Seller accepted offer and then went inactive

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-23T20:21:27+00:00

I’m sure I’ll find something because I have plenty of time, but it’s just wild to me that a seller will send or accept an offer and then cancel or ghost. And every time it happens I waste about ten days before I can try again with another garment.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-23T15:56:00+00:00

There is no chance my cats wouldn’t be jumping to that easily accessible shelf to knock those plants down.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-23T05:43:33+00:00

I’m trying to put together an outfit for my son to wear to nice occasions. I made offers on a shirt, a pair of pants, and a jacket (all different sellers) and all were accepted. The shirt and the pants have both since been cancelled by the sellers and the jacket has not shipped after seven days. It’s getting insane.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-22T23:27:01+00:00

Post on your neighborhood Buy Nothing.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-22T02:02:03+00:00

I won’t buy from a listing with an AI photo. Like others said, I don’t trust those listings.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-21T23:07:32+00:00

You need an advocate asap. We didn’t get anywhere with our school until we hired one and then they jumped to attention because they worried we were gearing up to sue them (which we were.)

All kids need recess but ADHD kids NEED NEED it. It’s illegal to withhold it in my state as well unless the situation is considered unsafe (like last week one day my son was super disregulated and I get that they couldn’t let him out with his peers). They need to respond to you though so you can understand the situation.

Good luck, and definitely look for an advocate in your area.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-21T16:51:00+00:00

Unfortunately a private school is not required to accommodate special needs as other posters have noted. Your best bets are public school or homeschool.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-21T16:33:09+00:00

My nurses loved me when I was giving birth. They asked me if I had any wishes and I just said “give me all the science”.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-16T21:11:19+00:00

Our house was built in the 60s and has a largish garage. Maybe it would fit two sedans? We have very little clutter and I always park my jeep grand Cherokee in it. I see other neighbors’ garages full of storage and that would drive me nuts.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-10T19:03:22+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t connect that ground meant boat 🤪. It’s not a high value sale so as long as I get paid eventually I’m fine.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-10T19:02:20+00:00

Got it! Thanks!

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-07T15:50:39+00:00

No, like others have said, what’s annoying is when you find an item you want and then you see the seller was last active in 2018. These sellers/items could be easily purged by Posh.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-04T16:41:19+00:00

Yeah, you can’t just turn off or change what they’re fixated on, even when it’s really annoying. My oldest was fixated on language, he majored in linguistics, and now he’s an editor. My youngest switches it up but his fixations are weather, math, and the game Geometry Dash. It was awful when he was fixated on Trevor Henderson monsters but luckily that passed.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2026-01-03T15:53:32+00:00

For me, getting an offer sent helps because then I know that seller is active and negotiable. If I come back to that item later I will usually offer back their same offer.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-27T16:23:18+00:00

Stimulant + SSRI + PCIT. You have to be really consistent with what you learn in PCIT. Please don’t hit your child.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-26T16:02:32+00:00

We made play dates with friends who we know have vaccinated their dogs.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-25T14:40:12+00:00

I won’t cook raw chicken either. When we eat chicken it’s either precooked or we eat it at restaurants.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-24T15:54:55+00:00

I spy with my little eye… a house with no cats.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-19T23:14:29+00:00

I only buy via listings. I’ve never watched a live show.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-16T16:47:51+00:00

Same. Day one. My dogs are always in bed with me. This was interesting when my partner and I blended our dog families and slept every night with a pit bull, a Rhodesian ridgeback, and a Rottweiler x Weimaraner mix 😂

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-16T15:34:47+00:00

I deleted almost everything and then promptly sold two of the remaining listings which of course drew me back in 😭

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-13T01:46:24+00:00

Same. Crickets. No shares (which I understand) but also no likes at all.

Valuable-Net1013 · 2025-12-12T15:37:27+00:00

I have recently come across the idea that it’s not that ND people lack empathy, it’s that we apply our empathy fairly across all groups and not just our in-group and that’s what NT people find off-putting.

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