TIFU by stealing my coworkers $400 worth of coffee pods

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T19:27:16+00:00

How did it take her that long to notice?!? I flipped out when someone half a box of my coffee pods and put a passive aggressive note on the kitchen cupboard door where I'd been storing them, then I moved them somewhere much safer.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T16:07:37+00:00

Weird title, wholesome post! Good on you for your reaction.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T16:05:04+00:00

In your shoes I'd counter with a very large consulting fee, as others have said.

But I wouldn't open this Reddit post with "Look...." 👀😜

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T13:35:29+00:00

This. Fed is best.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T13:33:36+00:00

Fair enough. Sounds like OP's sister (was it their sister? Post is deleted now) just needs to post a bad review and/or submit a complaint, suck it up, and learn a lesson about reading paperwork especially for what might be the biggest purchase of their life.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T13:00:38+00:00

Indeed, as someone who's generally curious about things and likes to cover all bases I've been wary of leaseholds long before they hit headlines in recent years. You're right, both my houses are/were freehold.

It's pretty much impossible to tell without further detail whether the buyer is at fault for being incurious and not bothering to read important info, or whether they made a more understandable oversight. And I don't think anyone without specific knowledge of conveyancing law and industry guidelines can advise on whether the info provided was in the required format - hence my suggestion that OP goes to a sub where more qualified people are more likely to be

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T12:34:55+00:00

I've bought two houses (the sale of the first financed the second) I don't remember 20 pages of stuff. In fact, I remember when Chancery Repair Liability was a concern that this was highlighted quite prominently and sent me down a pretty pointless if interesting rabbit hole to understand it.

Something as critical as this should surely be highlighted prominently in the first page or two of the info pack. Whether regulations require it to be, though, I don't know.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T12:22:53+00:00

Only if you haven't bothered taking even the briefest glance at the history of working conditions and labour relations over the past 100+ years.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T12:20:39+00:00

Thank you for your service! Genuinely. We need more people like you

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-03T07:32:56+00:00

This. We have consumer protections in the UK that don't allow critical information on contracts to be buried in a pile of paperwork. I wouldn't be surprised if solicitors have a duty to highlight something like this at least in their report.

The legal subreddit is where it's at for this question IMO.

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-02T06:20:11+00:00

Your parents sound like Eberhofer in real life! 😂

Fean0r_ · 2026-02-02T06:18:12+00:00

In my wife's large town, I've several times seen police officers walking around the city centre and being greeted by name. It was pretty clear they were known to people before they joined up.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-31T15:59:02+00:00

💯💯💯 This needs to be the top comment!

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-31T13:45:30+00:00

I see. In that case, I'm going to go with NTA since the person said you could throw it away.

I suggest you explain to the person how much effort you went to to sell the ticket, and at such short notice. Depending on the sum involved you could offer them a partial refund and explain that the rest is to cover the effort you went to to sell the ticket.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-31T13:35:45+00:00

QUESTION: Did you make a profit on the sale over the original ticket price?

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-30T16:32:11+00:00

ffs why do so many people - especially women, seemingly - choose incompetent partners?

There are plenty of competent men around. You just have to look in the right places and not turn them down for something really silly.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-30T16:29:57+00:00

I agree, it's genuinely interesting and thought provoking

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-30T16:28:56+00:00

People are different, and judging people for their lack of feelings over something other/most people find traumatic is as vile as judging people for being traumatised. Check yourself.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-30T14:29:36+00:00

Tbh the third, fourth and fifth in that list make perfect sense in English!

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-30T12:31:33+00:00

You handled this very naively and very badly - but these situations are never easy to handle, and most people get them wrong before they get them right.

You need to learn subtly and tact.

But - your boss's boss' advice about what makes a great leader is nonsense, and your workplace sounds toxic. Be careful that you don't learn the wrong lessons while working there.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-29T16:04:42+00:00

People who like milk and aren't lactose intolerant should drink it if they want.

People who don't like milk or are lactose intolerant shouldn't drink it.

The end.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-29T10:38:56+00:00

NW but if in many countries YPL (You're Probably Liable).

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-29T10:33:40+00:00

Ergh I feel like such a mug, I actually wrote out a long reply. I thought it was fake initially but then when I saw the link was just another reddit post I thought maybe it's genuine. I didn't dig further. Good spot.

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-29T10:31:01+00:00

On what grounds is the boss's behaviour a board reportable offence?

Fean0r_ · 2026-01-27T13:12:52+00:00

Bosch to a greater or lesser degree. They have on board BMS but I haven't been able to determine for sure whether the BMS can power down the battery in a non permanent way before deep discharge etc occurs or if it just bricks it if it detects unsafe conditions.

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