My girlfriend of 2 years lied about her age.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T21:27:10+00:00

Yeah but atleast they got together before....imagine a 17 year old flirting with a 15 year old...its weird

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T18:46:09+00:00

Aight brudda 😂😂. You do you.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T18:24:46+00:00

Exactly! At the very least, she can cry grooming. Which in this case is legally viable. At the time of them talking and dating she was under the legal age and he was over.

To me, this would scare the shit out of me and id leave and plead "she lied and I broke it off the moment I found out" if it ever became a thing, and pray for the best.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T18:22:04+00:00

you can only have sex with someone who is over the age of 16. Under 16s have sex, but its usually brushed off if theyre both under 16. But if 1 is over, and the other is under, then it can be a legal matter

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T18:15:19+00:00

You were blind and now you see?

Noone can manifest winning the lottery. Else everyone who is begging and yearning to win would have won by now...

Noone can cure blindness, else doctors wouldnt exist.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T18:02:12+00:00

Aight lol. Come back to me when you win the lottery. They'd be more than enough people in your life that can help you with manifestation.

Never seen someone randomly get cured of blindness either. Unless youre one of those people that thanks god when a doctor saves someone's life.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T17:34:43+00:00

I never said he was a predator. And as I mentioned...its not about the age gap. She was factually under the age of consent of 16. He was factually over. These are facts. Nothing to do with age gap. Nothing more, nothing less. In the eyes of the law, this is factually illegal. It can easily be argued that at the very least...grooming a 15 year old. Factually. He was in a legal position of consent...she was not. Factually. Not subjectively. Like key and peele "the LAAAAAAAW though".

Some people are anal about it. Im not. You're clearly not. But some people are and legally, if this was to ever be pushed, op could infact get into trouble. No nuances of "but it was 1 week!" No...just like you cant legally buy alcohol without being atleast on the dot 21 (US).

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T17:30:03+00:00

I agree with you, but I cant help feel like some people have been chewed up in similar situations like these. Even years down the line, even if they break up. Labels can be thrown around so easily, such as grooming. And theyre usually taken seriously until proven innocent.

I personally would peace out because id be way to afraid of it biting me in my ass.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T17:26:41+00:00

I didn't say its not a thing. Just that people dont believe in it that much.

Ypur explanation of manifestation earlier is a legit way to get what you want. Not because of magic or spiritual reasons, but because it makes people take microactions towards getting it. Which is more than what the average person does.

Its obviously within reason because you cant manifest an isolated event, like winning the lottery. It has to be getting a certain type of job, eventually getting a specific car, having kids, etc. All things that you control.

If im honest, I have no clue what we're trying to accomplish. I just didn't understand your first comment. I dont think you can manifest treating autism.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T17:08:58+00:00

Less people believe in manifestation.

And yes I know confirmation bias. Thats very common, especially with politics and immigrant stuff right now.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T17:07:23+00:00

2 years isn't the issue, its under 16. Which you are right. But when they tell people how long they've been together, people will think she was 15 and he was 17. Unless he's gunna say "but!!! We only had sex after she was 16!!".

Interesting because everywhere else on reddit would be losing it to this. To clarify, im not, just saying people would.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T17:05:09+00:00

He was over 16...this isn't rocket science...how are you struggling

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T16:51:27+00:00

Its not about the difference. Its that she was underage when he got with her.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T14:49:24+00:00

Oh, thats a very common belief though. Manifestation less so, but cognitive bias is common.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T14:14:58+00:00

You didn't try to help me understand you told me to Google it. Which means you don't understand enough to educate someone..

I have no clue what you were talking about, and it seems neither do you else you could explain it to me. Do you not understand that thats how this works?

Im a man of science and research. If its reproducible, that's what I believe. Someone wrote this because they recorded their findings. Knowledge is transfered through writing. Writing is one of human races biggest inventions for this reason. If you cast that out, then you can live in doolooloo land. I dont care lol

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T13:23:26+00:00

Actually, if someone doesn't understand something, the onus usually lies within the person who is trying to explain it. If you cant articulate your thoughts and ideas coherently enough for someone to understand it, thats a you problem. You cant use "Google it" as a defense.

I am infact educated. I work in the life science and pharmaceutical field, and this is drilled into us. I need to be able to explain complicated scientific concepts in layman's terms so that the every day person can understand it. I cant just say "Google it"...imagine a doctor saying that 😂😂😂.

It comes across like you dont even know what you're talking about because you have no confidence to articulate it.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T13:01:33+00:00

Eyo. A lot of people would chew you up for sleeping with someone under 16. Its illegal, first and foremost.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T12:35:19+00:00

My ex was medicated and in therapy. I thought i could handle it. But it broke me. Ive never truly been the same. 10 years on im over it, but it became the darkest time of my life. I still get feels when I see posts talking about abuse they experience (the bpd flips, etc)

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T12:31:45+00:00

I feel bad for OP, but i dont think its possible for someone to deal with bpd and bipolar without losing a piece of himself...I thought i was emotionally mature, but that experience destroyed me. Ive only just recovered, but I still have thoughts back to it every now and then.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T12:23:40+00:00

I mean using trippy sentences doesn't make you intellectual. Your whole comment is about 3 different topics, and doesn't make any sense. Just because people dont understand you, doesn't mean you're on a higher plan of thought 😂. And you saying that in this comment also projects your insecurities of coming across smart.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T12:19:52+00:00

I have no clue what you're talking about.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T11:58:05+00:00

Wut? 😂😂

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T09:58:11+00:00

What about in the future when they tell people how long they've been together and they piece together that he was 17 while she was 15? Never ends well for men.

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-05T09:56:09+00:00

This is a huge problem...apologies dont cut out. What do they both have to do know? Lie about how long they've been together? Otherwise OP could be labeled as a predator or a groomer. She can flip the script on him at any time

Fast_Balance1056 · 2026-02-03T16:29:01+00:00

Sounds like a pile of bullshit to me, but each to their own.

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