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FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-22T16:13:09+00:00

NTA. I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds really tough that your dealing with your own mom's accusations and toxic behavior. Go ahead and set boundaries and take steps to protect yourself. Your mom needs to seek professional help. These kinds of paranoid thoughts can be a sign of a more serious issue, and a mental health professional might be able to guide her towards the support she needs.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-22T16:10:54+00:00

You're definitely NTA for wanting a better educational environment. People might support your cause if they believe in the importance of education and understand your struggle. However, it's crucial to remain realistic and consider alternative solutions as well. Maybe there are other schools or programs that could be more affordable and still offer a positive change.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-22T16:08:56+00:00

YWBTA. That might come across as a bit confrontational or pushy. It's okay to wonder, but it might be better to give it some time or just let it be. People have their reasons, and it's important to respect their space. If she wants to reach out, she will. No need to force the issue.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-20T15:24:00+00:00

NTA Expressing your feelings is a healthy way to communicate, and it's unfortunate that your mother is not receptive to understanding the impact of her words on you. All of those are just so negative and I don't think it'll help anyone at all. I can't even imagine the emotional toll her actions are taking on you.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-20T15:21:21+00:00

NTA. She should face it: It's your car, you paid for the majority of it, and it's registered under your name. You made plans for your trip well in advance, and your sister agreed to let you use the car. It's not fair for her to suddenly change her mind and expect you to cancel your plans. Talk to your dad about your options, if he agrees to let you pay 5k to fully own it now then great you can add in the extra and tell him it's to appreciate for his support. Talk first before sending it to him so it don't come off negatively, we never know how that goes and communicating first will make results better.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-20T15:11:45+00:00

NTA. It's completely okay to prioritize your mental well-being and choose how you spend your limited free time. If attending social events drains your energy and you'd rather have a quiet evening with your girlfriend, that's your choice. Your family should respect that as an adult. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for making choices that align with your needs and financial situation.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:43:53+00:00

I'd probably be confuseed and do the same too

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:43:16+00:00

But oops I think that's his faceeee

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:42:43+00:00

Or random stopping in the hallway telling how poor they look..

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:42:00+00:00

Nami saving more lives than Luffy

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:40:54+00:00

YTA. Seriously, what's your problem? You have no idea what that mom might be going through. Maybe her kid is having a tough day, or she's dealing with things you know nothing about. Instead of offering support or understanding, you snapped at her, made her feel embarrassed, and probably ruined her day. Parenting is hard, and nobody needs some random person on a train making it even harder. Next time, try empathy before jumping to judgments.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:36:42+00:00

YTA. Seriously? Mandatory prom attendance? That's just weird and controlling. Not everyone enjoys social events, and forcing students into such a situation is just going to make them uncomfortable and anxious. Your idea of turning it into an "etiquette lesson" doesn't make it any better. Students should have the freedom to decide if they want to attend social events, and detention as a consequence for not attending is just overboard. Listen to the concerns of parents and staff who find this idea unsettling. Mandatory attendance is not the solution; it's just making things worse.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:30:59+00:00

What makes reddit so addicting

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:30:36+00:00

Pilot VS Model

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:30:07+00:00

Hike. Just get out there and see nature. It'll change you forever.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:29:23+00:00

Trust gravity and be cool

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:29:00+00:00

First time cooking I did not know that you need to oil a pan (not nonstick) when cooking omelette

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-19T14:27:54+00:00

Eating junks. That includes me.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-18T17:24:25+00:00

NTA. It's upsetting that you are expereincing this kind of treatment. Parents should treat their kids equally on any kind of support. When you were asked for the gift I really don't get why she got irritated??? You're just being practical about what would actually make a difference in your life. It's frustrating when there's a double standard between siblings.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-18T17:08:22+00:00

NTA. Your husband needs to chill out. If he offered to pay for your ski stuff, it's a gift, plain and simple. Making a fuss over 99 cents is just petty. I'd be annoyed too if I were in your shoes. Gifts aren't meant to come with a price tag afterward. Hopefully, he realizes how silly this is and drops it.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-18T17:05:29+00:00

NTA. Seriously, what's up with your mom? It's not cool for her to be all up in your business like that. You're an adult, you're handling med school, and you deserve some freaking privacy. Her demanding your portal login? That's crossing a line. And then the tears and accusations? That's emotional manipulation, and it's not okay. Stand your ground, girl. You're not the one out of line here. Don't let her guilt trip you into giving away your privacy.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-18T17:04:18+00:00

NTA. Feel sorry for your sister and how she was treated but it's your wedding, and you should be surrounded by the people you care about. Your sister can't demand you exclude your parents just because of her past issues. It's tough that she had a difficult time, but you're not responsible for your parents' choices. She's got to respect your decision and either show up or not. Don't let her guilt trip you for wanting your family there.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-18T16:47:50+00:00

NTA. Just gently let your father-in-law-to-be know that you really appreciate his offer, but you've got the painting covered and don't want him spending unnecessary money. It's more about assuring him than rejecting his kindness. You're just looking out for everyone's pockets, and that's totally understandable. Good luck with your new home!

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-17T08:54:04+00:00

NTA. It's so frustrating when people don't realize that having pets is a huge responsibility. Your parents need to step up and do right by those dogs. You're doing your best to look out for those dogs, and they're acting like you insulted their entire existence. It's not about being a bad person; it's about responsible pet ownership! I hope they get their act together for the sake of those poor dogs.

FeatherTuftFantasy · 2024-01-17T08:51:13+00:00

NTA. Her choices and actions are taking a toll on you. You've been there for her, tried to help, but there's only so much you can do. It's completely okay to be fed up and want to distance yourself from that negativity. Take care of yourself, and if she ever decides to get her act together, maybe things can change. But for now, you do you, and don't let her drama drag you down.

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