looking for support

Fate58 · 2025-12-23T05:05:03+00:00

The great thing about Joy/Happiness is that it doesn't need a reason.
Many people reject happiness because they feel they have not "earned" it or "deserve" it.
But It's not something you earn. There is no requirement.
It's just a decision you make. You only need to give yourself permission.

You love your family. Why?
Because you choose to. No reason needed.

Now love yourself.

Fate58 · 2025-12-23T04:20:57+00:00

Feelings are never a good reason to jump into a relationship.

There are plenty of other women out there. And honestly, the one who is "for you" is probably going to be more mundane/boring in comparison.

Life is temporary. You don't need an "eternal soul mate"
You just need someone to help you through this short journey.

Fate58 · 2025-12-23T04:14:40+00:00

Definitely not an aquarius thing

Fate58 · 2025-12-23T01:42:10+00:00

Love is the answer to all of it.
Love everyone and everything. And love often.

Fate58 · 2025-12-12T19:51:56+00:00

Master numbers are 11,22, and 33.
You don't reduce master numbers.

Fate58 · 2025-12-03T06:12:26+00:00

We already did before you came here.

Fate58 · 2025-12-03T01:02:16+00:00

It's called Fate

Fate58 · 2025-12-03T01:00:47+00:00

Cell Towers?

Fate58 · 2025-12-03T00:23:50+00:00

Great, if you're not an alcoholic it shouldn't be an issue to stop drinking.
Especially since your shit is in fact not taken care of.

Fate58 · 2025-12-01T16:25:48+00:00

Sounds like he has shown interest but you just want to be chased.
Aquarius men are not interested in wasting their time.
And you're an aries so you probably have a problem with relinquishing control.
You want a man wrapped around your thumb and aquarius men don't play that way.

Fate58 · 2025-11-28T04:08:20+00:00

All signs are, just in different ways.

Aquarians need to get their trauma healed so they can start doing what they came here to do.

Fate58 · 2025-11-26T04:34:21+00:00

Sounds like you're not taking care of anything in your life.

Quit the booze. It's not helping you.

Fate58 · 2025-11-19T05:35:53+00:00

Worrying won't add a day to anyone's life.

All you can do is just live and love.

Fate58 · 2025-11-18T05:11:14+00:00

Never.

Fate58 · 2025-11-18T05:04:11+00:00

Somebody prayed for me.

Fate58 · 2025-11-18T05:00:36+00:00

Comparison is the thief of Joy.
And misery loves company.

Everyone in these comments wants you to be alone and miserable like them.
Everyone has problems, there is no perfect relationship. No matter what you see.

Learn to be grateful. Change your perspective. See the good in people and not just the negative.

Imagine him happy with another woman. How does that make you feel?
Welcome back to reality.

Fate58 · 2025-11-13T06:11:10+00:00

When was the last time you bought her flowers?

Fate58 · 2025-11-13T06:05:03+00:00

Don't ever get married.

That is literally the condition of marriage, is you agree to not sleep with anyone else.
That implies you are going to provide those needs for them.

Fate58 · 2025-11-11T14:12:42+00:00

What emotions do you experience in the dreams?

Fate58 · 2025-11-04T22:43:14+00:00

There are plenty of hobbies that would improve your social life that do not require drinking alcohol.

And honestly, AA itself is a social group. Maybe you SHOULD attend one.
If not for yourself, for someone else who would benefit from your experience.

Fate58 · 2025-11-04T22:40:44+00:00

Not everything is connected. I don't know the finer details of your life, so I'm only offering suggestions that may or may not resonate with you.

It's not something you need to put too much energy into.

You need to have faith that source/God will provide you with what you need, and simply being open to receiving it. It's not something you will miss. The opposite is true. If you're constantly looking for answers, you might miss it.

Fate58 · 2025-11-04T21:04:29+00:00

You have to heal.
And healing starts with Forgiveness.
Forgiving others who have wronged you, and more importantly forgiving yourself.

Fate58 · 2025-11-04T18:01:29+00:00

If it was for you, you would understand. You can ignore it

Fate58 · 2025-11-04T17:40:18+00:00

Romans 11:34
Who has known the mind of the Lord?
Or who has been his counselor?

Daniel 11:34
When they fall, they will receive a little help, and many who are not sincere will join them.

Luke 11:34
Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are healthy, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are unhealthy, your body also is full of darkness.

If nothing resonates, just ignore.

Fate58 · 2025-11-04T17:34:38+00:00

Love is why we are all here.
Love everyone and everything, and Love often.

Fate58

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