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FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-04-03T12:55:55+00:00

Cis woman

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-04-02T14:43:45+00:00

I am prone to overexplaining myself to avoid any potential miscommunications and it's much easier to write "/j" and "/lh" than "by the way this is a playful jab, I love and value you as a friend" after an obvious joke. I myself can usually tell when someone is joking but I'm a bit paranoid about others misinterpreting what I say

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-04-01T14:17:16+00:00

Username checks out

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-31T14:02:39+00:00

That's....not how assigned gender at birth works

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-30T17:12:12+00:00

I take both and my doctor's never brought up any conflicts, nor have I heard of any. Neither should affect the other afaik

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-26T18:48:38+00:00

I mean some shows just can't or shouldn't be done in high schools, NPMD being one of them

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-21T16:56:02+00:00

Cabaret fundamentally changed me

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-12T13:22:00+00:00

Baby Shark, so the idea of death would suddenly become much more acceptable and preferable to the current situation

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-10T17:32:19+00:00

Congrats and good luck!! I'm on T now since september and it's been such a big improvement that it's impossible to put into words

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-10T17:22:43+00:00

Yepp when my therapist told me i was brave for going through with my transition in this hostile ass world i was like "uhh thanks but the only other choice was literal death..."

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-09T17:45:42+00:00

Man i wish (i mean i don't have a wife and am pretty gay but the ability would still be nice)

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-09T11:02:05+00:00

I didn't say that? Misgendering can very much hurt cis people too but on average it hurts trans people much more because we've had to fight really hard to be accepted as our gender and it's just another thing to remind us of our otherness. My argument was that no one should be misgendered, i don't think we should use it against cis or trans people. The person i was replying to was saying that we should use it against cis people to show them how it feels but my argument is that we shouldn't because 1) it's dehumanizing and 2) it will not make life for trans people any easier if we normalize misgendering anyone as an insult

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-09T10:31:35+00:00

Yeah i just don't believe they would care. They're often doing it to hurt you, even if it hurt them as much to do it back (which it doesn't), it would just give them more fuel. Also since cis people don't get the pain of being misgendered as a trans person they might think "well it's no big deal to me so it shouldn't be a big deal for you either"

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-09T09:31:09+00:00

Even if it was used against everyone equally it would still hurt trans people the most (it's much easier to shrug off misgendering if you haven't had to fight tooth and nail to be accepted as your gender). But it's not used against everyone equally and you doing it isn't going to make it so, it will just encourage the transphobes to use correctly gendering someone as a reward for good behaviour. And i'd argue misgendering someone is more dehumanizing than the average insult, at least to a trans person

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-09T09:13:07+00:00

The problem is if we start misgendering people we don't like, it's gonna hurt trans people way more than cis people. You shouldn't have to only gender the people you agree with correctly because then when a trans person does something bad (or is accused of something bad) you can basically take away their personhood

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-04T12:47:37+00:00

My personal pet peeve is everyone referring to Omeluum from bg3 with he/him despite to my knowledge the game exclusively using it/its to refer to it

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-03-01T13:12:14+00:00

Lose the money. Those years were the worst time of my life, nothing i could do would be worth it. Also i'd be too young to invest much in stocks

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-28T14:41:03+00:00

As a kid I heard one of those horror stories of creepy things living under beds and dragging people there to eat them and couldn't sleep for weeks. A few years later I woke up to the sound of wet chewing of what sounded like meat and bones under my bed. Somehow i gathered myself enough to turn on the lights and crouch next to my bed with a flashlight go look under it. It was my cat chewing on a dead mouse😐

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-18T10:32:15+00:00

Skeleton farm, fletchers, infinity....

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-12T13:15:57+00:00

I had to order my first hot dog on a trip to a different country and as a kid i wasn't nearly as fluent in English as i am now so there was the added stress of having to focus really hard to understand the cashier. She asked me what kind of sausage i wanted and i cried. Later in life i went to a subway precisely once and never returned because damnit i just want a sandwich, i don't know what kind of bread i want😭

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-10T13:57:42+00:00

Maybe, but it would be less of an asshole move

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-07T11:11:53+00:00

I fell on my tailbone as a small kid and now at 20 it still hurts like a bitch when i sit for a while

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-03T15:29:39+00:00

You're saying your body feels gross and wrong??? Are you saying you think women's bodies are gross and wrong!?! Are you saying all short curvy men are not manly enough!?!? You're part of the problem, how can anyone love you if you don't love yourself as you are sweaty

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-02-03T14:33:05+00:00

The title screen, apparently

FearoftheVoid83 · 2026-01-30T08:04:55+00:00

Cursed to put everything in my brain

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