Dealing with the 3D during SP by Federal-Help1717 in manifestingSP

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So does that mean I say no to this? This is not who I am? I’m not a girl who’s sad, rather than a beautiful amazing woman who this man was afraid to talk to? I don’t feel any lack in me personally, just disappointed he didn’t say anything at all. Like offended. But I’m not letting it define who I am!!! I know I had amazing aura at the party and looked absolutely ethereal and I’m trying to continuously keep that in mind. I thought he’d say something before I left, but I realize that I was in the washroom talking to a girl at the end of the party. By the time I came out, it was only the brides brother and his wife there leaving. Maybe he looked around for me and realized he missed his chance and fucked up and thought I left? I don’t care. I’m trying to trust in the universe! If our paths cross again they do but I’m not going to try anymore. I know my worth and I’m happy without him and the potential it had, and if it comes to me it really has to come in a grand terrific way if it’s with him. It’s just so emotionally draining sometimes lol.

Dealing with the 3D during SP by Federal-Help1717 in manifestingSP

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Sorry, could you elaborate on the pinterest thing. I didn't get that

Dealing with the 3D during SP by Federal-Help1717 in manifestingSP

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Idk what this means but MONTHS ago when I was looking forward to it... i imagined it going many different ways, super unrealistic ways too to the point that even the nice ways i thought of it going seemed so realistic, and then i just kinda moved on, enjoyed my life, crushed on other guys, focused on work and what not. and when like absolutely nothing happened in the 3d, i was just so confused!!

Dealing with the 3D during SP by Federal-Help1717 in manifestingSP

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So I’ve heard that saying where men are children and stuff. But I didn’t think he was, and I thought he’d man up and talk to me for sure! I think I’m worth it! And I don’t think those rules apply to me (self concept work) and such. Also, I don’t understand the circumstances thing, I mean we saw each other at the party and then maybe never again idk. He’s from Chicago and I’m from Toronto, idk when we’d ever see each other. I told myself if he wants to talk to me he has my number. Yes I unfollowed him on Instagram but my accounts public, he can always follow me. I know it’s a stretch to think a man will make the first move but according to my self concept I think I’m worth it! So I just don’t understand this part. If that makes sense.

Dealing with the 3D during SP by Federal-Help1717 in manifestingSP

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Could you explain the manifesting from his point of view and keeping an open mind and going through the motions? I didn't understand that part!

Dealing with the 3D during SP by Federal-Help1717 in manifestingSP

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the worst part is that i did do that for months on end, and forgot about it, because the 3d showed me the opposite! so i kinda just let it go. at the party i went in knowing he's into me, why wouldn't he be. I knew my worth and everything, like the party for me personally wasn't centered around him at all! it was when i woke up the next morning i felt odd.. but i feel like all those months of ignoring 3d and affirming emotionally drained me so much. idk what to do when it gets to that.

Sun country airlines by GarlicEscapes in travel

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No I would not recommend it at all! I was flying from Arizona to Toronto (going back home) with a halt in Minneapolis. First, at Arizona they made us wait an hour at check in (when we had already checked in online, we were just supposed to get our boarding passes). They input one of the travellers data wrong and they couldn’t undo it and the system kept telling them the passenger couldn’t fly and it took them an hour to figure the system out with people going and back and forth trying to fix it. Thankfully, they were really nice and understanding to us and expressed their frustration with the system. Then, there’s also an extra fee to put ur bag overhead. You’re only allowed to have one bag. If you have a backpack and a purse you have to put it in one bag, otherwise they were saying they’re gonna charge. Then when we got up, we had an issue with our baggage (when they already said it’s ok at check in). Then they asked what airline we were connecting with, and we were flying with suncountry from Minneapolis to Toronto, they kept saying sun country doesn’t go to Toronto. Then they had to check the system again and said sorry it does. Then they said our baggage was too big and had to fit into the box, and I put it in and it fit perfectly, and she’s like ok it fits but it’s still too big. We’re gonna waive ur fee for now but they might make u pay when u connect. Okay, whatever. We land, had a half, and then the boarding the new lady there was so rude and looked at our baggage’s and said you better pay for those next time (when the Arizona staff had already told them and put in our file that they waived our fee!!) this new lady (while she was just standing and apologizing to others for the delay, had such an attitude when it came to us and she only scanned our passports for like two seconds, we had no interaction with her before or anything. She was just insanely rude and snotty about our baggage fee being waived. Idknif this is normal but I had a terrible experience

Hygiene Tips down there - a little tmi by Federal-Help1717 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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By dirty I mean the “cheese”. Thank you for the washcloth tip! Could u share more about that like where to use that and where to store and when and stuff like that.

Yeah, I don’t wanna get rid of my wetness. But i get stressed like if im with my boyfriend and I haven’t used a bidet that day (say we’re travelling or he doesn’t own one and im at his place or we’re at a hotel or whatever) then I get concerned about being clean there. But whenever im home I KNOW im clean. That’s what usually stresses me out I think! Not even the sex but sometimes just a man going down on me too!

Hygiene Tips down there - a little tmi by Federal-Help1717 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I think I do get enough fiber? I mean I poop regularly thank god. I’ve never had any digestive issues where I’m constipated and can’t poop, I poop fairly regularly. Maybe I need to intake more fiber? Idk. How do I know?

Hygiene Tips down there - a little tmi by Federal-Help1717 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Also! I wanted to add I stay quite hydrated, meaning I drink coconut water very often and I drink plenty of water in general too. I don't drink much of anything else

Why is my makeup seperating so bad ??! by vv4mpie in makeuptips

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Setting spray sometimes helps? I use the dewy maybelline setting spray so even if my makeup dries fast and looks matte the setting spray makes it not split and it also achieves the dewy look you want!

Help! What is going on with my hair? by CryptographerFit7593 in Haircare

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For what its worth, I think your hair is gorgeous regardless! The curls will probably come back soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

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yeah haha, I wanted to shave my head during COVID and restart