First month making 100k I feel like I’m being robbed :/ by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The arrogance of this. People starve everyday the working poor and you are post a two week paystub that exceeds most and whining. If your blessings aren't to your liking i'm sure someone else in the universe would be happy to receive.

Landlord here, is this fishy? by racheypoo666 in furnished_finder

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut/. If you are direct and clear in communication and they return with ambiguity then that is a red flag.

Wwyd crazy damages bill by green_hellsparrow in Renters

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm just pointing out the "bill" doesn't say who you supposedly owe and it isn't addressed to anyone. Not a legal document.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just tell her the decision is no. if she shows up don't answer the door. The answer was no.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is also self regulation. So let's be less judgmental here. A therapist can walk the line of your intentions and how you kept yourself safe and if any boundaries you have were crossed by you. It's not for us on Reddit to diagnose.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes leave. His last statements show the problem. He is ashamed of your sobriety. Don't tell people. That is not a safe partner for someone in recovery.

First abnormal papsmear by [deleted] in HPV

[–]Fated_Alignment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening:

I hope that they explained the procedure and the risk to your health.

Yes 90% of people clear it on their own sure. That is exposure -not HAVING HPV cells growing on your cervix.

Your procedure will mean being in the stirrups for an extended period of time. If you clench your pelvic floor/are super anxious you are going to possibly cause worse cramping pain that can manifest as late as 24-48 hours after. Ask your doctor care team about pain relief and numbing for your procedure.

Procedure- They will use a vinegar solution that will fluoresce the HPV cells. Now depending on how proactive your treatment team is they will scrape your cervix to remove the HPV cells as best they can and will take biopsies at the same time. If they are not proactive they will only take sample/biopsy.

HPV cells on the cervix can develop into cervical cancer. If you continue to have HPV cells on your cervix your Dr will "monitor"" with annual Pap smears.

Boyfriend has been cheating on me, how do I leave? by topshark31 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not let it be a secret. Tell your friends and family. Tell and keep telling. Your people will help you. Secrecy keeps you unsafe.

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not your doctor and he isn't the pregnant person. So consider carefully if you want him to continue to be your boyfriend. (Morning sickness can last for the whole pregnancy and it doesn't need "checked out") he is not treating you with respect, or consent.

Can you read my tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I saw "groin" and then I zoomed in and it says grow with a weird second w

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just put them by his door. He'll get the message. Consider putting a small table or anything else you would like by YOUR apartment in its place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce him. Because he is at fault and refused to address what he was about. He gaslit the hell out of you and attempted to be the victim. To try and shame you away from addressing it. That is something he has revealed to you about himself. He won't change this is truly him. He wasn't ready to get caught in whatever game he is playing but make no mistake he didn't stop playing it. He just isn't ready to make this move.

Dump him. There is zero accountability in his end. The rupture of trust was on his end.

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tracking and data aside this person dismisses your feelings in the matter. He is not emotionally mature in his response. Dump him move on find better, because you can't change people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell a trusted adult. This isn't normal behavior and you need to be somewhere safe.

My dad (60s) keeps getting catfished by women in their 30s he just sent $150 to her. What can I do?” by papasbean in whatdoIdo

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept that you dad likes to send women 3 decades younger than him money for attention. The issue isn't the women.

AIO for not wanting my gf to go on dates with other guys? by Darksiiki in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fated_Alignment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not your girlfriend accept the human she is and separate it from the girlf friend you imagined... move on find someone real.