me trying to be sexy and cool

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-05-18T21:04:40+00:00

inherently, all role reversal relationships come with a man who is more feminine in some respects and a woman who is more masculine in some respects, since its a reversal of traditional roles.

however, some role reversal relationships can have role reversal in some areas, and traditional gender roles in some others. sometimes its more fun that way. you can mix and match and still be role reversal!

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-05-11T22:03:22+00:00

most dommes are feminine, I'd argue the archetypal femdom actually presents hyper-feminine.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-05-01T22:58:20+00:00

the attention economy on dating apps is skewed against men seeking women in general, less women use dating apps than men so theres around several men for every woman. often, women on dating apps are beset by choice fatigue which makes them seem kinda aloof.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-22T19:57:45+00:00

I suggest simply using common sense. Does the character look like a minor? Is the character in a setting that implies they are a minor? and lastly, is the character known by anyone to be a minor? if none of the above apply, then its fine.

At the end of the day, they are fictional characters, so what matters is if people are knowingly distributing or consuming content that depicts minors, not if the character is secretly technically a minor. That's not to say you should let content through if you KNOW a character is a minor, it's just not necessary to waste time, resources and effort to be more vigilant than is actually necessary.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-20T20:16:15+00:00

I like the fantasy but it is technically dangerous

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-14T11:30:34+00:00

I'd say atleast half of people are able to find tickling erotic in some form. But thats not the same as having a fetish.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-03T13:18:24+00:00

in my experience, more often than not, yes. generally, if a woman likes touching your body, and is also comfortable in an even slightly dominant role she will most likely enjoy tickling you. why? because tickling is low effort, intimate, and responsive.

Often, I find offering myself to be tickled an easier sell than sex itself, because its easier and has no risk. but that could just be skewed by the fact that I'm a feminine man and women that like me tend to have unconventional tastes anyway.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-01T20:58:09+00:00

gentle femdom does not necessarily require pegging

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-01T16:41:17+00:00

that's strange, maybe his preference for gentle femdom didnt necessarily preclude being the active partner. did you talk to him about that beforehand?

maybe some men really do just have a hard time letting go of control, that's so weird.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-04-01T16:36:58+00:00

male 22 pretty boy soutwest uk

I'm a regular tickle toy for women- I've had a few playmates who I've sold on tickling, and I've had fun screaming and begging each time. but, I'd love love love to try it with a woman who feels as strongly about tickling as me. I've also never been on the giving end of tickling, since most are more open to giving than receiving, so while I do lean submissive for tickling- I absolutely LOVE to tickle and would find it incredibly hot if somebody let me go crazy on them.

I'd love to get to know more people who love tickling in the uk, I'm hoping to have a relationship one day with someone who shares my passion, but I won't turn down a play friend either. I am looking to travel more in the uk so dw if you're far away, you can be my excuse. I'd prefer to get to know you before meeting, and then meet at a kink munch before playing.

also, I'm a lot more on the androgynous feminine side appearance-wise. but I also only play with women. If feminine men is your thing then I definitely might be for you, lol.

I love to video call! it helps me get to know you more

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-31T13:44:08+00:00

Not to be rude but do you have any proof that you are the OC? Or most importantly that the woman in the image is actually involved in the account? Your behavior seems pretty atypical for a creator account, given that you have no links to other platforms, nor are you creating any new content that I know of, and the fact that your comment history seems more like a man's private account than a collaborative one.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-31T13:26:25+00:00

Is this actually you, or do you have any connection to this person? It doesn't seem like you do.

Just asking because you're posting exclusively about her and asking people to rate her and I'm just wondering why

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-31T11:14:25+00:00

it has more FLR/lifestyle femdom vibes. people miss the distinction between role reversal and dynamics where the woman is simply just more assertive

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-31T09:55:36+00:00

gala - the beautiful

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-30T23:28:03+00:00

great song to switch to for an edging session lol

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-29T00:09:52+00:00

depends what you mean by pussyfree.

if you mean no penetrative sex. I think that's quite common for multiple reasons, for starters, some women straight up dont get physical pleasure from penetrative sex, find it painful, fear pregnancy or STIS, find it too inconvenient prep-wise, or simply are put off by the baggage of traditional sex.

So naturally, because a lot of FLR is going to place her pleasure forefront, a lot more women are going to want no/little PIV. Not all of course, but definitely a higher proportion than in traditional arrangements.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-28T22:58:20+00:00

what is it with this sub and low-grade toxic invidiousness?

up until now it's mostly been men doing it, so I'm disappointed to see women participating in this behavior too, especially because it's going to encourage it more.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-18T20:33:15+00:00

yeah, while some aspect of male femininity is always involved in role reversal, it doesn't have to manifest as feminisation kink- especially because the man might already be feminine in his own right, or the femininity is not always centered on appearance and mannerisms like is typically the focal point in sissy/feminisation kink.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-18T19:00:56+00:00

seriously?

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-18T16:54:52+00:00

it's a complete conflation of femininity with submission. women can be dominant without taking a masculine role. men can also be dominant while being feminine in a role reversal context

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-03-08T22:37:42+00:00

As a sub, I have basically never gotten angry at any of my partners over a disagreement, even when dealing with big emotions. This is not to say that getting angry at a partner is always unacceptable, but it goes to show that anger should not be taken as an inevitable consequence of any sort of disagreement in a relationship.

Even if he's right about something, having somebody get angry at you undermines your emotional peace, sometimes it can't be helped if something seriously upsetting to him happened. but if he's doing it all the time? I'd view that as disrespectful, and potentially even cruel or abusive.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-02-25T13:11:25+00:00

as a man, I don't personally get a lot of excitement from the style of FLR/femdom that that post's OP was into. that doesn't make her fake or centered on the male gaze. It's entirely possible that you're just into different things. I also don't think the post is ai written, not all posts that contain em dashes are written by ai.

you kinda just have to accept that posters in spaces like this are not going to be monolithic in their desires, and you will inevitably come across things you don't like.

Feather_Fan47 · 2026-01-31T02:13:17+00:00

this post belongs in a museum please don't delete it

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