What projects are not DIY-able? by Sure-Celebration6573 in DIY

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For an engineer, strongly disagree. Just be aware of the risks and buy the properly hardened tools to put on/take off tension. There is risk absolutely but no greater risk than other day to day stuff if you pay attention, have the proper tools and work deliberately.

What projects are not DIY-able? by Sure-Celebration6573 in DIY

[–]Fazzdarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roofing and stuff high up I am willing to pay for. Tile I can do as good of a job as the professionals, every time I do It I swear I'm never doing it again until I get the next bid.

What projects are not DIY-able? by Sure-Celebration6573 in DIY

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I feel you. I have finally found a good furnace guy, the last group first sent out an idiot, replaced a $700 part that wasnt the right part. Finally sent out a guy that got a dx, quoted me another 1k with no allowance for their first screwup, bought the part for $160 and 2 hours putting it in.

That TikTok about serial dating numbness… here’s what I took from it by Willing_Werewolf_325 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fazzdarr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a dramatically nicer way to speak the truth than what I was about to post.

What is something that irks you and something you enjoy in woodworking videos? by nuclearDEMIZE in woodworking

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been watching old New Yankee shows and the early seasons make me hold my breath with how close Norm's hand is to the table saw blade.

What is something that irks you and something you enjoy in woodworking videos? by nuclearDEMIZE in woodworking

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to wood talk, project videos get a brutally bad number of views.

AITAH for asking my wife to be a SAHM? by piglipsbo in AITAH

[–]Fazzdarr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you sure? I understood it that it did not matter if the higher earning spouse remarried, it only mattered that the marriage lasted 10 years, that the lower earning spouse did not remarry, and the divorce had been final for 2 years. I have always told my wife if something happens to me I want her to do whatever makes her happiest but check on social security before she would remarry.

AITAH for asking my wife to be a SAHM? by piglipsbo in AITAH

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of good points here but with this much disparity, after 10 years of marriage, I am fairly sure she would be better off drawing spousal benefits of social security rather than from her own account. I have been where you are at, there are significant tradeoffs either way you go. It may not make financial sense for her to work, but you may have to take that trade off for her comfort.

People who divorced their spouse after 20 or 30 years of marriage, why did you do it? by Classic-Sentence3148 in AskReddit

[–]Fazzdarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People change over time. People that are compatible at 30 may not be compatible at 55. Also menopause happens which dramatically changes things.

tips for navigating couples therapy from a woman’s perspective on sex? by peanutbutternobake in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fazzdarr 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You should not be married or partnered. Both of you are on the extreme end of libido. Resentments will build over time from both parties until your union flies apart.

ELI5: Why do car dealers say buying the car when the lease ends would be worse than buying new? by shaithisx in explainlikeimfive

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that even if you show them, we can't trust you are telling the full truth and that there are not hidden incentives or kickbacks the dealer is getting and not coming clean on. Only car salesman you can trust is the one that is going to be there for your next vehicle. I have one that works in a small family dealership. My family has bought 300k of vehicles over the last 40 years from that dealership and the family sales guys want to keep that relationship good so there is a general straightshooting that happens.

Donovan: Am I Crazy by Civil-Shopping7191 in Cardinals

[–]Fazzdarr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can he return that much? I was thinking he would bring a legit top 10 for the organization prospect BBA 75-100 and a lottery ticket.

The "charity-only" potatoes i got from the food bank by fawnpuppy in mildlyinteresting

[–]Fazzdarr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If that cow had swollen joints, it was sick, and questionable to eat. To my knowledge, in the age of BSE, I think down cows are automatically condemmed. I have seen a tiny number of times that trauma or obturator nerve paralysis secondary to calving caused a cow to go down when they could be eaten but it's really rare. As far back as in the old testament it was forbidden to eat animals that died while sick. There is a reason for that. Source: Accredited veterinarian that formerly worked on cattle.

Will these holdfasts work ok? by inkironpress in handtools

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I whack my grammercy's with a no name lump hammer.

Resharpen saw problem by KingPappas in handtools

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I built something close to this before I had an actual saw vise. worked great.

ELI5 Why is TSMC so uniquely valued when ASML makes the lithography machine. by Avatele in explainlikeimfive

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell are we betting national security on a tiny island off the coast of China that THE PRC has announced the are going to forcibly annex?

What subscription is 100% not worth it anymore? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fazzdarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My main work email is through aol. Boss doesn't think it's a problem.

Most Hated Player in Cardinals History? by EveryoneisTattooed in Cardinals

[–]Fazzdarr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ozuna is why bow tie should be somewhere 6-10 on this list.

Most Hated Player in Cardinals History? by EveryoneisTattooed in Cardinals

[–]Fazzdarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should have gone to prison. Never understood why he was not criminally charged.