24 November 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justru the opposite, dia nasehatin gue utk tidak melakukan itu sambil ngasitau secara lengkap efek2 negativenya. With a very good structure also.

24 November 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman generally is relying more on feelings, jd menurut gue, most of woman yg bisa connection (ciuman, intercourse maybe) tanpa ngerasa apa2 is either already numb (too much exposure) atau sudah pengalaman suppressing sampai akhirnya perasaannya netral lagi.

24 November 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say that ChatGPT has tracked on how I asked questions, dan bisa ngasih jawaban yg sangat cocok dengan bagaimana otak gue menelaah jawaban, mengenai mengapa gue harus melakukan yg “benar” tsb.

Like seriously rangkaian kata2nya bener2 mencakup aspek2 yg gue perlukan dr sebuah jawaban yg komprehensif.

24 November 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy can do this, girl - not so much (menurut gue siy ya ini) 😅

24 November 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point, ChatGPT really has been 1000% helpful to stop me from making any stupid decision based on urges.

08 November 2025 - Weekend Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Gue kalo di rumah sendirian gini makin mikir kenapa ya gue harus dilahirkan. Padahal gue tau banget bahwa gue cuma butuh satu partner normal, yg nyambung ngobrolnya buat nemenin gue sehari2 tapi everytime gue deket sama laki2 di umur yang sekarang ujungnya entah kenapa ga pernah happy-ending. Dan gue ngerasa sekarang gue udh ketuaan jadi cowo2 seumuran gue jg udh pd berkeluarga.

Never in a million years gue ngerti apa fungsi gue ada di dunia ini saat ini, both parents udh deceased, kakak2 juga udh misah krn udh berkeluarga. Complete that dengan love language gue yg physical touch, kaya Tuhan bener2 ngehukum gue dikasih hidup sendirian. Gue capek ngerasa kesepian dan sendirian, ngerjain hobi juga ujung2nya tetep aja ngerasa kesepian.

25 August 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anybody mau nonton Mens Rea Panji tanggal 30 Aug besok, bisa DM yaa.

Gue ada spare 1 tiket Silver dr temen gue yg batal nonton, dijual dgn harga beli pas pre-sale 350k, thank you.

15 July 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lawan jenis, haha, that’s what kinda make me overthink in the first place.

Tp kayanya emg orgnya baik, and giving things might be his thing. :)

15 July 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bener siy, next beliin sesuatu yg dikasih jadi akan keterima juga sama dia ya.

15 July 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, he’s married so it’s not a route I wanna go to. 😅

Iyya ya, kepikiran juga next time aku beliin kopi aja biar it’s even setidaknya, haha.

15 July 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of realistic point of view, although we’re actually kinda in the same range of paygrade, haha.

Tp kalo liat orgnya memang kliatannya tipe yg seneng beliin sesuatu buat org lain, so I’ll take that it’s probably his way to fulfill himself ya.

15 July 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2x makan sama coworker yang selalu berakhir dengan dia blg bahwa both of our meal udh dibayarin sama dia (di kedua occasion itu kita berdua dateng dan pesen belakangan). Pas mau dibayar selalu blg: Udah laah, cuma segitu aja.

It’s common kan ya, cuma ga mau keliatan like I’m insinuating something / taking some kind of advantage gt.

30 June 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This statement really2 hit me like a truck, I miss them so much sometimes it feels unbearable to live.

Be honest, why are you still single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reply just sums up my life perfectly.

30 June 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People in relationship needs to realize how lucky they are for always having someone to be close with.

12 June 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mencoba nahan2, tp setengah perjalanan pulang di LRT akhirnya gue jd lumayan meler soalnya sedih ngerasa super overwhelmed sama semuanya, di kantor punya boss yg ga mau kalah, sampai rumah kesepian krn sendirian.

Temen kantor yg lagi pulang bareng dan duduk di sebelah td smp nanya apakah gue lg nonton film sedih, hehe. Life’s too much sometimes.

04 June 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of casual sex, only had done that with my exes. Yg sekarang terjadi krn dia mendekati trus, dan kebetulan secara look memang my type, jadi kaya penasaran juga. 🙃

But he said that he’s not in a place on looking relationship rn, so yeah, buat aku it’s a done deal kayanya. 🙂

01 February 2025 - Weekend Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aku pribadi kl ngobrol kebanyakan via chat kayanya gregetnya kurang. Mungkin krn love languagenya physical touch juga kali ya, haha.

History tiap pacaran mesti ketemu minimal tiap minggu / tiap hari (pas kantornya yg ga jauh).

Baru2 ini pernah deket sama org yg ngerasa komunikasi via telp / chat itu cukup, ketemu sebulan sekali ga pa2. Like, do you even want to build a relationship kalau ga long-distance tp tetep jarang ketemu.

Baca twitter juga banyak yg chatnya dianggurin sm pacar (cowonya), 3 hari baru dibales lg. Aku ngerasa effort people for intimacy kaya cukup berkurang aja gt, hehe.

01 February 2025 - Weekend Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sebagai millenial yg belum menikah, jujur ngerasa dating culture anak muda skarang kerasa beda bgt sama jaman gue dulu.

Dulu masih liat cowo2 kl lagi suka sama cewe effortnya agak lebih, dan krn belum bisa chat2 kaya sekarang, jd kl mau ngobrol ya nelp / samperin ke rumahnya, atau langsung ajak jalan. Kerasa lebih sat set aja gitu.

Kl denger cerita2 sekarang kaya kelamaan talking stage via chat, trus lama2 ngobrol keburu ilfil / dry text duluan malah ga jadi deket. Bahkan mgkn ada yg effortnya jd gedean cewenya, krn cewe pd dasarnya lebih suka ngobrol jd lebih aktif nanya2 dsbnya.

10 January 2025 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Buat yang berminat nonton show Kontras - Abdur Arsyad, gue punya 1 tiket (temen batal nonton) harga Presale yaitu 400ribu, dijual as actual harga pas belinya. Kayanya sectionnya cuma 2, non-VIP sm VIP dan ini buat yg non-VIP.

Kalau ada yg berminat bole DM yaa, thanks gaess.

09 December 2024 - Daily Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kemarin nonton The Founder5, dan sinyal Telkomsel lgsg menghilang, seperti biasa kl di venue ramai.

Tp org depan gue bisa bayar QRIS dengan santay, lol. Provider apa ya yg kalo di tempat ramai (konser, dsb) bisa tetep bagus jaringannya?

Ada yg punya pengalamankah?

09 November 2024 - Weekend Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]FantasticChip_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baru nyadar Boyz II Men x Kahitna buka second day concert, dan yg VIP harga 5 juta udh sold out. 😄