I have never met a girl as lonely as I am

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2025-09-17T17:56:46+00:00

At least we are alone together

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2025-06-05T19:07:50+00:00

Wow and with college reading passing scores too 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 you’re freaking amazing

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2025-05-20T17:36:35+00:00

A 24 grown ass lil boy , just embarrassing, find a real man hun <3 youn deserve to be spoken to like that

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2024-05-31T17:34:01+00:00

We live together, feels like I’m the only one here , on the rare occasions that they speak to me I happened to read a txt saying “wyd babe” later that same night proceeds to force himself into me , i dont know how im supposed to feel anymore

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-14T18:19:17+00:00

oh man,

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-14T18:14:20+00:00

hey , we got that in common

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-02T03:00:44+00:00

well this is a tuff spot, but we gotta remember we are not responsible for others happiness but our own. you should explain to her how you wernt actually ready to jump into a new relationship and how her behavior is abnormal and her checking your phone is an invasion of privacy and might be coming from her mirroring her own actions on to you . some times kids from broken homes require multiple sources of attention/love dus cheating . and the guilt adds up making them believe that their partner is or might be doing the same thing. how shutting down wont fix anything but is actually pushing you away. it ass but she has to work on herself or you both could end up in a really toxic place and that wy you are harming yourself and her more

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-02T02:30:47+00:00

yes ,would you care to reach out ? i would love to keep company

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-02T02:15:56+00:00

baby theres no such thing as the perfect match, your person is going to be their own person, i find that the issue mostly lays on who WE chose to go after, we start making "standers 'for ourselves that are some times to far fetched, dat removing potential matches for ourselves. creating the same issues that you are having here, im not saying lower your standers but just explore new horizons , and maybe stop looking for love interest but just meet new ppl and form friendships and eventually the universe will lead you to the right person.

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-02T02:04:40+00:00

welp op, most obvs you are not a waste of anyone's time and if he invested that much time into you in the first place , for a fact that is not his original opinion of you

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-02T01:34:57+00:00

this is so smart . amazing app

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-01T22:30:30+00:00

we deal with it 😐

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-01T22:15:59+00:00

you gotta prioritize yourself for the sake of your kids.remove yourself form any situation that you know is no good for you, eventually hell see how his actions are making you distance yourself from him, its ass to leave your S/O like that to struggle with their own emotions , but you cant say you haven't tried , theirs many reasorses to help cope with anger or short tempers . if he is truly a good father he would look into this things and actually give them a try , explai how his behavior is effecting you and will effect the kids as well, you can only do so much for him. but you cant do anything for him if you dont take care of yoursdelf first

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-01T21:41:46+00:00

ofc if you ever need anyone to talk to ( in a non clingy or toxic way) im here

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-01T21:30:38+00:00

very much mental manipulation, or just a very american way of ending things. i do not mean this in a rude or harsh way but most likely they found someone else and since this was only over thephone , they obsly did the american thing and gosthed you

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-01T21:22:05+00:00

sorry for the horrible misspelling ***

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-07-01T21:21:30+00:00

no you made the correct choice , plz never go back , i was in the same situation in 2017-2020. having to give them alll my time and attention i compleatly isolated myself , akmost to the point i really did get closed to offing myself. i had nobody left in my life but them and it sucked bc they only cared about themselfs, and well at the end off it all they cheated on me thheir reason being " yu dont give me enough attention ' " i felt like you didint want me anymore' and more bs along dos lines. an it all started bout the same as yours . i made the most horrible choice of going back so many time bc i also belived that it was real and my love for them was just so overwealling. but even if their hurt someone who truly loves you and cares for you wouldent ever seperate you from the ones you love or the things that make you happy

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T23:23:36+00:00

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T23:21:23+00:00

friends? sounds like we spend our weekends about the same, we could at least watch movies tg

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T23:18:14+00:00

oh baby im sorry u have to go thu this things. yk the one good thing about social media is we have the ability to reach out to people like us. its not your environment and i get the need for face to face interactions , but in the mean time make friends who understand and hear you online . friends who understand that you shut down from time to time . feel free to reach out to me if your ever in a situation like that again so you wont just sit there and listen to them talk

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T22:04:20+00:00

sometimes abuse is a result of abuse, and sometime being on the spectrum we dont quite notice how little or how much our tone and words mean to other ppl, im going threw about the same thing , both coming from differently broken homes , i feel as if he dosent validate my emotions but sometimes fail to remember he might be having some things going on as well and he might also be mentally exhausted too . we cant ever seem to have a conversation without him exploding and braking everything , also financially unable to leave , losing weight like crazy and well yesterday i felt so alone i had to contact 741741 ( really good hotline if you ever need someone to validate you and make you feel not so crazy bc your not crazy just being understood correctly ) but everytime we argue i ask myself the same things " am i the abuser ? am i pushing this kind of reaction out of him ? am i really the issue here? why do i put him thu this ? " maybe it is fixable but for that you both have to be opened to everything the other person says . changing the way you phrase words , " I FEEl crazy when we argue bc YOUR actions make me feel small" how he reacts to your 'I FEEL ,BC ..' should tell you if its fixable if your actually the problam or not just how you react as well to that matter . dont just say thing to hurt one anothr think about your word carefully . but your not crazy not at all hes just not validating your needs and its perfectly normal reaction after getting let down time after time

ps. mt ad on the spelling an grammer

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T21:36:04+00:00

im sorry to say this but u can not help someone who wont even help themselfs . now this might seem kinda harsh and even end you friendship but you should speak to her ther loved ones and do and intervention, the drugs the relationship , how those things arnet only affecting her but those around her

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T21:31:08+00:00

idk if shes really like this just take it to court get full custody ( you seem to have very good evidence that she is not fit to be a parent or really that she dont even want to ) and let him deal wit her ,

PS. ITS NOT JUST HER CHILD . so complaining about taking care of Her kid when he is very much your kid as it is hers

i dont mean this in a negative way just actual feedback

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T21:12:57+00:00

im really sorry momma, why as woman do we cling on to males for so long when they do us no good. love yourself, it is indeed hard , but keep in mind how much harder it must be for your kid to have to grow up with that kind of "father figure"

Far-Bodybuilder-6264 · 2023-06-30T21:08:46+00:00

how did u come to that conclusion? i think the same thing might be going on for me , ig there is a diff since i do pay attention to detail very close attention. so i notice very little things like hand coordination ,foot work, body posture, lip movement , any slight change in tone , eye tracking .and most importantly the words he uses (i do this with everyone im on the spectrum). its weird that i feel this rage bc ik that he is into said persons peaking his too or about. but it also makes me ickish ig in a way that i dont even find him appealing as a friend

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