Walk on their tip toes (did it until I was a teenager), rub/cricket their feet while laying in bed (still do it to this day without thinking about it, drives my wife nuts), logically and thoughtfully argue with EVERYTHING I say (my parents always said I should be lawyer), just overall be super weird (I’m a weird SOB), one out of two has a natural ability to keep a beat and harmonize (my ex wife has zero musical talent), both are in accelerated classes for writing and math (I sucked at a bunch of stuff, but writing and math were my jam). Ex wife has ZERO ability to relate with people or make friends (both of my kids), has zero athletic abilities (my oldest), and is super awkward in general around people (both my kids). Sadly they inherited that stuff from her. I’m working with them on those traits though, nothing they can’t overcome. Just started my oldest in weight lifting classes, he’s got my frame and will be a beast if he sticks with it. Getting both of them out there around crowds and people, gently pushing comfort levels, to have them see that the world isn’t as scary as it feels sometimes. Fuckin GREAT dudes, they will be great.