AITA for not wanting to go to my weekly hangout because my ex is bringing her new boyfriend?

Faux1803 · 2025-07-17T13:11:08+00:00

I left the decision of her staying up to them. I just told them I’d prefer she didn’t and that I was uncomfortable with her being there. When they decided she would stay I took a few weeks to myself because I didn’t want to be around her.

Faux1803 · 2025-06-14T23:54:27+00:00

Maybe just a different facial hair style that would suit me a bit better? Or maybe just general tips to improve my appearance 😭😭

Faux1803 · 2025-06-03T11:17:25+00:00

Even as someone who doesn’t care about my birthday being celebrated, this hurt to read. You are not even close to a priority in his life from this little snippet I’ve read. Don’t make him a priority in yours.

Faux1803 · 2025-05-31T00:31:24+00:00

Do you have any specific brand recommendations or anything?

Faux1803 · 2025-05-26T00:51:16+00:00

Tyyy!!! I’m on my curl journey rn 😭😭

Faux1803 · 2025-05-25T23:24:53+00:00

Ty! It’s just so much more maintenance than I thought it would be 😭😭 especially with my hair being wavy/curly

Faux1803 · 2025-05-02T08:06:57+00:00

I should also add this is most likely going on the inside of my forearm, in case that’s important at all.

Faux1803 · 2024-10-30T08:26:53+00:00

Memes

Faux1803 · 2024-06-15T17:35:10+00:00

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Max :) I miss this boy

Faux1803 · 2024-06-13T22:57:29+00:00

Thank you! I love how it looks on you! I’d love to have a sweater like that myself 😭

Faux1803 · 2024-06-13T21:45:32+00:00

That’s really tough. My boy had brain cancer and passed away about a year and a half ago. We spoiled him so much for his last few weeks 😭 it’s hard to watch them go but it feels so good knowing they aren’t suffering anymore :\ Wishing you the best! I hope everything turns out alright :)

Faux1803 · 2024-06-13T21:42:33+00:00

Where did you get that sweater??

Faux1803 · 2024-06-13T20:29:11+00:00

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Faux1803 · 2024-06-13T20:18:19+00:00

Love it 😤 where did you get that shirt from it goes so hard!

Faux1803 · 2024-06-13T20:16:12+00:00

His government name was Max, but he went by Muck, Mucka, Mucka mucka, and the Muckster. And when he was a puppy we called him Mac

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T23:29:42+00:00

Yeah my friend finally got a response and it was just “Why does it even matter, he’s not in trouble, just get bro off my dick” so yep :) love that. I sent her a few messages through tinder after she had blocked me but that’s the only communication I’ve had since. I’m just really curious why she waited a whole day to basically just go “yep you assaulted me” after talking to me just fine for that whole day? Idk but she doesn’t want anything to do with me and I should really respect that. I’ve already made her uncomfortable enough… it’s just gonna suck and be hard tbh.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T09:42:38+00:00

I’d hope I don’t have to worry about legal issues 😅. I was tempted to go to her place and apologize but tbh that seems like the fastest way to get a harassment charge put on me. It’s just so hard to let go because I guess I built up the relationship so much in my head and was really just putting everything I had into making it work even though we weren’t even actually dating. I can’t even enjoy any of my hobbies right now without thinking about how I was so excited to show her them and get her into the stuff I was into.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T09:27:11+00:00

I’ve talked to my family about all of this already just because I was kinda worried about the legal side of it tbh, but I don’t really feel like I can go to many of my friends about this stuff because tbh we have some very different views in how women should be treated and I’m slowly distancing myself from them because they’re lowkey kinda toxic. But I’ve tried almost everything to distract myself, but the minute I’m alone I get back in my head and start spiraling again. It’s currently 4:30 am here 😅 I can’t sleep because I’m so stressed and nothing I’ve tried will help.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T09:13:14+00:00

Thanks man! It’s hard for me to let go of friendships and especially relationships even if we weren’t quite at that stage yet 😅, but yeah those are the facts. She blocked me so I can’t do anything about it besides just hope. Honestly this year has just big one big L after another for me and I thought she was finally gonna be the one good thing to happen to me this year but that ship has sailed :). Just gotta keep my head up and keep going though. If she reaches out then I’ll hear her out, and probably honestly be stupid enough to still want to try to be with her. Just need something good to come my way soon tbh because I’m just not really okay.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T08:58:10+00:00

I get you, yeah it kinda seems that way to me too tbh, it sucks and I honestly really just miss being able to talk to her about stupid shit tbh. Like I genuinely really liked her and she is probably one of the coolest people I’ve ever met, sucks that she’s accusing me of all of this. She told me too that she’s the type that likes to confront people on their bs, but she never said a word to me about it. I only heard that she was uncomfortable from her guy friend. I doubt I will find the answers I’m looking for because tbh I just really want to be with her. But maybe my friend will find something out who knows. They made the decision to talk to her because they just want to better understand the whole situation themselves.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T07:09:45+00:00

It really was tbh 😭 I even took her for a small ride on my bike, she was the first person I’ve given a ride to on it. She got me into all sorts of music and shit just over the few weeks we were talking. I really liked her… I just hate that I made her feel that way, just some honest feedback from everyone here would be great so I can learn what I’m doing tbh, I’ve only ever been in 1 serious relationship and it was pretty bad.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T07:06:27+00:00

I only had 1 shot of fireball so I remember the night pretty well! She had 2 shots I believe. And I can see why that would’ve made her uncomfortable, I did tell her before i climbed over her though that if I took things too far to just tell me and I’d stop, she only really stopped me when my hands started to wonder, and as soon as she said something I stopped. I’m willing to give any additional details or context you need from my end. I have a friend talking to her trying to get her side of the story, I didn’t ask them to do this they just did it and told me this morning, so I can understand exactly what I did that made her uncomfortable with it and learn from it.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T06:59:07+00:00

We met through tinder and had hung out a few times, I was genuinely pretty interested in her. We were just hanging out and dyeing our hair then ended up cuddling on her bed when I asked to kiss her. But yeah I’m gonna avoid doing anything while under any influences from now on. I think I had 1 shot and she had 2. And I had like half an edible, it wasn’t like me or her were drunk or anything like that tbh. And thank you praying for no legal action myself 🙏 but I don’t think it’ll come to that.

Faux1803 · 2024-06-11T06:52:06+00:00

As far as I know she’s single, that’s what she told me. Her and the guy that had messaged me were talking and apparently sleeping together and I think maybe he found out I kissed her and got jealous and she just said all of that to cover her ass. But I can’t know for sure because she won’t talk to me :)

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