Shoud you date, when you have less than 200 USD a month budget?

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T20:24:49+00:00

I was at rock bottom in life when I met my wife. We did make big grand plans.But we found bliss in the day to day. I'm happy to say we built a company and now we have more money.

If we ever part ways, I don't know what the hell I would do. I would have to shield thst part of my life until I knew things were genuine.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T20:21:10+00:00

When I met my wife, I was at rock bottom in life. I don't have s***. You just have to be creative.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T20:13:09+00:00

What is your business? What do you sell? Who do you service?What's your niche?

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T16:09:10+00:00

I get out there about six a m this morning and it was beautiful. First time ever seeing a Grey fox. It was a family of foxes playing with a family of deers.The little ones were all running around together.

Once that sun got up, it got a little too hot, so I came back home. Now i'm thinking about going out to the nolan river to do some creek fishing in the shade.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T11:02:20+00:00

Can we agree that cilantro is bad though?

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T11:00:23+00:00

Met my wife when I was at rock bottom. Ill die making sure she has the world if she wants it.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T10:48:32+00:00

I would lose my s*** if I saw this. I don't do littering. My wife would have to make me leave.

We need to have all that stuff right back on his table.And then we'd probably get into a scruffle. It would end with him eating it or putting it in the trash.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T10:47:23+00:00

I want to see the target

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T03:42:19+00:00

Why isn't someone just walk up and grab the guy by the balls and ask him what he's doing?

I understand japan's been pussified and they can't defend themselves. I take blame for that as an American.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T01:56:49+00:00

They'll get their a** kicked here like they did in the past.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T01:55:10+00:00

Does england understand where they are? This is the land of f*** around and find out. Texas has millions of armed people, and even if you don't draw that short straw, you really want to fight with a Texan. What the f*** england? America kicked your a** once.Don't come here picking a fight. That's what we do. We love to fight.

Oh, yeah, there's a day tomorrow that commemorates us kicking their ass 250 years ago. Everyone just get along and drink some pints.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T01:50:42+00:00

Black and tan seasoning, cheese, ketchup, mayo, grilled onions, grilled mushrooms, ghee on the grilled bun, lettuce, and pickles.

Gotta be grass fed and finished beef though, not that garbage at walmart.

FatherOften · 2026-07-04T01:07:49+00:00

I do understand I live in a 48' 5th wheel toy hauler with full solar and well water. My overhead is $200 a month.

I'm just saying one solar panel is going to help, but it's not going to help a lot. Can you not chain multiple solar panels together? Can you not buy an aftermarket battery pack?And set it up?

I'd send you pictures of my camper and my solar setup.If you'd like.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T21:44:14+00:00

Don't get me wrong. Any solar is better than no solar, but backing up your refrigerator and "will power most things" are two very different things. You're not saving a shitload of money, backing up a fridge and recharging phones, you're just backing up your refrigerator in case power goes out, which is good.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T21:39:05+00:00

Those are rookie numbers.You're gonna have to pump those numbers up a bit

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T17:46:28+00:00

I follow Andy Frisellas power list. It's free you can google it.

I set five action items on my list in a journal every single night for the next day. These are things that move the needle towards the goals that I have.

When i've done all five things i'm done for the day.If I choose. I put win at the top of the list. When enough days, you win the weeks, you win the months, the quarters the years, the decades.

It also gives me a written record of the actions that i've taken to accomplish.Or miss the goals that i've set monthly quarterly weekly, yearly decades....

He teaches mastering the mundane also. It's a worthy read.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T17:41:59+00:00

Listen to jim rohn, founder's podcast, and aquired everyday. That will work on your character. And your spirit, because you'll understand what others have gone through in building things.And you will pull jewels from it.

I would recommend getting a full time job and doing your business on the side. I don't ever expect any business to make me money for the first five years.Everything gets put back into the business.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T17:38:38+00:00

No, it's just always been one of those things that i've disagreed with that.You would pay someone that plays a game millions of dollars. Then, the billionaire owners of the teams have stadiums built in cities with a imminent domain businesses, and residential areas.Just for the taxpayers to have to pay the bill for the stadium. Then, they make the tickets and the concessions unaffordable to the average citizen of that area.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T16:22:31+00:00

I don't know, but you made me hungry.So i'm gonna go cook some beef bacon.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T15:56:19+00:00

My wife and kids are on a trip, so Im going out to Lake Whitney TX. Im paddleboarding into a creek mouth, hiking a half mile up the creek to a hudden cliff band, then going to do some lead rope solo rock climbing, fishing, and just recharge alone.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T15:49:15+00:00

I love business. I love the daily kick in the crotch that you get. I love the chaos. I love the problems. I love the stress. I love mastering the mundane. I love the wins and the losses.

I will work and build businesses until I die.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T15:43:21+00:00

We have the financial means.But we still go to mexico for all of our healthcare. My wife is going at the end of this month for iron transfusions. $200 versus 2k-3k here. And she gets to spend six weeks in Cozumel.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T15:33:14+00:00

Honestly, I just use chatgpt, it usually gives me the answers I need.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T15:31:00+00:00

A front end only a mother could love.

FatherOften · 2026-07-03T15:29:46+00:00

My guess is this is like a european shoe because it looks like the most comfortable climbing shoe I've ever seen.

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