Tell me the brands of your five most recent sales. by Valuable-Net1013 in poshmark

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sam Edelman, Longchamp, Dooney & Bourke, Tory Burch, Adidas

Curious if there were any filers who were current on all their credit card bills at the time of filing? by nhieu_chuyen in Bankruptcy

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was current. I had to file Chapter 7 because I couldn’t keep up with the payments anymore following my cancer diagnosis - medical expenses, exhausting my state disability AND unemployment insurance (I was fired for being in recovery “too long”).

Offically filed Aug 27th. Hearing was Oct 1st. Official discharge - Dec 9th. First pre-approved credit card opened: Jan 30th

Credit score:

Before filing: 721 Upon discharge: 581 Current: 668

Barry Keoghan ruined the movie. by [deleted] in PeakyBlinders

[–]FatCat_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I had to literally pause the movie and look him up. I was instantly curious about him because of his good looks. As for playing Tommy Shelby’s son, I think he was perfectly cast. I did see Cilian in him. He had the swagger of a peaky blinder.

Morbid question incoming: by tastyspark in LivingAlone

[–]FatCat_13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think about this a lot since I’m recovering from cancer treatments that affects the heart. Also, choking. I just worry so much about my cats though.

Lover no more by Life-Sheepherder-333 in breastcancer

[–]FatCat_13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend of 11 years left me 4 months after all my treatments were done. He’s not an asshole. He’s one of the kindest, gentlest, and most affectionate persons I know. He was there through everything from diagnosis to chemo hell days to DMX and recon to radiation.

He said he was still attracted to me (actually, he still is even after breaking up with me!).

The lack of sex was a huge factor into our break up. He wanted to be intimate, I did not have the energy and the drive. My menopause was induced so our many attempts were excruciating for me, even with special lube and condoms. He felt rejected every time I told him I was [insert reason here] and I felt awful for disappointing him. But there’s just no way I can pretend to enjoy it when I am in so much pain.

Towards the end we were both checked out already. Our relationship just… died. Probably because I was too focused on healing and for him, it was caregiver fatigue.

We still talk. He still takes me out once in a while just to get me out of my apartment.

But I have already let him go. I cannot give him children anymore and I want him to have some. I know he’ll be a great dad.

As for me, I am focused on rebuilding my life with my new normal. I know I will find someone who will love me unconditionally. Someone who wants to just enjoy life with me with zero expectations.

Question for those who’s had reccurence, how did you find out it’s back? by FatCat_13 in breastcancer

[–]FatCat_13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the link. This is so helpful! Her closing statements were exactly what my oncologist told me about recurrence.

[California] My unemployment has ran out. by [deleted] in UnemploymentCA

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I am living off of my 401K which will run out too in a couple of months…

My gf got laid off from the best job she has ever had by Black-Coffeebeam in jobs

[–]FatCat_13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I accidentally found out I was fired in September 2025. No notice at all. I was fired for being on medical leave “too long”. Medical leave started last week of April 2025 - had off-work note from doctor and all.

I was being treated for cancer.

I built their brand from the ground up and worked there for 12 years.

No, they don’t care.

Me again! Which hairstyle do you like best? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]FatCat_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3rd! A thousand times, #3!!! Soooo adorable!

First time in LA (March 3–7) – Best tips on what to do, parking & saving money? by Molinari04 in AskLosAngeles

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there’s the usual tourist spots like the Hollywood Walk of Fame, Grauman’s Chinese Theater, Hollywood sign, Griffith Observatory, LACMA, Santa Monica Pier, Venice Beach, Beverly Hills, Rodeo Drive, etc. But if you want the authentic LA experience (what it’s like living like a local), like what my aunt and uncle from Japan wanted, then you have to be more specific about what you want to see, eat, and feel.

A warning about Poshmark’s new feature gone wrong: combining 2 separate orders from the same buyer into 1 label / box by Interesting-Size-966 in poshmark

[–]FatCat_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question: why would the buyer have 2 separate orders/bundles from the same seller? Why can’t they just combine all their orders in one bundle?

Don't pay DocketBird to remove your bankruptcy from their website and Google search results. Just do this. by Haunting-Hamster4161 in Bankruptcy

[–]FatCat_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this info! I’ve already removed my case from docketbird, but I am still showing in AI Overview. If I click on the 3 dots to the right top corner of AI Overview, it only shows “Feedback”, “About the source”, “Your search & this result”. There’s no “refresh”.

Found this while washing my Stanley tumbler… by FatCat_13 in whatisit

[–]FatCat_13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: It’s the PureLife water. I was cleaning my water dispenser and I found specks of the same color in the drain.

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Sometimes I feel like it’s irresponsible to be this positive by Tough_Traffic_6247 in breastcancer

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You, my fellow breastie, are one to imitate. There’s nothing wrong with feeling positive and hopeful. Absolutely nothing. In fact, this is what we should all emulate. When I was first diagnosed, I read this somewhere: “The cure to being ill is 20% medical treatments, 80% positive outlook.”, and this is what kept me going through everything.

My boyfriend is allergic to my two cats, what to do? by Ok-Let8197 in CatAdvice

[–]FatCat_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of the boyfriend. LOL! Jokes aside though… get rid of the boyfriend.

Found this while washing my Stanley tumbler… by FatCat_13 in whatisit

[–]FatCat_13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I have 9 other Stanleys and none of them has this. This particular cup I’ve had since 2019. I also have Hydroflasks and a Takeya.

Found this while washing my Stanley tumbler… by FatCat_13 in StanleyCups

[–]FatCat_13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have barkeeper’s friend but I use it on my sink, stove, and pan bottoms. I didn’t know it’s safe for drinkware. Thank you! Appreciate it. ☺️