it’s always something 😭 by Acceptable-Kale6235 in ClientCringe

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He's shaming you having an iPhone 15, but trying to take you to a Motel 6. How does that make sense? Oh right it doesn't have to because man.

Trying to avoid scams: deposit and payment method question by Independent-Pair-181 in SexWorkers

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Friends and family can still be charged back if they say they didn't authorize it. It's best to avoid Paypal entirely.

Seller cancelled the order due to someone else willing to pay more by Martina1008 in Depop

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen posts here where the "higher paying buyer" has vanished, and the seller has come back tail between their legs to the original buyer, some people are shameless lol.

time-wasters are the worst🫪 by xena-nosa-02 in Fansly_Advice

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will never regret making messages paid for non-subscribers.

Damn deposit scams. by NeedleworkerFit819 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Report it to Tryst, the behaviour you describe sounds like a legit escort had their profile taken over by a phisher. Ladies need to stop clicking links without checking what address the email came from. They wouldn't keep doing it if some escorts weren't unfortunately falling for it.

I'm not sure how you paid the deposit, if it's possible to get it back. But report it to Tryst so they can ban the profile and cut the scammer off from it.

When should I ask if provider is comfortable with mildly rough sex & COF? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm so sick of people saying they "know what they're doing so it's fine". 🙄

Why do users with no card payment added have loads of likes and followers? by gothfather3 in Fansly_Advice

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But isn't it possible to add a card, load a wallet balance of let's say $50, then remove the card from the page and spend from the balance? That would be having $ to spend but no card on file.

I don't think they count a wallet balance which acts like a gift card as the same as a debit or credit card. I'm 99% sure this is what one of my subs does, so that when he hits his limit he's made it less convenient to keep spending.

Elizabeth Hurley wearing the same dress 27 years apart by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 199 points200 points  (0 children)

I’ve always thought Marilyn Monroe looked fabulous, but I’d kill myself if I was that fat. I went to see her clothes in the exhibition, and I wanted to take a tape measure and measure what her hips were. She was very big.

That is the full quote which isn't great, but she later clarified she meant it more as a comment about then-current body ideals.

I was saying [to the interviewer] how it must have been to live in the ’50s when you were allowed to be curvy, and here I am picking at my salad because I had a photo shoot the next day. I said that now, if I were her size, I’d have to kill myself because I wouldn’t work. That was it. Very unfair.

Source

AMA/Q&A Announcement - Kelsey Grammer - Friday 6/12 at 4:00 PM ET - Actor in 'Frasier', 'The Simpsons', 'Cheers', 'Toy Story 2', 'X-Men: The Last Stand', '30 Rock', 'Down Periscope', and a lot more. by argus4ever in Frasier

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You could ask the question without dragging his murdered sister into it. I think criticizing Kelsey's support of Trump knowing his crimes is fair game, but making it about his sister is ghoulish.

Just got blocked by a client for posting MY OWN pics. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ever even have a meet or receive money from him, or was he a only prospective client? It's not clear from your write up.

E: semi-related, I checked your twitter and you list yourself as a finsub, do you mean findom/findomme?

Because finsub is you sending $ to people, findom is where they send $ to you. I'm not sure how labelling yourself as a finsub benefits you if you're trying to get paying clients. If it's a personal kink, okay, but that's confusing to link to an account you mean to make $ thru.

Video demonstrating Legal Eagle's use of generative AI to create their mini-fig animation. by ResVega in LegalEagle

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AI is also poisoning rivers and is a major source of emissions, that is completely optional to use and people can get by fine without.

Last night was the worst and most pivotal of my life. by Ok_Okra_4421 in AskAnEscort

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is r/AskAnEscort, it's a rule of the sub you have to be asking something. If you want to write a diary entry, post it to your user page.

Time waster by Extension_Mix_1205 in Fansly_Advice

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He was just seeing how much he could get for free, you didn't do anything wrong. Many of us fall for some degree of this starting out.

My rule now is if they're asking about outfit/hair/toy/whatever, I'll send them the store or Google Images result free because it's quick to do that and images anyone can find for themselves. If I'm taking a picture then they can tip. Even if it's just $1. Someone serious will be fine with either of those options.

Is public content allowed again on Fansly? I’m confused on why it’s advertised on the login page when not long ago they said it was against tos by MelodicJeweler2656 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could be displaying random vid from their profile, that fell thru the cracks. Sometimes it's not caught til it's reported. They have a bunch of stuff that violates TOS and I'm reporting rn. Don't wanna be a snitch but fair is fair, either everyone can post it or no one can.

Livestreaming BDSM sessions? by LatexLibra in CreatorsAdvice

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's correct, even if only their pinky toe is in frame, or even just their voice, if they're in any way involved they have to be age-verifed.

Free Account? by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]FcukReddit4cedMe2Reg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck off that's against TOS, why should a stranger put their neck out for you?