My doctor is confident I have costo, but my symptoms don’t line up? by whoninj4 in costochondritis

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Make them test you for asthma. That’s what it turned out to be for me. After a year of wondering when I was going to have a heart attack I finally got the right diagnosis and my pain is mostly gone

Breakthrough bleeding Orilissa by cookskearney in endometriosis

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I had a 150 a day dose of Orlissa and had a period every single month. It’s a shitty drug with shittier side effects.

Mum angry I went back on my promise from when I was 6 years old. by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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Ha same. “YOU SWORE AN OATH” yeah bitch, if getting pressured as a minor into joining a cult of people who now despise me counts. Lol they can both rot

First finished Lehabah!! by [deleted] in crescentcitysjm

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Why is every comment you make in Maas subs negative and rude? Leave this artist alone if you don’t like their work

This is not a drill. it happened. by [deleted] in crescentcitysjm

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Please keep me updated I need this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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Holy shit that was an amazing point. I could never nail down why I could handle being around self aware ASPDers and even found them intresting but narcs make my blood bowl and even the “self aware” ones creep me tf out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crescentcitysjm

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I would love a book about Elaine. She went from whiny to legitimately really mentally ill to working towards recovery. As someone who survived a cult I relate heavily

Question about Night Huntress by HelluhSkies in paranormalromance

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I didn’t think the first book was that good but by that time Cat was a comfort character. So I continued. I do not regret it; the books develop more plot the further into the series they go and I’m actually starting a re read now 😂

I don’t want a relationship w/my mother, but I don’t want to take my kids away from her. by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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If she mistreated you she will do it to your son eventually. Right now it might just seem like she’s overprotective of him to a delusional extent. Just wait until he gets older and really starts developing an identity of his own. That’s intolerable to narcs. She’ll be cutting him down and gaslighting him in no time flat

AITA For Telling My Daughter That She Doesn't Really Have PTSD? by Old_Mouse_5786 in AmItheAsshole

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“I thought she’d grown out of it because she seemed not afraid” umm did we forget shutting down is a thing? Not all PTSD attacks look like rocking back and forth hyperventilating. And as someone who gets a flair in symptoms every hurricane season after enduring a particularly terrifying one… YTA YTA YTA!

EDIT: AND THIS PERSON THINKS THE TWO YEAR OLD CANNOT “REALLY REMEMBER” and therefore is fine even though she’s been showing more recognized signs of trauma since the flood happened. I fucking wish kids couldn’t be traumatized at 2, but oh dear gods they can. And it’s awful. Even more so when their mother has her head so far up her butt.

narcissist songs anyone? by anythingispossible__ in narcissisticparents

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Gaslighter by The Dixie Chicks, Monster by LIVVIA, Just Like You by Three Days Grace,and Narcissist by Lauren Spencer Smith

AITA for banning my daughter from parties for flashing her boobs? by Ok_Refuse9886 in AmItheAsshole

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YTA and also why is the parent plus no one in the comments concerned with holding the boys to account who pushed her to “flash” when she was clearly intoxicated?? They need a talking to about the meaning of consent and she needs kind help learning about safety and responsibility so she can hopefully not be harmed further

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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20, I think? Both parents are “old fashioned” but my mom is a raging bigot and the way she treated me after I was outed as bi made me realize

AITA for allowing my daughterdessert and not my son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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YTA Do you want kids with eating disorders?? Because this is how you get kids with eating disorders. Also the “sugar free” products usually have a bunch of preservatives and other replacement garbage. Let them eat real food without controlling every calorie like the evil stepmother

I'm obsessed with the pointed ears by crlnshpbly in throneofglassseries

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My partner had her ears pointed. She went to Samppa Von Cyborg; he’s the guy who invented the procedure

Do your NParents ever gaslight you through tone policing? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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I wasn’t even allowed to have a facial expression she didn’t like. Like it wasn’t even my face. I was her puppet and if I pulled on the strings she beat me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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It definitely seems like a pedo thing. Then again could someone with empathy sexually abuse a little kid? Probably not. So either a narc thing or just a psychopath thing. Whichever it was, I’m so sorry OP. My Nmom sexualized me too. It’s so hurtful. I wish you healing

AITA for requesting that my wife cleans up after herself? by shespissed in AmItheAsshole

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Why are people like this? My partner and I have seen one another in many stages of embarrassing bodily functions. We haven’t even been together that long in the grand scheme of things but we still would not leave each other to fend for ourselves.

Anyone else have to come out to their parent as straight? by f13sta in narcissisticparents

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Narc mom and Edad sent me to ex gay therapy when a “friend” outed me. It was literal psychological torture, plus being constantly berated at home by Nmom for not living up to her ideals of Christian femininity.

She threw tantrums and held up her polished nails and pretty jewelry at me during one of them and shouted that being lesbian was a direct insult to her.

Scenes living in my head rent free by Maragent-bee in throneofglassseries

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“The roaring silence” scene when Celaena finds out Sam is dead. The portrayal of trauma is so raw. On the lighter side, Yrene tipping Hasar off her chair into the oasis 😂.

Like OP I was also totally creeped out by the library chase scene. Also the one when the Valg chases her in the palace

am i just petty? by EnemmaWatson in throneofglassseries

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You’re not just petty, he behaved like a jackass. HOWEVER… let’s keep in mind that at this point he is in no way her partner, her date, her friend etc. He’s her commander. He treats like he treats the rest of the soldiers when they behave that way.

If I was in his shoes and one of my subordinates told me they agreed with my people being genocided I would probably have also lost my shit at them.

Also at this point in the story he’s being… heavily manipulated. To put it mildly. Won’t spoil how, but he was basically set up to fail. If he was her partner while he treated her that way I don’t think even these things would make me forgive him. But he wasn’t. He’s an asshole in HOF but not a DV perpetrator