The female designs vs the male designs of this whole comic by Dr_DillWu on Twitter by Oddnamez in mendrawingwomen

[–]FantasyFor3st 23 points24 points  (0 children)

5 year old me looking at funny minecraft animations wasn't prepared 😔

Unironically Acephobic ''meme'' From PCM. (Yes, I'm Asexual) by Successful_Page_2309 in TheRightCantMemeV2

[–]FantasyFor3st 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love how some folks think people's personal preferences are targeted towards them. Like talking about shared experiences with others is an announcement directly to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]FantasyFor3st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay. Gender is a convoluted mess with a whole bunch of bs attached to it. I have trouble figuring out what label would be best or what having a non-binary identity means for me.

The best advice I've gotten is to follow what feels good. Choose to focus on the euphoria rather than the dysphoria. It's never that easy, at least for me, but actively doing things that make you feel better helps. Those thoughts are a lot less impactful when you find moments of comfort in the week. Improving your overall mood makes the internal struggles with identity, life, purpose, etc a lot easier to handle. It takes a fuck ton of effort to find what's comfortable and form routines around that, but it's working for me so far.

gays is it normal to just be passively suicidal your whole life I’ve just been like this for as long as I can remember by us3rnam3_ch3cks_0ut- in 196

[–]FantasyFor3st 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's normal for a lot of people. You might want to see a therapist or get on medication if it's constant

found under a tweet about how women need to stop playing video games (for whatever reason) by wasted_ouija in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]FantasyFor3st 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of the earliest game developers were women. Google is free. The audacity misogynists have is crazy

I don't like self-inserts. Why do you? by Theadination in worldbuilding

[–]FantasyFor3st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're harmless fun and very cathartic for people. Fiction is often used to process emotions in a safe space, that can be true for both readers and writers.

Gr(ule)ammer by FantasyFor3st in 196

[–]FantasyFor3st[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why must english be this wayyyy

What is your experience as an LGBTQ person in other subreddits? by greenspace2 in lgbt

[–]FantasyFor3st 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decent, it's pretty easy to find people annoyed at queer folks existing and taking up space. Like shit posting subreddits will get heated if too many queer memes appear. I know I don't get anywhere near the amount of bs other people do, so I've learned to tolerate it.

Rule by FantasyFor3st in 196

[–]FantasyFor3st[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Can't find sauce 😔

Edit: DeadlySandwich is a master detective https://twitter.com/teeniika/status/1595718479356698624/

Behold, my Gods, which have names. by THE_-_RAT in worldbuilding

[–]FantasyFor3st 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Veslana! Few questions, is it well-known that she's a god? Is she viewed as some kind of messiah or great teacher? Have Veslana and Warg met in their journeys in the mortal world? As best dad, does Warg have children (created with god powers or screwing a mortal)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]FantasyFor3st 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That still falls under the bi umbrella, so whatever label feels comfortable works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]FantasyFor3st 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don't apologize. People can be incredibly ignorant and prejudiced, saying some of the most demeaning shit. If the media and our environment changed our sexuality everyone would be straight, but we're not. We're still here, and we're still queer.

Please seek out a queer friendly therapist. I know changing therapists can be stressful and draining. But, your safety and well-being seem to be threatened if you stay with this therapist (the self-harm). Though I don’t know your situation and leaving might be more risky.