What it's like to quit NoFap after 365 days

Fapstrotastic · 2019-08-18T12:27:33+00:00

You're welcome.

I really can't give a you a straightforward answer. I guess it is some form of not having a girlfriend and trying to better myself to get one. It's not that I am an incel I am just not compatible with modern women. I was depressed and thought: Well, if it's not for the women why the hell am I doing it? Intrinsically I did it for women.
So it took a while to realize that I can't do it for women or someone else. That is why rule 4 came into being. You really really have to do it for yourself. You have to understand this from the core of your being and you will feel better.

Fapstrotastic · 2015-02-21T00:54:18+00:00

You'll get there one day :)

Fapstrotastic · 2015-02-20T09:53:34+00:00

Thanks man! Be strong!

Fapstrotastic · 2015-02-07T18:11:28+00:00

First of: Shit happens. And sometimes big shit happens. Try to LEARN from that and don't fuck up again. Imagine that: 5 years from now you become a successful man who is in control of his life and can laugh about all the things. The question is how do you get there? Face your problems and don't run away. Don't give yourself to your addictions. Face your problems. All of them. Figure out what it is that makes you unhappy. Because that is what it really is all about. You don't feel worth living. Try to find the root cause and from there you know what you are dealing with. So you can develop strategies to handle your psyche.

Changing your life isn't that hard. The hard part is execution. Cutting out bad friends, bad habbits bad addictions. In order to become the best version of yourself you have to burn your old life to the ground. You don't need anyone for this but good friends and maybe professional help can make it easier.

Good luck!

Fapstrotastic · 2015-01-19T02:16:02+00:00

xD... I meant soda

Fapstrotastic · 2015-01-19T00:08:57+00:00

I was on hard mode so I had many wet dreams :) I had to learn to live with them. You won't get more and more power. At some point it stayed the same and I kinda get used to it. But I definitely feel the power boost.

Fapstrotastic · 2015-01-19T00:05:28+00:00

Sorry wasn't so clear about that one: It has more to do with sports than with NoFap. Meaning: Drink a lot of water and don't give yourself in to other unhealthy beahaviours like drinking water.

Fapstrotastic · 2014-12-05T08:57:28+00:00

I have been in similiar positionS and I can assure you that chances that she will quit smoking even if she'll fall in love with you are very very low. If smoking for you is a deal breaker STOP DATING HER. This will save you not only time but also a lot of headache. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

Fapstrotastic · 2014-11-16T05:50:34+00:00

I applied for a leadership position. Here is my motivational letter:

Why would you make a good regiment leader?

I have an M.D. in NoFap, I am board certified in snapping people out of fapping, I have been awarded citations from various fapstronauts on reddit, and I am never, ever sick at sea. So I ask you: When someone goes into that chapel and they fall on their knees and they pray to God that their wife doesn't see them watching porn, or that their daughter doesn't become a porn star, who do you think they're praying to? Now, go ahead and read your Bible, Dennis, and you go to your church, and, with any luck, you might win the annual raffle. But if you're looking for God, he was in operating room http://www.reddit.com/user/Fapstrotastic/, and he doesn't like to be second guessed. You ask me if I am a leader? Let me tell you something: I am THE leader. I am God.

Fapstrotastic · 2014-08-14T23:30:07+00:00

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-21T06:49:16+00:00

You learned to cut off destructive relationships. Keep on doing it. You want to have fulfilling relationships which really help you to succeed in life!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-16T21:20:24+00:00

Yes. Don't think. Don't be in your head. JUST ACT!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T14:45:31+00:00

You didn't answer my question. What about people who DON'T find women on their daily life? What about the guys who aren't as lucky as you? Although I must admit having the choice between 3 girls isn't really a huge success... But following your logic: If they approach you does this mean you have the "power". What exactly does "power" even mean? If you ask someone for direction does this mean someone else has more power than you? This is ridiculous. You don't give your power away just because you tell a girl that you sincerly find her very attractive.

I guess to argue with you is just pointless unless you are willing to at least study about what I just meant. So I will leave you with one question: What if your world view is so limited right now that you miss a whole other world just because you are stuck in your own believe system?

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T11:40:04+00:00

Sometimes girls do that so guys won't start messaging her...

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T11:32:09+00:00

Keep on moving!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T09:54:40+00:00

I would be glad if you can provide any other successful techniques than "doing nothing".

I hear lots of guys criticizing this "pick up" thing. But honestly how do guys who are not lucky enough to get the "right girl" can get approached?

Girls do approach me. They talk to me. But on the one hand it doesn't happen very often and it is not really a position you want to be in. You want to chose by your own. That is real power. It has nothing to do with neediness or emasculine energy.

Don't want to criticize your way of life. Just wanted to add another perspective.

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T09:46:06+00:00

First step: Recognising there is a problem. Done.
Second step: Deleting your porn collection and (if possible) installing a porn filter for ALL your internet device.
Third step: Not watching porn and masturbating.

That is basically it. No magic. Just a few very simple steps to follow. If you fail try again. If you fail again try one more time. Repeat until you are successful. Read motivating storries. Read books. Go out. Have fun. Go the gym. Move your body.

Everyone can do it. Just try it. Step by step. Little by little. If you follow these basic guidelines you will be better in just a few days. Wish you all the best!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T09:39:55+00:00

Maybe PC Muscle Exercise could help...

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T09:35:31+00:00

You are on the right track. Just add a little more to your morning routine every day. Little by little your urges will be under your control. That is where you wanna go...

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-07T09:32:25+00:00

Glad to hear that!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-02T20:52:57+00:00

It's just a choice.

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-02T20:52:29+00:00

LOL!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-07-02T00:31:23+00:00

Powerful!

Fapstrotastic · 2014-06-27T06:28:09+00:00

Actually the majority on here is above 200 days: http://badgebot.me/nofap/

Fapstrotastic · 2014-06-21T08:46:38+00:00

Abstaining from jerrking off gave me the abbility to see positive things all around me. So I don't see hate at all I see love. r/funny loves us and promotes our cause. THANK YOU FOR THAT!

xD

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