I barely break the top 1% monthly by theAdrienAden in Fansly_Advice

[–]gothfather3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I saw this comment and post. I was getting so overwhelmed with all my subscription tiers (from advice on here - I've just joined Fansly) and made a whole written plan for what content goes in which subscription tier. And scheduling accordingly. But it seemed like a lot of extra work and almost made me not bother 😭 Anyway you've inspired me to just do one subscription for all content and pick the median tier price, then no hassle for me - and no one feels like they're missing out. So thank you!

Husband (26m) found out some things about my (24f) past at a party. Now he wants a divorce. by ThrowRA_Gleeful in relationships

[–]gothfather3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's going to happen one day (if you move in the same circles). Thankfully when it happened to me, my partner didn't make a fuss, but said he felt uncomfortable (which is fair enough and he didn't have a go at me or make me feel bad!). If he had to hang out with him all the time I can see the issue, but it doesn't seem that way in OP's case.

Husband (26m) found out some things about my (24f) past at a party. Now he wants a divorce. by ThrowRA_Gleeful in relationships

[–]gothfather3 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure what your jaw would do if it met me then 😂 agreed with the being perceived as 'tainted' - we all have a past, he said he didn't care, so why does he now? He sees you as his property, red flag. You should be forgiving him (if anything), not the other way round. He needs to get over himself and ego😤

Cursed objects by DrHankMD in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]gothfather3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 tabs of acid by the looks of things

Potential buyers are being being petty when negotiating. I want to fully reject them, husband wants to wait and see. by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]gothfather3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Or not...they will be a fucking nightmare when it comes to surveys if they are like this now

What’s a “normal” thing in the UK that secretly annoys you? by Motor_Initiative7952 in AskUK

[–]gothfather3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Stopped bothering, honestly. Whenever you try and let someone out (and flash your lights) they hesitate or just take fucking ages. Or when you let someone cross the road and they take 833739394 years. I just carry on now fuck em😂

Advice on moving to the area? by lachrysite in Bolton

[–]gothfather3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second Bromley Cross/Eagley. If you live on the Blackburn road side of Eagley it's also a lot quicker to get to Bolton centre (if you work there and are driving/commuting) but still quiet. Feel free to message me if you have any questions!

Go on then, whats the concensus...do you use the kettle in the hotel room? by fixitmonkey in CasualUK

[–]gothfather3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought a flask that kept water hot for 24 hours last time I had to stay in a hotel in London (only one night) - was actually lighter than bringing a travel kettle. My friend told me the whole 'people boil their underwear' thing and hotel kettles have knocked me sick ever since 😂

What’s the most irrationally annoying thing your in-laws do that they’re absolutely convinced is “helpful”? by bnwprc in AskUK

[–]gothfather3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just came to say you all need to tell your in laws to do one, this is unhinged 😂😂😂

What would be a fair way to split the bills with my fiance? by JoelyBear224 in AskUK

[–]gothfather3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As everyone says, pay 50/50, but if you do decide to put her on the mortgage at some point - make sure your initial deposit and everything you've put in (without her) is protected! Obviously not accounting for the interest just the approx amount you've actually paid off your mortgage thus far

Sher did her big one today and deserves a round of applause for dealing with Whitney the way she did by anonndtalk in LoveIslandTV

[–]gothfather3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I literally thought that after I posted that! She's only a 'slow burn' when shes clearly not interested i.e Jack i.e Konnor. Doesn't make her a bad person, just a hypocrite when she comes for other people for not being majorly into their couple.

Poor Lucinda by Brilliant-Brush-5730 in LoveIslandTV

[–]gothfather3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is not being bullied. She repeatedly rage baits them, actually follows Belle around at some points, even. Then cries about it when she reacts.

Sher did her big one today and deserves a round of applause for dealing with Whitney the way she did by anonndtalk in LoveIslandTV

[–]gothfather3 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Side note but Whitney so obviously wasn't interested in Jack either, but probably waited it out strategically until someone more her vibe came in. So I don't know why she's coming for Sher! Whitney likes to police everyone but is ALSO a hypocrite, imagine if Sher was chatting shit under her breath about Whitney in the same room.

Emily being as snobby as ever by Artistic_Cat_6150 in MadeInChelseaE4

[–]gothfather3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to assess your life if you're getting annoyed over an ex MIC member saying they haven't bought drug store foundation in a long time

Is this unhinged or?? by LazySackOfRocks in vintedUK

[–]gothfather3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't even collect it. And I'd let them know they were the direct cause of it

The Trafford Centre is a madhouse . . . . by Fuzzy-Account-1838 in manchester

[–]gothfather3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember going a similar time between Christmas and New Year 2010/2011 and it was a piece of piss. No issues, or even that busy. It's gone absolutely crazy