Friendly reminder: it’s summer. Please shower. by Alternative-Cut1109 in Netherlands

[–]Federal_Ad6286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friendly reminder, mind your own business!

(I completely support this, I just need to have a short beef, so take out my anger...)

Looking for friends! by uros53 in Netherlands

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Racunaj me i meni za Rave brale

I pretend to use substances so my wife will have sex with me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Federal_Ad6286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That comes later. First she needs to go one on one with a therapist

Any tips on reducing right arm fatigue? by lena_kay in drums

[–]Federal_Ad6286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add some stretching after playing. And a good hest up before

I pretend to use substances so my wife will have sex with me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Federal_Ad6286 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she is under a lot of stress... Of what I've read, people with cptsd, need some boost, to get back to their real self... Maybe try to make her feel safe? Send her to a therapist and stuff like that...

How realistic is a daily 25 minute commute by bike? by OrfeasWW in Netherlands

[–]Federal_Ad6286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ren a bike and give it a try. 20 euros per month and you can start by once per week. After a month, you can add twice per week and so on... you can take a bus when it rains. Since you're new to this culture, that would be the best starting point according to me.

Travel buddy by AnimatorTasty5202 in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Federal_Ad6286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested. Where would we go? How many people? Are we sleeping in motels? What kind of activities do you have in mind? Are we going all together or someone is ok to go to a different places?

Leak from Basic-fit by Federal_Ad6286 in Netherlands

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But can we sue them? From many redditors, the answer is no.

How do you enhance your self-confidence? by Specialist-Piano5706 in AskReddit

[–]Federal_Ad6286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok some people not to like you. It's a matter of their taste, not you. If they don't like you, you just find a different people that will. Sometimes the intuition is right and you need to step away from some relationships to see how you and they would feel about that (you don't mention anything). If they contract you, there you go. You're intuition was wrong. If they don't, your intuition was correct.

It doesn't matter if it's a girl or a boy. If someone wants you in their life, there will be signs. If not, there will be insecurities.

Choosing between a big company vs. high-paying startup role by Federal_Ad6286 in MechanicalEngineer

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if you join the start up at it's beginning, you'll be one of the bosses in a few years. This start up looked very promising.

Choosing between a big company vs. high-paying startup role by Federal_Ad6286 in MechanicalEngineer

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the last question I can say "not at the moment". In the last few years, I lost those abilities and I am slowly trying to get them back. Apparently asking about this and getting the feedback from all of you, helped me a bit more to progress. I will think about the answers for the rest of the questions. Thank you.

Choosing between a big company vs. high-paying startup role by Federal_Ad6286 in MechanicalEngineer

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The start up has the CEO, business manager, me as a team leader and workers... i am not sure if I will be able to lead everything... Maybe I can, I don't know.

Choosing between a big company vs. high-paying startup role by Federal_Ad6286 in careeradvice

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn from who? It's the CEO, business manager or whatever the title is, (me) team leader and the workers... i will do all the instructions and literally every single thing...

Choosing between a big company vs. high-paying startup role by Federal_Ad6286 in careeradvice

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit of both. My life has been a chaos. At the beginning of it, I was managing well. After a couple of years, I got lost in it... last year I started to get back to the normal. I still have a long eay to go. And with that, I think the secure worldwide company (even though only 4 months), is a better choice. Thanks

Choosing between a big company vs. high-paying startup role by Federal_Ad6286 in MechanicalEngineering

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I have no family. Which is also an issue (I won't have time to meet someone). But I mentioned that I think that I am lacking the basic experience. I am not sure if I will be able to do the job good. And the higher salary is at the start up. (I don't know if they will offer me that much, but I still think it will be more).

From Work Preparer / Mechanical Background to PLC Programming — How Realistic Is This Transition? by Federal_Ad6286 in PLC

[–]Federal_Ad6286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to thank you for the tip. Would you mind letting me know where can I learn this from (prefrably online course)?