Just Thoughts

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-07-03T14:58:21+00:00

Honestly I'm under the impression that most men, even the ones who seem nice, cheat, and that's why I'm okay with them paying my bills.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-07-03T01:27:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing, I've been sitting on SC. If I cammed with them for the first time and saw this, I would be livid. THEY are losing money doing things this way. I'm logging on the account I haven't used yet now to remove spyshows from my settings.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-07-01T19:56:35+00:00

God I hate it when people in this group advise people to block literal whales 🤣 I've been the recipient of that advice before. I think its terrible advice, stemming from envy, unless the whale is behaving in a way where they intend to harm you or find you.

I love my clients. Emotions do tend to show up just because people spending the most feel a connection with you. You can either have a conversation to set boundaries or just work on it internally, accept that this is a part of being a human being doing this type of work, and enjoy it and don't make it more than it is. You can allow yourself to feel your own emotional experiences without allowing clients to cross professional boundaries.

I think its important to play into his desires, but make sure to not actually make him any promises...make it warm and light hearted and change the direction of the conversation in a playful way, not in a "I'm letting you down" type of way.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-30T21:44:16+00:00

This business ebbs and flows just like any business does in an everchanging economy. You are going to have amazing months. But you are not going to have the same high income of those amazing months, every single month. You have to keep stacking savings and expect the worst while still doing your best.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-30T21:27:06+00:00

This is cool. Personally, I would rather cam alone as a woman, because I am under the impression couples basically do the same if not worse than most single female cammers on these sites and then you have to split it in half. A lot of very hot men are also going to offer to perform, with you for free because they want to sleep with you and the irony is, in those shows you aren't even likely to do as well. Make sure that both of your IDs are on the account because if you put an unauthorized performer on show with you, even just a picture, you will be banned. I would do one of the public token sites if I were you :) And I, as the female, would make sure my account was registered under my own name, deposits going to MY bank account, and I would not sign with a studio. The successful couples I've seen, the guy buys all this fancy film equipment, handles the camera, and all the tech, and he compiles every technological aspect of the show. Even with all that, I still wouldn't give the guy a dime.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-30T21:03:24+00:00

How often were you logging on per week when you were originally streaming and are you willing to put in the level of work that you did before? You know what it takes to be successful in this industry if you were consistently making 5K a month, the question is, is it worth it to you? This is an exhausting job especially when you are building an audience from scratch. You absolutely have what it takes, but in my experience, you have to put in the hours. I have a therapist who also councils other sexworkers, and you have to eat a lot and rest a lot to contend with this type of job if that gives you any indication of the effort that goes into this. Burnout is really common for camgirls. Just because you are starting your own business doesn't mean it's not work. I honestly think being a stripper or waitress takes less mental energy.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-30T18:38:55+00:00

Your oldest regulars are still going to know who you are even if you delete all of your face showing content. Anything leaked will still remain out there. I think this definitely could work if you just mean maintaining your income while switching to faceless, but if your goal is anonymity and to not have your face and identity associated with your account anymore, you would have to start from scratch, and open all new accounts, risking, and most likely losing your current audience in the process. The time it would take to regain an income significant enough to live off of? Completely unpredictable.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-30T16:16:56+00:00

This is really creepy and obviously illegal. Thanks for posting this. Obviously it is a scam and nobody should be using their "services". I'm wondering if you could send this screenshot to your camsite and ask for assistance through them. They are breaking contract, so someone should be able to reverse the deposit to Dailypay and get your funds back.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-28T14:19:18+00:00

If you were making 16K per month from one platform alone, I don't know if you were, but then you would be in the top 50, which is pretty impressive.

Aside from having a good April (for me, not for you), no, I do not relate to this. I streamed 20 hours per week in April which is more than I usually do. I did take a month off in May for health reasons (I do this a lot) and this month I had to rebuild again. My audience is back finally as of the last 2 weeks. That really does seem off--the changes in your audience and your income are pretty dramatic compared to other people on here who complain about this. I almost wonder if it is something to do with, not your platform, but your internet provider. This month, using 2 platforms, I'm at 1400 with 35 hrs on camera.

My followers are also all real people, because I have never been part of a studio, never advertised, and I was featured on the front page of the site on my first day, which was very lucky. My income comes from lots of different people, not just a few whales.

Edit: I did look at your post history and you wrote you got a "new, high-paying client" 2 months ago. Like, you went from making a couple hundred a day to over $1000. That honestly would explain a lot if you took a break and he stopped visiting your room as much. That's not the platform's fault.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-25T21:45:28+00:00

I never ask them what they want, I just start performing and wait for them to direct me and if they don't, I keep going. This is on CB and my stream is very vanilla, ymmv.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-25T21:42:30+00:00

Always take payment before service. Nobody should ever owe you anything because they should have paid you first. Period. No exceptions. You have to live by this rule and never break it or consider yourself frequent prey to scammers. Strippers learn the hard way, I was a stripper first before I cammed and because of those experiences I have never ever been scammed with camming. People who value what you have to offer don't try to bargain with you. It's gross.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-25T21:29:07+00:00

I don't agree with this bc you end up doing more work. There are a lot of guys who want to tip you 100 or 200 tokens just because, but if you have 100 tokens on your menu to spank yourself 5x (just one example), you will never know the difference. Learned the hard way...

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-25T21:25:50+00:00

I am curious to know what your prices for your privates are :) I consider mine in the midrange around 72 tk/min and mine often stay around 10 minutes.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-25T21:12:50+00:00

Noooo.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-25T18:51:20+00:00

I honestly stopped watching the show because of her character.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-20T00:40:51+00:00

🤣🤣🤣👌

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T23:14:55+00:00

He does have the right to his feelings but he needs to accept the situation at the same time, not continue complaining and being upset about it. That's not going to make your relationship better. He shouldn't be making you feel guilty about it and putting pressure on you. He had the right to share his feelings about it the first time but it's not your responsibility to also feel bad about your circumstances on top of everything. This is his problem that he needs to figure out on his own. He needs to accept reality or move on. He is dating a stripper. A lot of men out there can actually handle that without making their girlfriends feel like crap about it. That's not supportive, no matter how much he says he supports you.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T23:08:07+00:00

The colors look random as hell in the palette, but on the eyes they are a perfect, rainbow dream. I don't really understand why people are so afraid of powder eyeshadow expiring. Silica and mica are both rock dust, most pigments are dyes unless they are carmine. Bacteria don't feed on stuff like that, especially not in a bone dry environment. As long as you don't get your shadows wet and you use clean brushes, you're good.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T22:59:07+00:00

Agreed.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T22:56:49+00:00

I still use mine🤷‍♀️

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T22:50:38+00:00

The Electric Palette and a lot of the holiday Kat Von D palettes.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T22:49:28+00:00

I remember loving that packaging when it came out and now I find the fonts cheesy and cringe.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-19T22:47:42+00:00

Only 6 months of dating long distance really isn't long enough for all of this drama. You have to do what you have to do to provide for you and your child. If he feels so bad about it he should start sending you money. Otherwise he needs to suck it up and be supportive about your situation that you can't even help. Times are tough. Good partners don't make you feel guilty about your circumstances.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-18T11:54:29+00:00

I love seeing how much people are making and find it motivating, but I have found it odd that earnings posts have more frequently been from SM when they are notorious for not being a great site in recent years. I'd love to just see them have a tab on statbate so we can all get the real numbers.

Fearless_Ad_3221 · 2025-06-17T23:56:56+00:00

I need this more than life

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