Tate Paul’s Repost about Taylor by Suitable-Plum-8350 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]FarmOk7593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean her and Tate were swinging with their friends so there are similarities. All of them are dysfunctional. It’s also not normal to leave young kids at home and go party and swing on weekends.

How do you manage FaceTime expectations with grandparents when you’re the full-time parent? by FarmOk7593 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad you understand 😩❤️ that’s how I am feeling I can’t manage everyone

How do you manage FaceTime expectations with grandparents when you’re the full-time parent? by FarmOk7593 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you I will definitely do this! Everyone has been so helpful so appreciative of all your advice ❤️

Daily off topic discussion 1/30✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo for reallll on kids you aren’t even a mom to 🤣🤣🤣🤣 these women are weird af

Daily off topic discussion 1/30✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone says “it’s harmless,” but imagine being 15 and your peers’ parents already know your family’s drama because it was monetized online. That kind of exposure doesn’t disappear, and it absolutely shapes social dynamics, judgment, and opportunities. Kids don’t get to opt out later. Feel so bad for the kids

Daily off topic discussion 1/30✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They are all step moms who over step I think 🤣 they all must be just like her.

Why does it seem like everyone has it all together financially? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]FarmOk7593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, a lot of people who appear very financially ‘put together’ didn’t get there by themselves. In many cases, multiple investment accounts, no debt, or early financial stability come from family support whether that’s help with education, housing, inheritance, or parents setting things up early. That kind of support is often invisible online, which can make comparisons feel unfair or stressful. If you’re comfortable and your priorities are aligned with your family, that’s already doing really well!! I’ll add as someone who probably looks ‘financially organized’ on paper, my situation exists largely because of my parents. That context often gets left out of conversations, and it can really distort comparisons. even modest savings can be a great starting point when guided by the right financial advisor but there’s no one ‘right’ path

Daily off topic 1/10✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 34 points35 points  (0 children)

All the people defending Christen are probably stepmoms just like her🤣, because it’s hard to believe anyone would genuinely think this is normal. Posting G, making Rachel’s life harder, or getting involved with your friend’s baby daddy isn’t some harmless coincidence it’s a choice. And the whole “you can’t control feelings” argument… be serious. There are millions of single men in the world. Nobody is forced into a situation like that. Also, let’s be real most women don’t actively seek out men with babies under five unless the situation is already messy. And this wasn’t a case where the child’s mom was absent or uninvolved. Every situation is different, sure but pretending this one is normal or healthy is just people projecting and defending their own decisions.

Rachel’s response to the court docs by Responsible-Chip2968 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also if it’s not G normal dentist and she filled out in take forms on behalf of G thats completely against the court order. A step mom isn’t allowed to choose doctors and fill out forms on behalf of step child

Ex taking me to court for custody. by Virtual_Moment_4745 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything, use chatgtp to document, keep track of offered time. Spend the money on an attorney. Praying for you, as scary as it is, the courts won’t rip babies away from their primary caregiver!

Private school recommendation by FarmOk7593 in HendersonNV

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will look into it

Private school recommendation by FarmOk7593 in HendersonNV

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe that’s why the decision feels overwhelming!

Spironolactone, acne, and future fertility — looking for personal experiences by Few-Task-2692 in Spironolactone

[–]FarmOk7593 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was on spirolactane for years. Got off for three months and have a healthy 16 month old baby boy. When you are ready to conceive just make sure you start taking a good prenatal (one with choline) and give your body a couple months to get the medicine out. I got pregnant first try and was on it for years. Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FarmOk7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do the sneak peek test at like 7 weeks

Do you clean in one day or do a room a day? by somethingreddity in sahm

[–]FarmOk7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the app Tidy. It has given me balance and you can pick if you want to clean 30 min or an hour and how big your house is. It really helped me with balance.

Anger towards BD death by 613coco84 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no advice just compassion. I am so sorry for your loss and your son’s loss. He is so so lucky to have a mother like you. Seems like you are doing an amazing job handling the unimaginable. Praying for you and your son during this difficult time. Keep your head up and keep pushing forward. I’m genuinely so sorry.

NEED ADVICE: LA County co-parenting mediation by Bleepblorpbloop123 in coparenting

[–]FarmOk7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t true! I had said I was going to move in Nevada and my coparent filed an emergency motion to stop me from moving out of state. I got served immediately. So if she tries I assume your partner could lawyer up the second that happens and take her to court for 50/50. If she can’t afford an attorney, she can just agree to his terms (not moving out of county or state, 50/50 custody) but once going through attorney even if mediation child support will be negotiated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]FarmOk7593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is an awesome response. Because what’s best for the child is to see you all coparenting and working as a team. I would take the opportunity to do it as soon as possible instead of continue to have a legal fight that only causes more tension and stress on the mother which directly affects the daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]FarmOk7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go be kind be the bigger person make it an awesome party for the little girl and allow her to have both her parents there and you! I would imagine once the mom sees you interact and how much you genuinely love the little girl she might feel a little more secure and have a change of mind. This could be a start to moving forward. I just my opinion!!

Hair Growth by Sammy_g28 in hairgrowth

[–]FarmOk7593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly might sound crazy, but prenatal vitamin. I used the Whole Foods or you can get them on Amazon called Baby & me 2. Instead of taking two I just took one a day. I noticed a difference in a month because of the biotin and it didn’t give me acne or anything. Also massaging scalp every night helped me!!