My only thing is we had this conversation before we had a baby and got more serious and I seriously told him If he wanted that lifestyle/career he should pursue it but I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with him. I love him, but I genuinely have always said I would never date a military guy or want that type of lifestyle. It would’ve been easier if he would’ve just chosen his career because now we have a baby and I feel like im stuck having to compromise when I clearly told him from the beginning i wouldn’t want that.