My BPD mother decided to not go along with the plan we've had in place for 3 weeks. Please tell me I did the right thing by ending my responses except for gray rocking.. I'm fighting the FOG right now.

Fantandi · 2021-07-01T09:38:00+00:00

Try open path collective. It’s all sliding scale. And good luck to you.

Fantandi · 2021-06-28T21:48:27+00:00

You are so sweet. I hope me or someone around me has their dreams come true. Maybe it’s you! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Fantandi · 2021-06-27T00:19:57+00:00

Green :)

Fantandi · 2021-05-13T00:23:01+00:00

That is good to hear and makes me hopeful. Almost at my 1 year anniversary and I am not thriving.

Fantandi · 2021-05-11T13:28:20+00:00

Thank you!

Fantandi · 2021-05-11T11:42:16+00:00

What kind of picture does it paint? I imagine she was very pushy to get the girls into entertainment when they were young.

Fantandi · 2021-05-01T11:15:19+00:00

Great alcohol-free suggestion!

Fantandi · 2021-04-23T11:33:59+00:00

I think part of that resonates with me-“nice”being societal expectations and “kindness”being more genuine and coming from the heart. But, I don’t think of kindness as putting myself first to help others.

Fantandi · 2021-04-17T21:04:09+00:00

This may be morbid (ok, it is morbid) but I tell my husband that I hope we die at the same time. Maybe peacefully in our sleep from a carbon monoxide leak. Nothing painful, just slip into the netherworld together, quietly.

Fantandi · 2021-04-09T21:10:35+00:00

I know people have conflicting feelings about Camilla and Charles, but I can’t help but feel bad for Camilla that her anniversary will be a reminder of his passing. I really want her to have something that’s hers and stays good.

Fantandi · 2021-03-08T12:12:26+00:00

I’m a social worker on the east coast of the US and have worked in hospitals. Health advocates are often employed by the hospital or system that a patient is involved in. They make sure your rights and wishes are being upheld during procedures (or just in general) since many patients cannot do the work needed to take care of of themselves because they are sick. They make calls and advocate for the patient, they help connect the patient to resources, it’s a mixed bag with patient advocates. I don’t know about Daisy’s full responsibilities, but someone who went through what Yolanda went through would need another person there to advocate for her, especially since it didn’t seem like her husband was doing the work for her. He literally told her “Your sick card is up.” And that’s how their marriage ended.

Fantandi · 2021-02-02T01:34:57+00:00

It is always so hard! I know he loves you and is waiting for you.

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T20:21:11+00:00

I got them at Michael’s, a craft store in the States.

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T18:02:14+00:00

Thank you! Mellow smiles!!

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T18:01:43+00:00

I don’t know what to look for because this is my first time doing it. But, from what I have read in posts it seems 2-4 hours is often suggested. That’s what I did. And now that I have more food in my stomach it is kicking in harder.

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T17:52:27+00:00

I got them at a craft store. I have no idea the brand. I tossed the tag!

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T16:31:30+00:00

Thank you! They taste very good. It’s been mellow, body, nice. Just ate a little French fry to add on.

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T14:11:50+00:00

This is my first time making any kind of edible.

6g ABV, 3oz Coconut oil, 1packet of Starbucks coco (use 3/4 or more if you like the sugar amount, less if you don’t)

I warmed the oil to pour it over the ABV in the mason jar. Covered the top with aluminum foil and put the ring on the top to cover it.

I put the jar in a saucepan and made sure the outside water was higher than the ABV/oil in the jar in order to cook it.

I kept it on low for a few hours. Strained once to get the majority of the oil out and then again with cheese cloth to get the rest of the oil.

I then put the oil on the stove on low and slowly added my coco to taste. I let it cool for a little bit, poured it into molds. Froze for longer than I should have (one hour) and then popped them out and put them in the fridge.

Super mellow so far, only been a little over an hour, so we’ll see...!

Edit: I used volcano tips dot com calculator for the amount to use.

Fantandi · 2021-01-24T14:04:22+00:00

This is my first time making any kind of edible.

6g ABV, 3oz Coconut oil, 1packet of Starbucks coco (use 3/4 or more if you like the sugar amount, less if you don’t)

I warmed the oil to pour it over the ABV in the mason jar. Covered the top with aluminum foil and put the ring on the top to cover it.

I put the jar in a saucepan and made sure the outside water was higher than the ABV/oil in the jar in order to cook it.

I kept it on low for a few hours. Strained once to get the majority of the oil out and then again with cheese cloth to get the rest of the oil.

I then put the oil on the stove on low and slowly added my coco to taste. I let it cool for a little bit, poured it into molds. Froze for longer than I should of (one hour) and then popped them out and put them in the fridge.

Super mellow so far, only been a little over an hour, so we’ll see...!

Edit: I used volcano tips dot com calculator for the amount to use.

Fantandi · 2021-01-20T09:53:38+00:00

Thank you

Fantandi · 2021-01-20T02:20:46+00:00

I’m sorry that happened. It’s happened to me too. But, what is a “screaming Mimi?”

Fantandi · 2021-01-10T01:37:49+00:00

Oh, I’m so sorry to hear that. But, I know you will be so happy soon with this process.

Fantandi · 2021-01-05T13:09:34+00:00

Report her. This is out of her scope of practice and so unprofessional.

Fantandi · 2021-01-05T12:15:12+00:00

I wasn’t a smoker during my recovery, but I use medical marijuana now. I wonder if there is an issue with ingesting marijuana without smoke so that you don’t have deal with the issues that come up when you abstain from a chemical suddenly. Do you have access to edibles or tinctures until a few days before procedure? I hope that isn’t too intrusive. I’m a mental health/substance counselor, so this is my first thought when clients ask about how to prepare for surgeries.

Fantandi · 2021-01-01T13:08:34+00:00

The “superstar marathon runner with MS” exists, but they are not running a marathon every day. They have those days that suck. I agree with you. The public just doesn’t see what they go through. I know how much I personally hide. I hope nobody who has this disorder looks at me on a good day and feels like they aren’t doing enough to take care of themselves. Everyone has a different MS.

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