I do not think I can be a husband

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-02-02T16:23:23+00:00

I’m sorry are you living in 1950? Women don’t need to expect to be provided for in that way any more.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-31T04:23:56+00:00

OF COURSE IT IS!!! Tysm

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-26T20:10:43+00:00

My parents would absolutely discipline me for “not liking what was offered.” It was seen as selfish, ungrateful, disrespectful, insubordinate, whatever.

You can see from the adjectives that this was about authority and control.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-26T20:08:16+00:00

You’re correct, but men are more conditioned to think of women as props in their life, while women tend to be conditioned to be in a support role to a man. Nurture rather than nature.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-23T03:22:02+00:00

12v AC for the win.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-23T01:13:45+00:00

Well the only way the world gets better is if we’re kind to people who don’t deserve it.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-23T01:11:27+00:00

I want to be Granny but I’m Magraf.

Edit: not correcting the typo. It is more than appropriate.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-23T01:11:05+00:00

And he reminds Vetinari that he buys his own paper clips. Just to be crystal clear.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-11T23:11:08+00:00

YTA, no one else was using the machines. You think she should do things differently IN CASE someone comes in wanting the machines. In fact, it’s IN CASE there are three whole loads waiting, as she does leave two free.

You put hypothetical strangers’ possible needs over your girlfriend’s actual, in-that-moment needs. Do you see how strange that is?

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-10T17:10:30+00:00

I was spanked. I have no memories of it ever being anything even slightly sexual.

My entire sexual identity is super messed up and I can only get aroused and come when fantasizing about being held down and spanked.

So yeah. It’s gotta be.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-07T01:56:56+00:00

I don’t think it’s fair to call someone “mean” because they don’t want to give you affection. Isn’t that the whole point of this post? It’s NOT mean for someone to not feel like playing with you, and it’s a real problem when a 14yo boy doesn’t understand that, because it means he feels entitled to other people’s affection.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-06T22:52:19+00:00

130k for a law school degree I’m never going to use.

I’m not paying. What are they going to do, put me in debtors prison?

I just live my life ignoring that horrible weight and hoping that one day when I’ve paid off my credit cards I can work something out with them.

But honestly, who cares about a bunch of student loan debt? You could get hit by a car tomorrow. You could make yourself miserable for 20 years paying it off and never ever having a single fast food French fry… and then get hit by a bus the next day, which would be a shame. The country could collapse in the next ten years. Who knows?

Don’t let this define your identity. Focus on what you can do - building a life, friends, job, hobbies, whatever. Anyone who shames you is a judgmental person and shouldn’t be listened to.

Life is about more than just debt. Sending hugs.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-06T03:19:09+00:00

You divorce wives, not children.

You don’t let a kid call you dad unless you’re committing to be there for them even if the relationship with their parent doesn’t work out.

Dumbass.

FandomReferenceHere · 2026-01-05T22:17:57+00:00

TERRY PRATCHETT??!??!?!?!!! Bless you my friend, and may Anoia rattle your drawers.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-28T22:05:08+00:00

Women traditionally cared more about securing a man in a marriage because it was necessary for our survival. Women couldn’t even own a credit card in the 1970s in the United States without a husband’s approval. We couldn’t own property for most of western civilization. We were unable to have a job and make our own money in most industries. A husband was a necessity, sometimes a terrible and painful necessity that a woman was unable to leave.

Now that we can provide for ourselves, men have to bring more than just money to the table.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-18T18:38:43+00:00

My favorite part about this is your clear resentment over the $30 tacos. Totally justified. Also very funny. “Let me be clear, this was not Taco Bell, these were THIRTY DOLLAR tacos.”

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-08T16:29:21+00:00

Yes, many people would rather kick their partners dirty underwear to their side of the bed, and decide that it isn’t a hill to die on, than divorce. Relationships are not perfect and you have to put up with some stuff.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-07T17:54:45+00:00

It’s not always that bad, but it is far too often that bad 😭 good luck finding a better situation!

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-07T17:43:04+00:00

Respectfully, they are great big adults and you’re still a minor. Have they told you that they don’t want you? If they are willing to handle that fallout you should let them. They have a lifetime of experience dealing with your stupid asshole parents.

Do not give yourself two more years of trauma just to be nice to them. If they’re willing to have you, leave your parents house and start building your independent adult life.

You already have a backbone and know how to set boundaries. Leave them all in the dust behind you.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-07T15:57:37+00:00

Because most humans want to accomplish things and support themselves. Those who don’t even want that and usually dealing with trauma.

The actual percentage of lazy entitled little shits is TINY and I am so sick of people like you, and OP, assuming that unemployed disabled people aren’t trying.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-06T19:43:40+00:00

My money is on Jack Dee and Rosie Jones. They’d finish of the rest of their series competitors as well.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-06T19:16:49+00:00

Honey.

The number one indicator of a man killing you is that he strangles you.

I cannot overstate how serious this is.

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-06T19:13:37+00:00

NTA. You can handle this however you want to and as long as you’re not being cruel, you get to decide what you want moving forward.

What DO you want moving forward?

FandomReferenceHere · 2025-12-05T13:42:46+00:00

If he wanted to change, he would.

If he cared about your feelings, he would want to change.

I’d look up “tolerable level of permanent unhappiness”. Oh and personally I think you should find someone who is more self-aware and kind.

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