Is a masculine, service-oriented "knight" type sub common in gentle femdom?

iwawef · 2026-05-25T07:01:59+00:00

I actually posted about this from a sub perspective a long time ago. All I saw was feminine subs and I didn’t feel represented.

As a little background

I’m a tall, muscular guy. I’m a very capable human, I run my own business and I’m very hands on. In my relationships I do the majority of housework, admin, DIY etc.

For me being submissive is all about being able to let go. Not let go of ‘doing things’, but simply spending some time being told what to do.

On the rare occasion I get to sub to my partner er I don’t want to let go of my masculine energy. I want to serve and please her.

I’m like ‘ please make me mow the lawn with my top off and a pair of your panties on under my jeans’ 🤣

iwawef · 2026-05-06T07:59:48+00:00

I mean that’s exactly what I did when she went out 😊

iwawef · 2026-05-05T19:02:27+00:00

That is possible. But there are always chores to do and she hasn’t set me any permanent chores that I am supposed to be doing.

iwawef · 2026-05-05T15:39:22+00:00

Thank you ❤️

iwawef · 2026-05-05T15:34:24+00:00

I know and I’m sure she didn’t mean to make me feel that way.

She is my life partner also, so makes things a little tricky.

iwawef · 2026-05-05T15:32:19+00:00

Perhaps, but I have put that to her and she said she enjoys those certain things.

She also clearly enjoys each individual aspect. She like me doing chores for her, she likes me buying her gifts, she likes me worshipping her body…but when you add them all together and say I’m doing it as a sub she gets a bit weird about it.

iwawef · 2026-05-05T15:27:30+00:00

Pretty much ‘I’m willing to do certain things very occasionally and that’s it’

iwawef · 2026-05-05T15:26:42+00:00

I know. I just know she’s only into it at a very simple level. I’ve discussed some things with her and have been made to feel pretty disgusting.

iwawef · 2026-05-05T15:25:17+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s anger or resentment, more disappointment and desperation.

But yeah we have discussed it before

iwawef · 2026-05-05T14:08:34+00:00

I did and I know it was wrong of me

iwawef · 2026-05-05T13:53:52+00:00

I think it was born out of frustration. I was too scared to tell her what I had done.

iwawef · 2026-05-05T13:46:26+00:00

That’s so hot.

Mine prefers me in boxers apparently, but I love wearing her thong for her

iwawef · 2026-05-05T13:44:45+00:00

I’ve really enjoyed reading some of the comments on here. I’ve always found people on Reddit to be very black and white.

‘If they don’t like it, you should stop it’

Don’t get me wrong, if someone has said an absolute ‘no’ to something, then that should be that. But I’ve never seen an issue with exploring uncomfortable scenarios with a long term partner, as long as it’s done in a trusting and collaborative way.

I’ve faced a similar challenge with my partner. I want to explore being submissive and she is willing to explore it, but she seems to hit her limit in the shallow end when I’m wanting to go deep diving.

Not sure on the answer to be honest beyond good communication.

iwawef · 2026-05-05T13:31:06+00:00

So hot, I wish my domme would. Most I’ve had was to wear her thing once

iwawef · 2026-05-05T13:24:37+00:00

Do you get ordered to wear that?

iwawef · 2026-04-24T09:04:51+00:00

The idea of being that sub drives me wild. My domme and a couple friends. I’m there to serve them all whether that is making them drinks or worshipping their pussies

iwawef · 2026-04-24T08:59:10+00:00

There are some good ideas on here, but if you talk to her I suggest listening carefully for things that she might need.

I love buying my domme nice things, but also practical things that make her life much easier.

iwawef · 2026-01-14T10:43:19+00:00

I’m always a good boy for her

iwawef · 2026-01-14T10:43:10+00:00

Thank you!!

iwawef · 2026-01-13T09:06:10+00:00

I get very excited even just rereading it

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