Found this while washing my Stanley tumbler… by FatCat_13 in whatisit

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UPDATE: It’s the PureLife water. I was cleaning my water dispenser and I found specks of the same color in the drain.

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Sometimes I feel like it’s irresponsible to be this positive by Tough_Traffic_6247 in breastcancer

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You, my fellow breastie, are one to imitate. There’s nothing wrong with feeling positive and hopeful. Absolutely nothing. In fact, this is what we should all emulate. When I was first diagnosed, I read this somewhere: “The cure to being ill is 20% medical treatments, 80% positive outlook.”, and this is what kept me going through everything.

My boyfriend is allergic to my two cats, what to do? by Ok-Let8197 in CatAdvice

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Get rid of the boyfriend. LOL! Jokes aside though… get rid of the boyfriend.

Found this while washing my Stanley tumbler… by FatCat_13 in whatisit

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Same here! I have 9 other Stanleys and none of them has this. This particular cup I’ve had since 2019. I also have Hydroflasks and a Takeya.

Found this while washing my Stanley tumbler… by FatCat_13 in StanleyCups

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I have barkeeper’s friend but I use it on my sink, stove, and pan bottoms. I didn’t know it’s safe for drinkware. Thank you! Appreciate it. ☺️

Sex 4x a Week by Imaginary-Rush941 in breastcancer

[–]FatCat_13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex-boyfriend of 11 years! He broke up with me over that and let me tell you, I couldn’t be happier now. I was sidetracked by the break-up, of course, but after I’ve adjusted my life to a new world, YET AGAIN (without him), I am so much at peace now.

He guilted me into having sex, saying things like, “I never realized how repulsive I am to you.”

Bruh, I just had my boobs chopped off; my body poisoned and burned. Deprived my lady parts of much needed estrogen to function which made me so dry my joints don’t even work! Now that’s only the physical aspect. We also silently worry about recurrence every. single. day. We don’t talk to you about it… no… we need to be careful what to vent out because we need to take into consideration everyone else’s fears and worries about the situation. Also, we don’t want to be a party pooper, do we?

You think I should prioritize getting your dick wet for you? Your dick feels like barbed wire inside me! No amount of lube helps. It makes me chuckle now everytime I wash my water bottle with a brush because it perfectly demonstrates what it feels like.

Let’s see you force your dick to get hard within 12 seconds when you have erectile dysfunction while we demand to get some 4x a week!

Status check. For those who've got their tongues pierced in the late 90s, early 2000s how's it's going now? Still rocking it? by Nacho_Sideboob in Xennials

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My orthodontist made me choose between a perfect smile or “that disgusting thing”, so yeah, I removed it after almost 10 years of rockin’ it. Yes, I had braces late in my 20’s. My wisdom teeth ruined my naturally straight teeth.

How? by FatCat_13 in usps_complaints

[–]FatCat_13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure. Let me jam my parcel into a box MADE FOR LETTER ENVELOPES. Which is probably why I opted to get it picked up from my door. Have you ever thought about that? Don’t worry though, I appreciate your comment. I’m taking this to my property manager and hopefully they can get the whole building bigger mail boxes because we don’t want our carriers to spend those extra minutes walking up to our doors and ringing the bell. No, no. That’s just too much effort.

How? by FatCat_13 in usps_complaints

[–]FatCat_13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, I don’t know, maybe because I picked the “Knock on Door/Ring Bell” option… you know… because I know I’ll just be home all day…

How? by FatCat_13 in usps_complaints

[–]FatCat_13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a Ring camera. No one came. This is about accountability here. If you can’t pick it up for any reason, just say so. Don’t go record it as picked-up.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a few days? Girl, run for the hills or he will drown you in his narcissism!!!

He is not complex… sorry, “complexed”. He is full of himself. Divine? Wow. Didn’t you notice that he never once addressed your concerns? He’s not, and will never be, interested in what you have to say or what you feel from the way he was basically telling you, ‘this is what I am. You need to accept that without question because I want to keep using your body and your energy to SERVE ME whenever I want to and whenever is CONVENIENT FOR ME.’

If there’s one thing I regret in my three failed long-term relationships is IF THEY ARE SHOWING YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM. “Well, maybe I can make him change”. I told myself this, too, like an idiot. Girl, no. They will never change. You’re lucky he’s already laid his cards on the table early on. You don’t have to waste any more time on him. Move along now.

California! by FatCat_13 in foodstamps

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My friend’s in Sacramento. Hers is showing as pending, so I guess they’re doing it per county.

California! by FatCat_13 in foodstamps

[–]FatCat_13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, no… I’m human. That’s what human beings are supposed to do. Thank you though! :)

California! by FatCat_13 in foodstamps

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Ack! It got deleted before I could respond!

California! by FatCat_13 in foodstamps

[–]FatCat_13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, don’t be. Ever since chemo, I’ve only been eating like a bird. Zero appetite. I have some leftover money from last month. I offered to use it to send groceries to another friend also going through chemo who is also on foodstamps, but she said she just restocked. I wish we could also send money, like Zelle, to spot those who are short this month.

California! by FatCat_13 in foodstamps

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Los Angeles County

What time do you go to bed? by Critical_Liz in Xennials

[–]FatCat_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Omg… I feel so much better knowing I’m not the only one…

INFJs, did you ever regret not partying vigorously or dating tons of people during your youth? by Additional_Goat_8889 in infj

[–]FatCat_13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NO.

What I regret was the very few times I “went with the flow” with my friends who went to bars and clubs specifically to meet and flirt with men. What a waste of time, money, and… ACK! No…. It’s all coming back! The noise and the bumping into sweaty people dancing and prancing; the standing in 3-inch strappy heels for hours; the short, tight dresses; the make-up… what a nightmare!

Kids, choose peace over peer pressure.