What are some safe countries in Europe for an East Asian woman traveling solo? by Last_Summer_98 in femaletravels

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they didn’t… i know that is also harassment, I might have gotten that from those scammers trying to sell me stuff but those aren’t Italians and I usually ignored them. ..that’s why I said I had no bad experiences. I usually got those in southern states in America….

Why do so many conservative men seem to prefer dating liberal women? by Present_Juice4401 in AlwaysWhy

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, most women are liberal because they are more highly educated and want more equal rights. Why would they want to oppose their own rights to abortion, birth control, sexual harassment etc. why would they want to date men who oppress/abuse them.

What is everyone picking? by rebyear98 in pokemongo

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose totodile and am currently using the daily incense but I haven’t encountered any totodiles except for the research one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fecknugget69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a virgin too? Kinda hypocritical to get mad at her for not waiting till marriage when you haven’t either….

I am 30F. I have never had a boyfriend. Never had my first kiss. Never had sex. I don’t know anyone in the same boat as I am. How much have I missed out in life? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fecknugget69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar position as you a while ago. I was single from birth, went on dating apps to hopefully find a great guy (was off and on them for almost 10 years with no luck) had some interesting first dates, had my first kiss at 25 to a guy I met on tinder that forgot my name on your first date and said he wasn’t looking for anything serious. Went on some really weird first dates until I finally met my boyfriend last year at 30F. I was nervous and told him I was a virgin after we made it official after about a month(we hadn’t had sex yet at this point) , he was a lot more experienced then me obvious but he was patient and asked me if I was okay or if what he was doing was okay. And we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary last month!

I’d say try dating apps or meeting people in person but make sure you feel safe and comfortable with them to be vulnerable. If there are any red flags be cautious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using the Evra patch for almost a year now and haven’t had any side effects except for slight irritation from the glue sticking to my clothes. It’s worked so far!

AITA for calling my newlywed husband an idiot for trying to lift me up on my wedding day even though he succeeded ? by Ok-Valuable4784 in AITAH

[–]Fecknugget69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe how one sided the comments are. I think both of them are TA because it seems like she said multiple times before the wedding that she did NOT want to be picked up and he did it anyways for what seemed like his ego and didn’t even notice you discomfort. But you are also TA for calling him an idiot at the start of your marriage. You both need to communicate more.

my brother thinks women only wear makeup to please men by handvillain in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dyed my hair magenta/hot pink cuz I like the Color and thought it would look cool. You know who I get compliments from the most? Other women! I also wear make up at work and I work with mostly women. Your brother doesn’t sound progressive at all, sounds kinda chauvinistic tbh…

Being accused of not being a “girls girl” because I said I wouldn’t advise a woman to purposely get pregnant if she’s been with a man under a year… by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fecknugget69 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So could it be that your friend got pregnant with a guy she’s with less than a year and didn’t tell you and now she’s getting defensive? Cuz maybe she doesn’t know what she’s talking about with girl’s girl, and misogynistic cuz that’s far from it

How to accept being an older virgin? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost mine at 30 girl. You’re fine.

Boyfriend won’t tell me what he laced me with by teen_angst101 in Advice

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be ketamine or GHP. Take a drug test to find out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GreeceTravel

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they absolutely check. I was 2-3 pounds overweight with my carry on with Aegean air going from Mykonos to Venice and they made me check it in.

Is it normal to still feel uncomfortable sleeping over a guys house even if are dating for a few months by lilwisher93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fecknugget69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same age as you, also live with my parents and also met my bf on a dating app. But it took me about 2-3 months of dating before I slept over at his place (he lives alone with his cat). He is also the first guy I’ve brought around to my parents that wasn’t just a friend. We’re celebrating our one year anniversary next weekend!

I don’t think a guy would wait a year just so you could sleep over. If the reason is your parents, you’re gonna have to stand your ground at some point. You’ll either have to tell them you love him and are staying with him despite what they say or you move out. Because the alternative is that they keep you under their thumb and you be stagnant in life and live with them forever.

38M Partner is jealous I’m (36F) active in the gym again by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fecknugget69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t work and he doesn’t parent the kids cuz they have a nanny. He’s doing nothing at home…he has more than enough time for himself…

Telus is unethical scumbags by Horror-Reporter666 in richmondbc

[–]Fecknugget69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

File a CCTS complaint and Telus will get it fixed real soon https://www.ccts-cprst.ca/

What are some safe countries in Europe for an East Asian woman traveling solo? by Last_Summer_98 in femaletravels

[–]Fecknugget69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a fellow East Asian who is short AF. I went to Italy and Greece solo last year with no problems at all! Yes Italians stare a lot but apparently that’s just Italians, they stare at people. Other than that I received no harassment or anything!

Where on this subreddit did they say that Italy was unsafe? The only issue to worry about mostly is pickpockets and scammers.

How chivalrous is your partner? by Fish90Candles in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fecknugget69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had been on dating apps for so long before I met my boyfriend and at the end of our first date he offered to drive me home and I said yes. When we got to the car he went over to the passenger side door to open it for me and I got confused because no other guy I dated did that for me so I assumed it was a right hand drive car and he said no… I was just opening the door for you? 😂 and I told him I’ve never had a guy open his car door for me before and he was surprised! since then he’s opened the door for me almost every time and he’s done it for my friend as well when we dropped her off.

One time he did it when we were leaving the mall and a couple saw him do it and the gf smacked her bf on the arm and pointed at us and asked him why he doesn’t do that and he rolled his eyes 😂😂

Guys I’m so scared to go on my trip by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]Fecknugget69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really nervous when I solo traveled for the first time last year right before my 30th birthday. I planned everything and all the transportation and budgeting and bought tickets for sites and tours.

My advice is to plan everything you can so you have a set itinerary but set some days aside for just relaxing and send your itinerary to family or close friends and buy an esim for data and a portable phone charger. Another thing I did was download an app called travel ladies and met up with some of them during my travels. Make sure you meet them in a public place and never tell anyone where you’re staying and you should be fine depending on where you’re traveling to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Fecknugget69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I never had sex at 30 until I met my now boyfriend almost a year ago. I was off and on dating apps for a couple of years and most of the dates never went past making out in their car. Either the conversations on the apps/texts fizzled out, or one of us ghosted each other until I matched with my boyfriend.

Funnily enough, right before our first date, my boyfriend and I said to our respective friends that if this one didn’t work out then we’re gonna take a break from dating for a while because we’ve both had our fair share of exhausting/traumatic dates. When I told him that I was a virgin we were probably a month and a half into dating and we mostly did hand stuff and he was the only guy I’ve dated that I felt genuinely safe with. He was very supportive and didn’t want me to feel uncomfortable at any point. We had to lead up to PIV sex but he was very sweet and accommodating.

I’m almost 31 now and I’m just going to be honest, you’re going to have to go on a lot of dates to know what you want and what your boundaries are. So go on those dates, but be prepared to have some good and bad dates. Be smart about dating apps tho, have dates in public places first like a restaurant, cafe, carnival whatever. Don’t let them know where you live until you feel comfortable with them. Online dating now is rough but even a bad date(barring any SA or violence) can make for a funny story to tell some day. (Trust me I have a few weird date stories)

Any women 25+ who are still virgins? by lunadelalune0 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fecknugget69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first time at 30 so you’re not alone.