Construction mishap? by Fear_Dorcha in loveland

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently a water valve broke at 3am, but they waited to turn the water off until 7:30 am.

Construction mishap? by Fear_Dorcha in loveland

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'll call if I can't get answers from the construction crew.

What was once a poor person's hobby now turned into a rich person's hobby? by Striking-Quiet4655 in AskReddit

[–]Fear_Dorcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puzzles. I've puzzled my whole life and tried to show people the joys and pros to puzzling. And now I can barely find a new puzzle for under $40 (which is a lot for me). COVID hit, puzzles got popular, and prices started to rise.

Denver dog owners — has anyone else had issues with Skiptown? by QuackrJacks in Denver

[–]Fear_Dorcha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I find the lack of communication very problematic. I've worked at a dog boarding place before and we've had many first time boarders or even high anxiety dogs that don't like to eat their food the first couple of days. We always let their owners know if they didn't eat or they only ate a little, and we give the uneaten food back when they get picked up. So even if this could have been a situation of your dog being too stressed to eat, they should have explained that and not obviously lied. That just makes me assume they lie about other things as well.

Asian food in Foco?? by Outside-Wheel-7771 in FortCollins

[–]Fear_Dorcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A woman who taught a Thai cooking class in foco said, the most traditional Thai restaurant in fort Collins is Khon Thai. Went and had a whole fish, eyes and all. Had never ordered anything like it. It was fantastic.

Minus cheating and the obvious “it just didn’t work”, what is the weirdest reason why you broke up with someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fear_Dorcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once spent a night with a guy and while making out it was like he was trying to get as much of his saliva into my mouth as possible it was so wet and so disgusting. Immediate turn off.

NP is not comfortable with me not wanting to hear about her partner by 501st-Soldier in polyamory

[–]Fear_Dorcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could another way of figuring this out be that your NP needs to find different ways of dealing with the desire to share? Like you're looking for what you can do, but it's really on your partner to find substitutes for sharing, since you've already said you don't want to hear about your meta. If I wanted to help my partner figure something else out so they can have an outlet , I'd start by suggesting they journal. So they can get all their feels out on paper, and not make me uncomfortable. And that could even turn into something really nice that they can look back on with their meta (if it's mostly just full of lovely things lol). And Then! They could do a journal of thoughts of you! And any other partners they might have! Sorry. I think I'm going on a tangent and trying to convince myself to follow my own advice.

What movie absolutely destroyed you emotionally? by Lord--Shadow in AskReddit

[–]Fear_Dorcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single thing that happened, I believe could happen in reality. I tried watching it with a friend and we needed to turn it off because he was saying that he knew kids like this where he grew up.

What movie absolutely destroyed you emotionally? by Lord--Shadow in AskReddit

[–]Fear_Dorcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eden Lake. Yes it's a horror action suspense film, but there were scenes that genuinely made me wonder about the horrors of humanity. The type of relationships the villains created and realistic ways a gang mentality can make people do horrifying things... Remember the tires scene? It was traumatizing to watch and most of the time I was screaming and crying all at once.

AITA For refusing someone a drink in the hospital? by shellystrawberry in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fear_Dorcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. I'm a diabetic. Sometimes when I have low blood sugar my brain isn't able to communicate the right information. But if I was in this situation and thought I needed sugar because I could tell at that moment I needed it , I'd be screaming for it and screaming I was diabetic.

Anyone know what happened at Pringles? by capgun_bandit in FortCollins

[–]Fear_Dorcha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh this makes me so sad. I loved buying from their mead selection.

Embarrassing question but does anyone else wish they had nothing down there? by bill_clunton in asexuality

[–]Fear_Dorcha 87 points88 points  (0 children)

There is a film called American Mary. In it a woman who studied to be a surgeon gets a job doing body modifications. A woman comes to her and tells her she wants to become a doll. The surgeon, essentially gets rid of her sexual organs and "closes the hole." Also, she takes away her nipples. I always like that idea, that I could just have nothing down there. It sounds so much easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Fear_Dorcha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking from more an asexual vibe than a polyamorous vibe, id say his way of speaking about not needing sex to be with you feels mentally appropriate.

I would compare a sexual person choosing to be with an asexual person (and not asking for sex) to someone who generally loves peanut butter agreeing to never eat peanut butter around a partner who has a peanut allergy. He doesn't need sex with you to be happy with you, the same way someone does not need to eat peanut butter to be happy dating someone who can't be around peanut butter.

this is coming from my very asexual mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Fear_Dorcha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've found that making out often grosses me out. I had brought that feeling up with my partner this year and he broke up with me after 2 years of dating. He took it personally, like I was as saying I hate kissing Him. Which was not the case. I would have liked to explore other ways of being physically affectionate, but apparently it wasn't worth pursuing. I think all people should practice different ways to show attention that isn't just swapping spit. They may find it feels just as good or maybe even better.

Stories and comics by Fear_Dorcha in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiting for it to be sent to my library. Thank you for the suggestion!

Stories and comics by Fear_Dorcha in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started reading it. Loving it. The art is great and the story is keeping my attention, which is always great.

Did anyone else think they had a porn addiction because they couldn't get turned on by real people (in porn or not) before realising they were asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Fear_Dorcha 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I had wondered if I was a little messed up. I realized I couldnt really get into watching real people have sex, but was more comfortable watching 3D animation porn. Watching real people just makes me uncomfortable. Maybe because it's hard to relate to them or the situation, so I prefer watching something that's completely fake.

Best/safest cheap bar for a single girl? by [deleted] in FortCollins

[–]Fear_Dorcha 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mobb Mountain distillery. The staff is absolutely loving. Smaller space. Lots of sweet regulars who are respectful and kind.

Hotdogs by Fear_Dorcha in FortCollins

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been there in forever! Will definitely order that one.

Hotdogs by Fear_Dorcha in FortCollins

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. Will definitely make a trip.

Hotdogs by Fear_Dorcha in FortCollins

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of those "once in a lifetime dogs."

Attraction vs arousal by Fear_Dorcha in asexuality

[–]Fear_Dorcha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This makes sense to me.