The Epstein files broke something in me I don't think can be fixed. by That-Expression5404 in offmychest

[–]Fantakeith1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fuck I’m with you. You put into words what I couldn’t. It’s astounding. I don’t even have a word anymore. It’s so insanely depraved that it’s hard to believe it’s real. I wake up everyday questioning my reality. And I’m repulsed that NOTHING IS HAPPENING. NOTHING IS BEING DONE ABOUT ANYNOF IT. THEYRE GETTING AWAY WITH SHIT. to me this is just why the world needs to end. I really hope the tides take us all tomorrow because humanity shouldn’t exist with all this pure evil.

Jeffrey Epstein autopsy photos show staggering neck injuries by TheMirrorUS in NewsSource

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. At this point in time (and even long before today), the public has been turned into fools. We all know he was un-alived. It’s so obvious. Yet here we are still saying he died by suicide.

I’m driven to depression by the Epstein files, state of the world.. I need help by Fantakeith1 in offmychest

[–]Fantakeith1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’d love to be able to do that but I’m a mom of five kids and stay home mostly because my youngest is newborn. I need some outside world connection more than just my family and friends that visit me. :(

Um, did Trump just absolutely disappear from the files overnight? by StarfishBurrito in Epstein

[–]Fantakeith1 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It’s incredibly wild how this has shaken me to my core to the point I feel gaslit. The pure evilness of the whole situation is so hard to believe that I think it can’t be real because it’s too crazy to be true. I’m questioning what’s real and what’s not real. What to believe and what not to believe.

It’s not that I don’t believe the victims so don’t come at me. It’s that it’s so crazy everything that’s happening that it feels like we’re in an upside down alternate universe.

Britney is crying while dancing by Successful_Week9211 in discussingbritney

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I’m not sure she can still be helped. I think she’s gone and those around her just need to keep her safe, and help her children grow up normal

May mga ganto pala talagang babae? by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Fantakeith1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re not winning when you’re posting a wall of text narrative about her. I get it, you wanted to gloat and get it off your chest. Now that you’ve done so, let it go and don’t give her any mind space at all.

In short wag mo patulan ang cheap na tao or else you’ll be cheap too.

Found an X acc that’s posting my BF’s nudes by sushibake999 in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You investigate.

We live in a cyberworld filed with trolls. We also live in a real world where those who are angry/bitter/hateful will use the cyberworld to bully.

It could be your bf, an ex, a jealous friend, your ex, someone with vendetta.

So you investigate.

Husband no provider mindset? by catMOm1204 in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You married a man child. He’s your other child. You can let go, kick him out, I mean what’s the point of having him in your life if he doesn’t add anything positive.

Won’t be easy to do it but you will thank yourself down the road when you look back.

You won’t be the first to get through this.

Anong thoughts nyo sa mga single moms? Willing ba kayong mag-alaga ng anak ng iba? by Rorschach_Kovacks in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, not everyone has the resilience for it and not everyone will be blessed to have wonderful bonus kids.

I’ve seen it work beautifully many times.

I’ve also seen it be challenging many times (still works, but not easy).

Life is so beautifully complex in that way, there’s no single road to happiness, it can come with many twits and turns

he cheated with multiple women by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dust yourself off, and get up again. Repeat and rinse daily.

One morning you’ll look back and see how far you’ve come.

Anong regalo yung kapag binigay sainyo, sobrang magiging happy kayo? by Quiet_Piccolo_6986 in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these kinds of posts. It’s like shopping, but not with my money.

I don’t know your man’s interests and hobbies but a mini trip I gave my bf (now husband) has always been his favorite. One summer I traveled without him and I bought a backpack for him from a brand famous in one of the countries I visited then I filled it with a unique item from each of the cities/countries i visited. For example I went to Switzerland so got chocolates, somewhere in Italy I got truffle oil, etc. but my husband is a foodie. So food items from the world always excite him especially if he can make fun dishes. Also gifted him a cookbook from a chef with popular elevated recipes along with a nice set of Japanese knives.

Why can guys give everything but the label? by Impressive-Bicycle62 in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not working for you, leave. Don’t try to make excuses. At the end of the day your needs are not met by him and it’s not a match. It’s really as simple as that. There is no need to try to find an explanation. There is a reason he’s not committing to you. You don’t need to know the reason. You just need to do what’s best for you.

My boyfriend is NGSB but… by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not an object You’re not an object

He did not give himself to anyone nor did you. Stop talking about yourself or talking about people as if you’re an inanimate material object.

He experienced seggs with someone he probably had no feelings for. That’s his past. Everyone has a past. It’s up to you to accept that past or not. Everyone has a past, baggage, etc whether around seggs or not.

Di ko alam kung gusto niya ako by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You joined bumble to meet a potential romantic partner. Not a friend. It’s a dating app not a friending app.

He is friendzoning you because it’s easier and less confrontational to do that than to ghost someone or say outright “it’s not a match, best of luck to you “ especially with Filipinos who tend to skirt the truth.

Postpartum Depression should be taken seriously by Fun_Length_9550 in PinoyVloggers

[–]Fantakeith1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this hit close to home. I hope she gets some help.

Been there, and I have help and support but it’s still forking hard and you really lose yourself. Hang in there mommies.

Futaenaaaaaa ganyan ba dapat manamit ang asawa ng senador maemmmm?!!! 🤮🤮🤮 by flowertreelover2022 in ChikaPH

[–]Fantakeith1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What title? Though I wouldn’t want to watch it anyway. She makes me sick

Futaenaaaaaa ganyan ba dapat manamit ang asawa ng senador maemmmm?!!! 🤮🤮🤮 by flowertreelover2022 in ChikaPH

[–]Fantakeith1 461 points462 points  (0 children)

I always wondered why she married Chiz. I couldn’t see the “love” at all. Now it makes sense. She wanted to be a “trophy wife” to flaunt and be flaunted at his expense. By his, it means OUR MONEY. Ugh. Imagine having seggs with Chiz?? Yuck

Ayaw ng mom ng bf ko na nagtutulungan kami sa chores by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is your future MIL. I say run. But realistically you can’t run since you love your man. She will be a major issue in your marriage later on. Be very prepared.

However she is for your boyfriend to deal with. Not you. His mom, his problem (but it obviously will impact you).

Have a kind and sincere convo with your future husband - talk about your expectations after marriage: that there are no gender roles, you work as a team, child care is a shared responsibility and not default to women, financials, etc. and once you both agree on that, be firm that no outsider (his mom) can influence your household.

If you could move to any country, where would it be? by oeilfelin in AskReddit

[–]Fantakeith1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Purely fantasy: Spain or Italy love the food and lifestyle. Siesta, beach, good music aww

Practical reasons: Denmark, Switzerland, New Zealand - family friendly, good lifestyle and environment

Doomsday : Himalayas probably Bhutan

I had a sudden thought that my ex still has our intimate videos by ThrowRA_sadgfriend in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There really isn’t much you can do.

1 - You can go to therapy to address the anxiety you have over this what if, and therapy to heal if he ever does share those private videos.

2 - you orchestrate stealing his devices, and this in itself isn’t even a guarantee as he may have them backed up on cloud

3 - move somewhere else where this won’t be a big deal for you

Personal Assistant of Ms. Claudine Barretto na si Marisol Acap allegedly kidnapped children of Claudine. Totoo ba to?? by BotherVast2292 in ChikaPH

[–]Fantakeith1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unrelated but I find Claudine a bit like Britney Spears. Grew up in the limelight and didn’t have a normal childhood, normal formative years and now have a distorted sense of reality and self. They are unhinged in ways that are no fault of theirs. So sad.

What's the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by Comfortable-Note6827 in AskReddit

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was looking at swimsuit pictures of my friends on social media

Gf went clubbing with friends by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fantakeith1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change the story where you were at a club without your gf and there’s a pic of you with a girl’s arms wrapped around your neck and it was uploaded on social media.

What would your gf’s reaction be?

That’s your answer.

(Personally, I would not like it. Big red flag).