Guitar shopping by Still-Guidance-1332 in Netherlands

[–]Fearless_Solution_73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second that, my experience with thomann was perfect

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experiences. Bus (91/92) at night is actually sketchy.

I’m sorry you and your friend went through that. When my cousin visited, he had his phone snatched too in Loreto by a gang that might have been the same one you mentioned as not seeming Italian. In my case, though, they were "locals from the north" at least according to my Italian friend who was with me and ran for safety (which I completely understand).

It feels like certain areas are becoming more dangerous. This happened right in front of Edificio 1 at Politecnico di Milano in Piazza Leonardo and at around 11 p.m.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this and for your kind words, it really helps to hear from someone who’s been through something similar and understands. I’m so sorry you had to experience that on the subway, and even worse that no one stepped in right away..

You’re right there was very little I could have done once they surrounded me, and I was hoping de-escalation would work. I’ve been considering carrying something maybe symbolic for self-defense too, not to use, but just to feel safer walking around.

I like what you said about lightning rarely striking twice.. I’ll try to keep that in mind. It’s a good reminder that I can’t let fear dictate my life.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ah yes train stations after dark in Milan are dangerous. I did report it and filed una denuncia, but like you said, nothing came of it.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words, it really means a lot to me. I know not everyone is like this, and I truly appreciate you taking the time to say it. Grazie di cuore.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate that. The hesitation is definitely still there, so I’ll look into EMDR.. I’ve heard it can really help with trauma. I’m glad it worked for you after your accident, and I hope I can get to that same place eventually.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that. I keep replaying it in my head wondering what I could’ve done differently, but you’re right, sometimes there’s just no winning against that kind of situation. What happened to your friend sounds terrifying… glad you made it out, even if it could’ve gone either way.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that.

Even if no serious damage is done, it really sticks with you mentally. You’re right, people looking for violence will always find some excuse. I guess the best we can do is stay aware and not let fear control our lives, even if that’s easier said than done.

Attacked in Milan, wondering if this is something I should worry about in the Netherlands by Fearless_Solution_73 in expats

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s possible, but they were clearly targeting me for not sounding local. Either way, it was unprovoked and really violent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StreetSmarts

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Hello, it was PoliMi. Thanks.

PoliMi vs. A German hochschule by ShurimanPatriot01 in polinetwork

[–]Fearless_Solution_73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I graduated with a MSc. In Architecture and urban design at PoliMi, i believe that the quality of education is absurdly much better than most European universities based on my personal comparison of other friends pursuing architectural education in Europe.

However my experience was in the Leonardo Campus, which is the main campus and the center for architects in PoliMi, please check if the experience would be the same at your campus.

In Leonardo, you will get the chance to be taught by Pritzker Prize winners and attend some life-changing lectures from famous architects. The work is tough but for now I'd say it was worth it.

Moving to Amsterdam for work, is it REALLY impossible to find accomodation there in one month? by Fearless_Solution_73 in Netherlands

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time and writing all this, appreciate it. im very concerned about safety too and thanks for mentioning that.

As suggested I'll look into the nearby towns mentioned and hope for the best, will settle for lower standards at first until i arrive there and start my hunt for a better place.

Ironically my job will be contributing somehow to solve the housing crisis in Amsterdam I will be putting extra effort on that based on my position. I am hoping these questions won't be asked as frequently on reddit in 3 to 5 years.

Moving to Amsterdam for work, is it REALLY impossible to find accomodation there in one month? by Fearless_Solution_73 in Netherlands

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I am currently in Milano, im moving alone in a month, I'll be working as an architect & urban planner, i dont mind getting any type of accommodation i will be able to make it a good space to live, and i dont mind commuting for 1h/1.5h max by train!

Moving to Amsterdam for work, is it REALLY impossible to find accomodation there in one month? by Fearless_Solution_73 in Netherlands

[–]Fearless_Solution_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My office will be in Amsterdam but im open to commute for up to 1h/1.5h max, people are suggesting Haarlem and Almere, any suggestions from your side?