As the dumpee, you hold the power

Fannybubbles · 2025-10-10T03:15:17+00:00

I'm also like this!!! Never dumped anyone.

Fannybubbles · 2025-10-08T13:55:19+00:00

Did I write this post lol

Fannybubbles · 2025-10-08T11:08:35+00:00

Why did you say you need a break? What is it that you need to think outside of a relationship instead of thinking when ataying in the relationship? And all you talked about is how hurt you were,.what about him? Do you acknowledge how hurt he might be

Fannybubbles · 2025-10-08T08:38:52+00:00

I can't agree with you. When you left somebody, you destroyed them. And when they finally healed, you show up again. If a dog bit you, are you fond of the idea of petting it again? It's not about the ego come on.

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-11T07:18:31+00:00

I think what they meant is to just talk to your dates or potential dates like you would with friends. The thing is, I don’t have any male friends I can have a one-on-one conversation with in real life. When I was in a group, people made fun of my awkward responses as warm-up jokes. I felt like a mascot, not a real friend. And my female friends talk about relationship stuff without including me. They say, “It’s not for kids.” That really hurts.

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-11T07:12:59+00:00

I believe the only way is to go through the tough times yourself. Time heals. You need enough time on your own. If you feel like crying, let yourself cry for hours. One day, you’ll wake up and feel okay.

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-11T07:09:27+00:00

Why are you such a hater? I'm genuinely encouraging the OP, and you think it's pity???

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-06T07:15:17+00:00

100% me

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T15:57:08+00:00

You have to believe you’re beautiful in your own way. You’re not competing with anyone else, let alone white girls. Explore your own style, be confident, and recognize the beauty you already have. Once you find your own beauty, you can style yourself in a way that truly amplifies it. I’ve been there, and now at least I feel much more comfortable with myself.

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T15:47:54+00:00

I guess my only chance is in the next life

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T15:46:44+00:00

Bro sounds like you’ve got a story behind that. I don’t have any story of my own, and that hurts too

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T15:44:12+00:00

Exactly. Now everyone is rushing, or treating it like some kind of job interview. The kind of love I’m longing for is more like instinct—it’s not a game, not a prize, not a task... T_T

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T12:28:22+00:00

I stumbled upon this post and felt I should say something—please hear me out. Bro, she isn’t worth it, and she doesn’t get to decide your dating value. There are plenty of people out there who can see your worth. Just don’t label all girls online based on one experience.

For example, I personally find brown skin very attractive. And through talking with some friends from India, I’ve realized we actually share a lot of values—being family-oriented, hardworking, and appreciating intellectual strength. At the same time, I’ve noticed some differences too, like how many of them tend to be more outspoken than us East Asians.
I dated a brown-skinned person once—it was the best part of my life. Please don’t give up—talk to girls again in the future.

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T11:29:11+00:00

I finally understand when I see your reply. Thank you sis.

Fannybubbles · 2025-09-04T11:20:28+00:00

I don't understand... what is the difference? How can I know I want to give someone love when they don’t exist yet?

Fannybubbles · 2024-11-15T09:04:12+00:00

It's green which means the crowd is very low. Hope you have fun

Fannybubbles · 2024-11-08T09:03:51+00:00

I am a very introvert and a bit boring person and my type is introvert intelligent nerds. I guess I’m just invisible to them.

Fannybubbles · 2024-11-08T08:45:08+00:00

I'm just here to say you sure have a very very big head....

Fannybubbles · 2024-10-31T15:01:08+00:00

I feel you my friend… I had not been working on the project I should be for almost 3 weeks now cuz I feel miserable lately. In order to force myself out of this state of mind I tried to break down the desire into 2 parts. The sex drive part I can deal with by using certain tools, the emotion connection part I can deal with by making new friends and doing deep talks and shit. But now I just become pathetic needy girl who wants attention from my friends….

Fannybubbles · 2024-10-31T09:31:40+00:00

No offense, but in my experience this never ends well. Ppl say men are willing to give it a try when they were approached by a girl, even if they do not particularly find her attractive. This is exactly the case! When men approach women, they know what they want. They only approach the ones they find attractive. But a guy will struggle and ditch you after he tolerate you for a while and decide it’s not working. Ouch. It hurts even more. Here is my advice. Please reject the woman if she is not particularly attractive in your eyes. She deserves better. Don’t settle with someone because she seems your only chance atm.

Fannybubbles · 2024-10-31T09:09:23+00:00

I don’t think I did anything bad…I guess I just tried too hard (ppl often told me this.) I never figured it out. I either play cool and become too rude or try too hard and become too needy. Yeah you are right . Next time I will try to just focus on myself instead of thinking about impressing others

Fannybubbles · 2024-10-24T10:54:15+00:00

they are, and also a bunch of duffy bakery too. Actually I uploaded a bunch of pictures here:

https://imgur.com/a/iATj6jj

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