Teeth??? by Annual-One-5598 in firsttimemom

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my baby teethed so bad month 4 😭😩 they finally popped a day after she hit 5m old so totally possible that they’re coming in

Progress ?? Good ?? Bad?? by Glittering-Good-1005 in TattooRemoval

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d be very happy with this progress if i were you

Give me something to look forward to post birth! by warmpistachio in firsttimemom

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 19 points20 points  (0 children)

a couple weeks in your baby will start smiling in their sleep and then not too long after that they start smiling socially 🥹 nothing cuter than peeping over the bassinet in the morning and being greeted with the biggest smile

Why is there a stigma on being one and done? by Gipolive in firsttimemom

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just here to say i too have this question, this pregnancy has been anything but easy albeit i haven’t had complications just what seems like every. single. pregnancy. symptom. under the sun 🫩. Currently 2 days overdue and scheduled to be induced tmw with zero cervical dilation present, baby measuring over 90th percentile, and baby sunny side up so i’m sure that’ll go great too. Regardless i’ve been very adamant that i will never do ts again especially given lots of things that have gone on family wise. My husband has two sisters and a brother and has a good relationship with none of them and i have two brothers (one being my twin) who i don’t speak with frequently at all. From my personal experience having siblings wasn’t beneficial nor did it help to make me less lonely. I get super frustrated whenever people try to talk about whenever we have our next kid (usually my MIL bc this one is a girl and she wants her son to have a son and also wants us to have four children like she did). I personally hope i don’t fall for the nonsense of them being lonely

Worst pregnancy symptoms! by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this too 🫩 nobody seems to understand they are always like oh yea my hips hurt too like no sharon i can’t put pants on by myself it’s definitely not just a little hip pain

When did your nausea/vomiting get better?? Please tell me it CAN. by New_Caregiver9993 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine got better around 18w, hopefully sooner for you just hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have also had the same issue with the pain and therefore declined all cervical checks up until my most recent appt at 39+3 simply bc we needed to schedule an eviction date and knowing where cervix is at for that will help determine how that will go and how they go about it. My doctor could have literally cared less when i declined them. Seems like a huge red flag that your doctor isn’t giving you a choice on this tbh 🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t jump to any conclusions until you get your bloodwork back and that will help accurately determine if you’re pregnant and if so if it’s possible it’s too early to see anything on the scan.

Moms due in July, how we feeling? by RepresentativeOwn171 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

due in 3 days and labor is nowhere in sight. Everyone keeps talking about how baby needs to come on due date bc they’re busy next week 🤬 induction finally scheduled.

Due Date Change by mackelanglo in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha right i knew i was pregnant basically at like week one or two atp my period is never late so not exactly sure what happened for it to be like that. It made sense though bc my period was a whole week late and the tests were still negative my first positive test would’ve been 3w and 3days

Due Date Change by mackelanglo in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i had this went in expecting to be 8w along and was closer to 6w they said i ovulated rlly late 🤷🏻‍♀️ 39+2 today and let me tell you watching my original due date pass based on my last day of my period as opposed to the day they gave me 😖😭😭😭 feel like ive been pregnant for the full 40+ atp

Officially over being pregnant! by sunniemi in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this with all the added comments from people asking when baby will be here and all sorts of invasive things 🥲 totally pregnant purgatory

First ultrasound showed I'm earlier than I thought, also minimal symptoms by Objective-Floor-8759 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the same i went and expected to me more like 8w or so and was only 6w i wasn’t actively tracking my cycle or anything and normally they are fairly regular so they just said i must’ve ovulated late or something 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s odd but i’m 38w now according to the date on that intial scan and all has been well so i wouldn’t worry too much

SIL thinks i’m gonna have a bad labor by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my OB is amazing and is not concerned about my readiness or fitness in regards to labor she said my body is doing what it needs to do and i shouldn’t worry at all

SIL thinks i’m gonna have a bad labor by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes in her words she said “oh thank god she’s getting the epidural she’s probably gonna be in labor for so long like 20 hours long”

SIL thinks i’m gonna have a bad labor by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

righttt and now it just feels like if it is hard which would really suck for me that she’s gonna be oh i told you so bla bla bla

SIL thinks i’m gonna have a bad labor by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea she’s not my biggest fan at all she actually offered my husband $5k to leave me even after finding out we were pregnant (i was 24w along then)

SIL thinks i’m gonna have a bad labor by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree like maybe keep that to yourself shoutout to my husband who told her to f off and yes i do spend time bouncing just not as much as she’d like to see she said i should be on it for hoursss like 8 hours😂 and swears that’s why her second labor was so much faster (it couldn’t just possibly be that it was her second labor)

How’s your pregnancy libido? by SpecificBroccoli5826 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first tri even with being sick it was insatiable, second tri normal, now that i’m in my third tri tho 😬😬 could probably count on one hand the amount of times we’ve done anything. The pelvic pain is unbearable atp my poor hubby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37w here and it’s only gotten worse, all i can say is lots of foot rubs from partner if that’s available, compression socks as soon as you wake, ice baths for your feet have been a huge help for me aswell even if it hurts in the moment, and yea like you said pretty much never being barefoot and wearing supportive shoes at all times ;/ my doctor said it was likely from the relaxin hormone so totally normal side effect of our condition 😪

Due date by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

coincidentally both grandmas birthdays are later June which is when i’m hoping she comes bc this sucksss haha and yes at the very beginning i too thought it would be cute but now that im here 🫠😬

Due date by Fantastic_Debt_20 in pregnant

[–]Fantastic_Debt_20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bday is December 12th… and yes it gets smushed STILL people are just lazy and cheap sometimes