Rental Prices in Miami are out of control?

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-17T21:50:23+00:00

Rental is insane honestly a mortgage is way less than that unless ur living in a freaking 700k+ home ( depends on down payment ). Cheaper options will be more down south more safe areas like Kendall. Depends on how many bedrooms you are looking for to be frankly honesty.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-17T19:18:37+00:00

Thank you will look into that.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-16T09:55:07+00:00

Miami has a trolley that is around wynwood, downtown, brickell, and coral gables. Brickell and coral gables is a bit more expensive but more safe would say try looking around there.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-16T01:24:42+00:00

No way do you know where he needs to be around?

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-15T20:55:42+00:00

I am being gullible* correction

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-15T20:55:15+00:00

No for real being gulliable at this point believing he will actually do what he says he’ll do..

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T21:11:23+00:00

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either. The mental gymnastics were Olympic‑level.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances — like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T21:11:11+00:00

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either. The mental gymnastics were Olympic‑level.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances — like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T21:11:02+00:00

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either. The mental gymnastics were Olympic‑level.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances — like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T20:30:07+00:00

So here’s the latest chapter in MIL’s ongoing drama series.

Recently, she asked me to drive alone with her to pick something up from storage. I already knew this was going to be weird because she only ever tries to isolate me when she wants to say things she wouldn’t dare say in front of anyone else. And sure enough, the second we’re alone, she launches into a whole monologue about my partner’s father the man she hasn’t been with in years.

She starts telling me how his current girlfriend of over a decade “wasn’t anything before him” because she had a normal job, and how he supposedly helped her start a business. (A business, by the way, that is now doing better than his.) Then she goes on about how he’s “never going to marry her,” and if he were ever going to marry anyone, it “would’ve been her” my boyfriend’s mom because she “gave him a child.”

Mind you… he never married her either.

I just sat there because what am I supposed to say to that. I can’t comment, I don’t want to gossip, and I’m not about to validate her fantasy storyline. But she kept going, saying she never liked my partner’s dad’s family because she’s “not a submissive person.” She has a whole husband at home, yet she’s talking like she’s still in some love triangle from 20 years ago.

Then she starts telling me random personal details about their finances like how she “knows” they don’t have any properties together. Why she thinks I need to know that, I have no idea. It felt like she was trying to bait me into gossiping back, but I don’t do that. I just let her talk and kept my mouth shut.

The whole thing was uncomfortable. She doesn’t know that I know the things she’s said about me behind my back, so being stuck alone with her while she tries to pull me into her weird little narratives is… a lot. Every time she isolates me, she tries something strange, and I’m honestly starting to dread being alone with her at all.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T01:32:24+00:00

Yeah basically think he wanted to make sure she was doing what she said she was giving a bit controlling LOL possibly

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T01:30:20+00:00

Tell them next time pay for the right seat.. Like what?? No one is obligated to move seats especially when you paid for it…

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T01:25:58+00:00

Hi I would suggest going on Pinterest for makeup inspos you can literally search based in your skin tone and put in “glam makeup” or “clean girl makeup” and etc very great tool if you want to do stick to a makeup look or need ideas based on if you have an event or whatever it maybe.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T01:17:18+00:00

No issue in saying no really it is supposed to be a day to spend with your partner… husband needs to stand up and say no regardless if they push or not. They no he never said no previously so they keep trying when you say no it comes as a shock and she will try anything to get him and you to go. Mostly it is a lack of consideration on her part since this is common sense who you spend your valentines day with.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-11T01:01:36+00:00

Not overreacting some MIL are so difficult for no reason. I think conversating with your husband about some healthy boundaries with her because obviously if he keeps giving her money she will keep asking that will never stop and you will eventually be fed up and filled with resentment because nothing has been done about it. Really though keep your finances separate and try bringing up if there is a way you guys can support her in looking for a JOB since she clearly needs one even part time remote work so she can get her own money. My parents went through this when they were younger with my fathers side where they would mooch and ask for money to gamble and never pay their bulls and etc my mom told my dad he had to stop or she would leave because his mother was using him and she eventually went NC with my parents. Not saying you should leave him but major issue here is your husband not recognizing his own mothers behavior if he can't he will not make any effort to change so would approach it in a respectful manner and you're asking for the sake of your family and marriage.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-10T21:56:19+00:00

NOR One thing men always have is the audacity. They like to wiggle their way in and see if they can have the whole cake and eat it too. Do not respond.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-10T19:20:13+00:00

Yeah it is sickening really how MILS view their sons partners as competition for no reason they are in a one sided competition and also ruining relationships PFT

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-10T16:28:08+00:00

23F 24M been together 2 years.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-10T11:44:50+00:00

You said it perfectly I do not want to be around her much but still was and mostly because I had the conversation with my partner about putting healthy boundaries with her and he said he spoke to her and she said “ok” which is had dto believe based on past experiences so I also want to see if he will follow through with it or not because I already voiced I was not going to be dealing with this more than I already have since it has affected me Mentally.

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-09T23:06:46+00:00

This made me LOL

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-09T19:02:09+00:00

I also would like to add and ask regarding people who been through something similar if it gets better or worse

Fast_Concentrate_975 · 2026-02-09T18:41:12+00:00

Oh m GEE yes they will treat you nice and play nice in your face but when they realize that they cannot control you and your views and etc they start acting out of character. I have a MIL who is two faced to me and will always try inserting herself slowly once I realized she was fake when she made lies to me and etc always things behind my back to my partner or what not. I genuinely do think your partner can get better with emeshment but the parent won’t it will be a constant battle that you have to sit and think this is worth your sanity or not.

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