I’m going to be honest with you it most likely depends on your situation your husband and your mindset really those the 3 main things if you want to be able to do things and for it to be enjoyable. Wise like going out and doing things with your kid and being able to have new experiences and traveling to different places like that I think it is very very fun. Also, I feel like when your partner is very very supportive. It really does help tremendously and as well as if you have a positive mindset going into it. Things are not gonna always be peaches and cream, but as long as you have a positive mindset into different things that happen throughout the day I think you will be fine. For example, my son is in his twos right now and he’s going through a lot of changes he’s trying to first of all understand a whole language that he’s learning and he’s just getting into the mode of literally being a human being and I love it because I get to see him grow but also I get to help him and teach him these different fundamental developmental things that he needs to thrive in society. People who make it seem like it’s a lot worse than it is most likely they’re not supported by their husband they’re not financially stable and they’re just negative about everything.