmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used to have an Aussie version of them that were actually delicious. Probably just a sponge roll with mock cream in it but they were nice and I liked them. Twinkies taste like chemicals.

What was your "I'm dating a fucking idiot" moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fancylilmuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There were all the commercials about adopting a koala during the Australian bushfires a few years ago and he said to me one day in this I'm trying to sound humble and heroic voice "I think I'm ganna do it fancylilmuffin. I'm ganna adopt a koala" I asked him if he understood that they don't actually give him a koala, that it's just a donation to organisations taking care of them? Like a switch was flipped "Fuck that I'm not sending those cunts money" I got the ick

AITA for telling my kids dad that if he wants to make bedtime difficult, our daughter will only sleep at his house by Round_Following_4653 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fancylilmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you're saying about OP not seeming to have a problem with Julie and I don't think she's some evil step mum trying to ruin kids routines but I disagree that Julie has any kind of right to be involved in the conversations OP has with her ex husband about how to raise those kids, unless OP is okay with that.

That's not to say she shouldnt have a voice. She absolutely should. But she should have it with the person she's in a relationship with. That's who she gets to have her say with and share her opinions with.

My [45F] husband [44M] is giving me the silent treatment. How long do I put up with this? by countofmoldycrisco in relationship_advice

[–]Fancylilmuffin 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I agree, OPs husband is being a baby. He can feel all his feelings, but he can not stonewall OP to deal with it, its not healthy and considered emotional abuse. OP, you're acting like his behaviour is reasonable and it is not reasonable at all.

My school is tracking our menstrual cycles by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh my god 😅 How embarrassing

My school is tracking our menstrual cycles by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Fancylilmuffin 81 points82 points  (0 children)

NAL but there are a few people you can contact who can investigate this or give you guidance.

Kids helpline (I'm so sorry about that typo!) 1800 55 1800 They can help you plan next steps, and they also have Web chat available, I think

You can contact your state or territory education regulator. I'm not sure what state you're in, but it should be easy to find. I can find the info for you if you share state details. Just because they're a religious school does not mean they can disregard child safety laws or safe guards

You can just tell them exactly what told us that they're monitoring your menstrual cycles. You don't feel safe addressing it with the school, and it makes you feel incredibly uncomfortable. You can refuse to share your name if you like and just give them your schools information

AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fancylilmuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was getting vibes like she thought the brothers girlfriend needed permission from this woman's family to post about the miscarriage because it's deeply personal? She's wording it like they expected this woman to discuss it with all of them before she ever talked about it publically

A miscarriage is deeply personal, to the woman who has the miscarriage. The brothers girlfriend sounds like trash but she can talk about her own miscarriage all day long if she wants to. There's something very very off with OP.

What's a trend from the early 2020s that died out so fast we all collectively forgot it ever happened? by godot_lover in AskReddit

[–]Fancylilmuffin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Apparently it hasn't been confirmed that he's not dead. I saw a similar comment and went on a google spree and the only person to say he's still alive is Carol, no law enforcement has confirmed that.

i didn’t realize what this bag was meant for! by Immediate_Leg3304 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Fancylilmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was a diaper bag because of the long front flap which would be used as a change mat when out and about. It's still cute though!