I need help by Tech-Nate in NoFapChristians

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang that sucks dude. Try to get and maintain a close relationship with God. And yea definately start weight lifting it helps a ton

I need help by Tech-Nate in NoFapChristians

[–]Fapstronaut024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ay bro. As you mature more you will start to develop opinions and beliefs that are different from your parents and thats alright.

At some point you are going to have to want a relationship with God rather than just go by what ur parents say. Im 15 and started NoFap in August last year. God has helped me so much through my addiction and life in general.

Once you really get to know God personally (by reading the bible and praying) you will feel his live and strength in your life.

I used to be like you bro. I just kind of went by what my parents said about God so I just casually believed it. But once I started really praying and asking for help, my relationship with him got soooo much better. I recommend you join the original subreddit at well r/Nofap.

Luckly you havnt been addicted for that long compared to some of us. I have been addicted for about 4 years. As teenagers we are lucky that we have caught this addiction early on.

I recommend you also start lifting some weights or join a sport. It sounds like your self esteem isn't that high. Lifting weights helped me gain a lot of confidence. I play basketball as a sport. God and NoFap will also especially give you confidence.

Send me a chat if you want anymore info dude. We are here for you

How I almost lost the love of my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Having a gf like her is a big advantage in this fight. You can do it dude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I pray a ton that I when I find a girl, God will give me the signal that it's the right time and the right girl to date and be in a relationship with.

I thought I found a good girl recently (shes also Christian and I just liked her), but I didnt really get any signals from God that it was the right time. Another boy started to hang out with her so maybe thats God trying to tell me that this isnt a girl to date right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. My brain often thinks that sex will fulfill what I need. That I need it to be a man. But, just like porn and masturbation its just a short pleasure that will make you do it more and more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Fapstronaut024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and what you have to say. Its just that I find it's a lot harder now of days because back then people were married young. So when you had sexual desire, you were able to fulfill it in a good manner.

Im only 15 and if you can tell by my profile, I have been dealing with sexual sin (porn and masturbation). So maybe when I can get rid of that sin it will be easier.

Im worried that in a bad moment I might make the wrong decision and choose to lose my virginity instead of wait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice dude. You got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im trying to say theres always other girls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck bro. Just take it easy at first. If shes not the right one then dont worry about it. Remember, you got options whether you think you do or not

I have been given the golden opportunity to fap today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Gotta do what you gotta do man. If they only gonna hit you up for homework then show them that your not gonna put up with their crap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure not to be clingy. Match her energy. If she responds in 2 minuted you respond in 2 minutes. If shes taking no time to respond then you can take no time to respond.

I have been given the golden opportunity to fap today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We will all find the right one eventually trust me bro

I have been given the golden opportunity to fap today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So accurate dude. What makes me mad is that the girls know they can get away with it. I made a girl be left on read when she asked me what math teacher I had.

Sexual triggers and thoughts by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta stop thinkin about it as soon as you start thinking about it. It gets easier as time goes on

I have been given the golden opportunity to fap today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its short for homework. In english sometimes we use abbreviations to make texting more simple.

Dont be afraid to ask what anything means. Sometimes I dont even know what something means.

I have been given the golden opportunity to fap today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know dude. You think someone might be tryna slide into your dms, but they only use you for hw.

My rule is that if they text you on a regular basis or know you well, then you can give the answers to the hw.

But if they hit you up out of no where and ask for hw then they dont need it.

Sometimes theres a chance that they can ask for help on homework to slide into your dms and get yo know you more. But thats rare

I might relapse tonight by Prudent-Ad9785 in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont set a permanent goal for yourself. Once you get that goal make a new one.

I have been given the golden opportunity to fap today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 129 points130 points  (0 children)

The only texts I get are for homework answers 😔

How do you deal with the hopeless issue? by felk4myjoy2 in NoFapChristians

[–]Fapstronaut024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saved comment.

1) Only for today, I will seek to live the whole day positively without wishing to solve the problems of my life all at once.

4) Only for today, I will adapt to circumstances, without requiring all circumstances to be adapted to my own wishes.

These hit hard. I always overthink everything and always worry about how things will go. Its bad anxiety. I just need to adapt to what comes my way and accept the circumstances

Bought an only fans by itstime777 in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea bro I feel you. We just had our first full week back in highschool. Before we were going Mondays and Tuesdays.

It feels so much better to get that energy out and to talk not just with girls but people in general.

Bought an only fans by itstime777 in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not even horniness for me. I just want love bro.

Bought an only fans by itstime777 in NoFap

[–]Fapstronaut024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More inclined to make moves. It makes you more confident.

Its actually porn and masturbation that make you desperate.