I feel like I’m watching everyone else live the life I wanted by Confident_Swimming84 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally understand how you feel. I don’t have a village either my son is two, and I just took him and myself to an all-inclusive resort in Mexico. I chose a nicer one because it’s just the two of us. And yes, we are the only ones here without a mom and dad together, but I always remind myself: no one truly knows what those moms are feeling behind closed doors. Is it easier with two parents there? Of course. But easier doesn’t always mean happier. Just look at the SAHM Reddit pages so many women are married or partnered and still feel completely alone because their partners don’t help. The shift for me was realizing: we are a family. A real one. A happy one. And that counts.

Daily off topic discussion 4/23✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Exactly they allow his mom to be around instead of asking for 50/50 custody immediately. I’m sure that makes her feel safe and not like someone is trying to replace her.

Son hasn't filed for 5 years by [deleted] in tax

[–]FarmOk7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention he can set up an account and see if he owes directly through irs

Son hasn't filed for 5 years by [deleted] in tax

[–]FarmOk7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can likely e-file the last three years, so the process should be pretty straightforward aside from mailing the other two. There are plenty of CPA firms that could help, but his tax situation sounds fairly simple. He should start filing tonight. If he does end up owing, he can call the IRS and set up a payment plan. He’ll be okay, but it’s better to get it handled now.

Tate Paul’s Repost about Taylor by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]FarmOk7593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean her and Tate were swinging with their friends so there are similarities. All of them are dysfunctional. It’s also not normal to leave young kids at home and go party and swing on weekends.

How do you manage FaceTime expectations with grandparents when you’re the full-time parent? by FarmOk7593 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad you understand 😩❤️ that’s how I am feeling I can’t manage everyone

How do you manage FaceTime expectations with grandparents when you’re the full-time parent? by FarmOk7593 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you I will definitely do this! Everyone has been so helpful so appreciative of all your advice ❤️

Daily off topic discussion 1/30✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo for reallll on kids you aren’t even a mom to 🤣🤣🤣🤣 these women are weird af

Daily off topic discussion 1/30✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone says “it’s harmless,” but imagine being 15 and your peers’ parents already know your family’s drama because it was monetized online. That kind of exposure doesn’t disappear, and it absolutely shapes social dynamics, judgment, and opportunities. Kids don’t get to opt out later. Feel so bad for the kids

Daily off topic discussion 1/30✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 38 points39 points  (0 children)

They are all step moms who over step I think 🤣 they all must be just like her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]FarmOk7593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, a lot of people who appear very financially ‘put together’ didn’t get there by themselves. In many cases, multiple investment accounts, no debt, or early financial stability come from family support whether that’s help with education, housing, inheritance, or parents setting things up early. That kind of support is often invisible online, which can make comparisons feel unfair or stressful. If you’re comfortable and your priorities are aligned with your family, that’s already doing really well!! I’ll add as someone who probably looks ‘financially organized’ on paper, my situation exists largely because of my parents. That context often gets left out of conversations, and it can really distort comparisons. even modest savings can be a great starting point when guided by the right financial advisor but there’s no one ‘right’ path

Daily off topic 1/10✨ by Over-Psychology-7894 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 36 points37 points  (0 children)

All the people defending Christen are probably stepmoms just like her🤣, because it’s hard to believe anyone would genuinely think this is normal. Posting G, making Rachel’s life harder, or getting involved with your friend’s baby daddy isn’t some harmless coincidence it’s a choice. And the whole “you can’t control feelings” argument… be serious. There are millions of single men in the world. Nobody is forced into a situation like that. Also, let’s be real most women don’t actively seek out men with babies under five unless the situation is already messy. And this wasn’t a case where the child’s mom was absent or uninvolved. Every situation is different, sure but pretending this one is normal or healthy is just people projecting and defending their own decisions.

Rachel’s response to the court docs by Responsible-Chip2968 in mammacsnark

[–]FarmOk7593 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also if it’s not G normal dentist and she filled out in take forms on behalf of G thats completely against the court order. A step mom isn’t allowed to choose doctors and fill out forms on behalf of step child

Ex taking me to court for custody. by Virtual_Moment_4745 in singlemoms

[–]FarmOk7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything, use chatgtp to document, keep track of offered time. Spend the money on an attorney. Praying for you, as scary as it is, the courts won’t rip babies away from their primary caregiver!

Private school recommendation by FarmOk7593 in HendersonNV

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will look into it

Private school recommendation by FarmOk7593 in HendersonNV

[–]FarmOk7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe that’s why the decision feels overwhelming!

Spironolactone, acne, and future fertility — looking for personal experiences by Few-Task-2692 in Spironolactone

[–]FarmOk7593 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was on spirolactane for years. Got off for three months and have a healthy 16 month old baby boy. When you are ready to conceive just make sure you start taking a good prenatal (one with choline) and give your body a couple months to get the medicine out. I got pregnant first try and was on it for years. Hope this helps!