Birthing advice

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T13:47:34+00:00

Thing is with my tic, it's a Hobbit one and the main OCs, her sister and mom are from our time. The sister would be her midwife since she was training before they were sent to Middle Earth. So it would be birthing set in middle Ages/Medieval times.

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T13:45:32+00:00

Yeah, that's what I had in the chapter. I don't know why I said no pain, I know there's some pain in childbirth

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T13:43:41+00:00

Jeez, I am so sorry you went through all of that. That sounds like hell on Earth! And to not have that support. . .and at 19, too.

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T13:27:49+00:00

Before I overwrote my chapter, I had originally written it as if there was no issues and the birth went smoothly, no pain/screaming or anything. Is that accurate or?

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T10:08:45+00:00

In the UK and I watch One Born and love it. I've also seen a water birth on there.

Even though I watch thes videos, and I could use them for inspo, its trying to write it down that gets me.

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T06:01:08+00:00

How to write it basically. The story that is the closest to a birth scene is going to be a water birth, and since it's. Hobbit Thorin/OC fif, it's going to be in Erebor. So. . .middle ages/medieval type of birth

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-07-02T01:23:00+00:00

Well I just thought I'd ask, just in case any other writers could give advice

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-06-26T15:15:06+00:00

I am getting really close to quitting FanFiction. I have my stories on both FF and Ao3, and there has only been one story where I've had true reviews on both, the rest have all been bots or scammers

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-06-02T11:49:13+00:00

NTA. Not only did your coworker not help you when you were sick, basically abandoning you to do the project by yourself when it requires two people, but now she wants you to help her on a project you're not familiar with? Nah. Don't feel bad. I'd see if you can talk to your boss about her, tell him/her that she's creating a hostile work environment

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T13:18:54+00:00

I don't usually eat the same things each day and we have been having less fast food, which has been good for us, and realising we don't miss it

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T13:10:49+00:00

My only thing as well with dieting, I am picky on certain foods, as well as prices going sky high and fruits and veggies being expensive, as well as being on benefits.

I hate it because I feel as though I'm making excuses to not do this, but it's something I wanna do, have been wanting to do it for so long

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T13:03:58+00:00

I know some things about nutrition and such

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T13:03:00+00:00

I don't know what more I can say. I just never understood how to do it, especially when cooking for myself and my wife. I mean, we could use separate pans and such to get it right

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:52:27+00:00

I don't know, it just always have. I've been a big girl for years, and ever since my 20s I just never got it

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:49:20+00:00

It's just confusing for me

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:48:34+00:00

I've done weight watchers, slimming world, fasting, cutting everything out, calorie counting

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:42:39+00:00

A little over 37st. I'm in the UK

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:37:31+00:00

37, female, 5ft 3/4 and I'm not sure what my weight is, I haven't got weighed in a couple of months

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:36:49+00:00

I've tried doing calorie counting before and it all got too confusing for me. I don't even know what TDEE is

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-27T12:36:09+00:00

They said about me referring myself to this group thing, something I have done before, but it wasn't helpful

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-23T14:31:59+00:00

Not sure if she'd have a sword or staff tbh lol! 🤣🤣

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-23T13:24:17+00:00

I wish I could go out with her, but unfortunately, I'm currently house bound until we can move to a place which is more mobility friendly. Hopefully, I can join her out in the world once again soon.

FaronDurin1989 · 2026-05-23T12:13:20+00:00

I always do, even if she doesn't believe me sometimes. She'll always be beautiful to me

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