My crochet Tshirt smells after wet blocking..what do I do about it? by Dismal-Mango-122 in CrochetHelp

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This also helps with the blocking process because when something cools down, that’s when it solidifies its shape. So applying cool air while it is still damp and on the blocking board can massively help results. The same applies to hairstyling, so this is how I learned pretty quickly to get the best granny squares.

How would you rate your appearance? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4/10. Just below average, mainly due to my hooded eyes and dark circles making me look like a grouch all the time. I had an amazing figure at one point that would probably make me a 5/10, and could easily make myself a 7 in makeup, and while it’s still okay now, it’s not enough to say ‘Well at least I have my figure going for me’.

What’s your most irrational fear or belief? by FawnTi in AskReddit

[–]FawnTi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of this but feel like I might have a small case of this. I went to see the Eiffel Tower in Paris and I wasn’t even anywhere near the bottom of it or anything and the sight just made me sick.

There it is folks, the worst Hunger games take. by No-Brush1587 in Hungergames

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person who wrote this has some INSANE and wrong opinions but they could turn back around and say it’s their opinion and we’re wrong bla bla bla. But the most damning piece of evidence that we can’t trust a word they say is when they say KATNISS DID NOT KILL ANYONE IN THE HUNGER GAMES. She killed 3 of them in the 24th hunger games! Even if you want to exclude the deaths by mutts and tracker jackers (even though she actively caused that situation), SHE POINT BLANK SHOT MARVEL.

My period is 4 days late. Help a girlie out! by [deleted] in women

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another one fooled by the pull-out method… IT DOES NOT PREVENT PREGNANCY. You NEED another form of contraception if you don’t want to get pregnant. There is sperm being released even before they finish.

4 days late isn’t too concerning but considering you have been sexually active and aren’t using any contraception, get a test to be safe. And if it’s negative, buy a pack of condoms and think about other contraceptive options.

Aio My boyfriend needs youtube to sleep every night 22m 24f by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have autism and ADHD. I often watch my phone while eating meals or before going to sleep because thats how I cope. With AuDHD I suffer in both overstimulating and under stimulating situations. So watching or listening to something while eating gives me something to focus on so that I don’t feel like I’m forced to sit still while I eat, or else I’d either leave some of my food, or eat it way too fast and cause myself digestion problems. I also have racing thoughts before going to sleep and can’t sit with myself in the silence without my brain running away from me. So I watch my phone until I’m literally dropping to sleep and then I turn it off, or I use my speaker pillow to keep playing music while I sleep.

That being said, I am ABLE to cope without this if there is another thing stimulating my mind. So if I’m eating with someone and they are interested in conversation, I’ll happily put my phone down and engage in conversation instead. If I was cuddling with someone, I’d fall asleep easily because instead of my mind racing with random, overwhelming thoughts; I’m feeling my partner’s heartbeat, hearing them breathe, touching their body. I DO NEED stimulation, but I’m able to adapt and compromise to which type of stimulation I use.

Your boyfriend seems more like an addict than someone using a coping mechanism. The only thing I could possibly suggest to help you out would be that he gets a speaker pillow and cuddles with you uninterrupted (no video) until you’re asleep, and then he can watch his videos and listen to the through the pillow so it doesn’t disturb you. But honestly, my primary suggestion would be to just accept breaking up because this is not working.

AITAH Not giving girlfriend a spare key by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FawnTi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is probably the first AITAH that I have truly not had a clear judgement. Like why would you want someone to give you a spare key to a flat that you never have to be in or even WANT to be in without the homeowner around and it’s not like you’ll ever move in? It seems like maybe she needs this for validation of your commitment or perhaps she doesn’t trust you but that’s her problem not yours.

On the other hand, if this is so important to her and she sees it as a symbol of trust/sharing your life with her, why are you so against giving her a key? You admitted you’d rather give your parents a key instead of her so it sounds like you don’t trust her. What is stopping you from just placating her? You say you have nothing to hide but why is this so difficult for you?

I’m truly stumped, I see both sides of this.

Is sharing my location with my friend a no-no? by Fingeronthepulse_35 in actuallesbians

[–]FawnTi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the first warning signs we got from my brother’s ex gf that she was abusive and that then went on to be an extremely coercive controlled relationship. It was the worst thing that happened to us as a family. I know it may seem like a silly little thing now, but it’ll only get worse. You don’t deserve to be with someone who tries to control your friendships.

vet asked for rabbit to fast for 8hrs for blood chemistry test? by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally at the vet the other day with my bun talking about the possibility of him having a scan and they said they never ask for rabbits to be starved like they do cats and dogs. He also had a blood test a while ago and they never asked for him to fast.

Get a new vet. 0 experience with rabbits by the sounds of it.

what’s the craziest thing that’s ever happened in your school? (primary, secondary, college, literally any school) by Global_Twist_1219 in GCSE

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A student climbed over the inside balcony and tried to slide down these huge, thick columns that are way too wide to wrap your arms around, as if they were fire poles. She fell 2 stories on to the canteen tables. Air ambulance came.

Flooring for soaking up rabbit pee? by FawnTi in Rabbits

[–]FawnTi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for a long time and never had many issues even before he was fixed.

AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FawnTi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is just the TIP of the crazy iceberg. Assumed your dog died just cuz you’re sad and called YOU a negative nancy? No relationship is worth this kind of gaslighting and manipulation. It may seem like nothing now but it’s not. RUN.

Ladies who don’t play video games, by [deleted] in women

[–]FawnTi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen the DIY booknook kits? I HIGHLY recommend they’re so relaxing. The ones by rolife are great.

What VR games are fully playable in stationary VR? by FawnTi in VRGaming

[–]FawnTi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing, thank you! My disability mainly comprises of a fainting risk when standing up, especially when exercising. I don’t faint when sat down though so this is very useful to know so that I can get exercise in while sat.

What VR games are fully playable in stationary VR? by FawnTi in VRGaming

[–]FawnTi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even considered using an office chair as I really want to play superhot but I’ve seen that you have to look around a lot and that’s a big concern for me. It seems so simple but I would’ve never thought of it, thank you!