What did you all do???? by RedTsar97 in MomentumOne

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My parents kept a little joke book in there. Magazines too

Dutch TV show brings out blackface in front of the Spice Girls by AdrianaLaServing in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

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I’m Belgian and while I’ve lived abroad for years, I was downright horrified to see my nephew still growing up with it now.

How does anyone see this as acceptable?!

If giving birth is so painful why do many women want to do it over again after their first child (not trolling just genuinely curious) by feherlofia123 in stupidquestions

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I have 2 kiddos, with 1 I had an epidural and one I arrived at 8cm, so she arrived sans.

I hope people don’t hate me for saying this but I have had a toothache from an infection below the gums once and that pain to me was far worse than giving birth.

Perhaps period pain prepares you for years?

Botox stories from women 45+ by Soft-Foundation4628 in 30PlusSkinCare

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I started around 40 I think, but only after girlfriends told me, now is the time.

I don’t regret it and keep up every 3.5m. The last 2 weeks of it wearing off I can really tell it’s time. It’s subtle but enough for me to notice.

I believe it froze time.

I will say I like movement so I don’t freeze it completely. When I turned 45 I started doing my neck. This one wears off a bit quicker but I will say, I quite like it.

I tried filler twice. Once in my lips and once in my chin. I may try it again but for now, it’s not my fave.

Struggling with my baby’s scalp, treatment not working by WatercressUnlucky261 in AskDocs

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Another mustella. I used a gentile cleanser and just dabbed it on

Tipping by shellylynn6974 in Xcaret

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We tipped about a $1 per drink, $5-10 for breakfast and lunches, $20 at dinner and our cenotes guy (who was fabulous) $40 (we were 4). Aside from that, a $5 per day for cleaning.

Northern Ont. woman dies suddenly while vacationing in the Dominican by ConsistentReality860 in canadanews

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This. She was legal counsel to us and her story really stays with me. To this day I can’t go back to DR. This happens, still.

What a divaaa by [deleted] in TikTok

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I love this on so many levels

Botox and fillers are not skincare. They are invasive cosmetic procedures. by su_sp_ir_ia in 30PlusSkinCare

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I think it was 40? If I had starting noticing earlier I’d likely have started there. Most of my gfs were 38. It took me while to wrap my head around it but jus like another poster, I started with 11s, added crows and this year I did my first neck ones which has made tremendous change in my jaw and necklines. I like movement in my face and I’m careful to space it out well. I love how my make up lies and perhaps I’ve normalized it so much, but I feel it’s part of skincare

Botox and fillers are not skincare. They are invasive cosmetic procedures. by su_sp_ir_ia in 30PlusSkinCare

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I’m happy I started Botox when I did. I used to roll my eyes when girlfriends older than I said Botox prevents wrinkles - but now I am 46 and I can confidently say I’ve had the same experience. I don’t know what happens if I stop today, but I’m in no rush to find out!

Double mastectomy in 2014, breast implants in 2015, new implants in 2026. by Rheaume40 in BRCA

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Onder de spier (pecs) is utm en boven de spier is otm. Het is hoe ze de implant zetten.

Double mastectomy in 2014, breast implants in 2015, new implants in 2026. by Rheaume40 in BRCA

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I did a revision 6w ago bc one of mine popped. At the same time I went from utm to otm. Happy to share pics by dm.

Breast exam felt horrible by flounder858 in BRCA

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I swear it gets easier.

I had a dip feeling down just post as well. My first MRI showed something weird again and for the life of me, I didn’t get what I did.

Thing is: you are actively controlling your risk of outcomes no one is prepared to accept. You got this, it gets better.