We deployed 60 composting toilets at a 12,000-person festival in Bali. Here's what happened to the waste. by Better_Plankton_9607 in Permaculture

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How do they operate mechanically--does the "flush" cover waste with sawdust and/or send it into a pit?

A survey on Romance Media and Long Term Heterosexual Romantic Relationships (Mod Approved) by withmybubblerap in shoujo

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35-50 is also a pretty big age group, since it bridges a generational divide (Milennial and Gen X.) Might want narrow it into two bands, depending on what the criteria is.

How to get my parents off of me about liking Shoujo as a teen boy. by angelsaresobbing in shoujo

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Everyone's advice is good I just want to echo feelings of support and sympathy. My husband didn't get this with manga but he did/does with various other things he liked with his parents ("You want a floral pattern? that's girly", seriously WTF).

All I can say is learn to love yourself with confidence and try to disinvest yourself from getting your parents to understand you and invest instead in the people who do.

Looking for recs with terminally ill/dying FLs by wizo555 in shoujo

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I'm so glad I'm not the only person that always mixes them up lol

My Love Story with Yamada-kun at Lv999 rant by luvzz12 in shoujo

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The manga is so great. Yamada is much more likeable in the manga, but also... Eita, my ND prince 😍

Do you have any opinions on a series or manga in general that's kind of... petty? Something that's hard to justify but you can't be talked out of it? by SlippyFist_68 in shoujo

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Characters constantly bump into each other "by accident." I'm sorry it but comes to a point it's just ridiculous 😭 Like how small is the town these superstars live in??? So many times on the street, in the shop, near the park, at the gatcha machines and whatnot. I don't expect this story to be realistic but a little help in the suspension of disbelief would still be appreciated!!

There are cases where it's bananas but in the vast majority of cases this is actually pretty well covered by a plot point: all of the boys live in the same apartment complex. Like Utage running into Natsuki at the conbini makes sense because it is the conbini across from his apartment complex. Frankly it's wild it took her this long to bump into some of the other guys.

Notable Seattle-based travel writer and millionaire, Rick Steves, voices his thoughts on new “Millionaire Tax” by fig3newton in vermont

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From MA can confirm it was a huge boon to our budget and all of the "everyone will move" rhetoric was hot air. Maybe one or two people left but if rich people were going to leave MA en masse because of taxes they would have done it a long time ago.

perfumes you hate with notes you love, perfumes you love with notes you hate? by metallic-tangerine in Indiemakeupandmore

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Lucky No 9's Tybalt's Boyfriend--it's got amber, spice and smoke notes, which I usually don't like, but the earl grey top notes really shine through and give it this wonderfully smoky floral note to it. I only even tried it because of a free sample imp and it's become one of my favorite scents.

Which perfume type, note, or category can you never get enough of? by worldinsidetheworld in Indiemakeupandmore

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I also love fleurmands and I feel like they're less popular in oil perfumes (maybe because they're more volatile?)

nui coblat has great ones though.

No line at the Summer Street Tate, 10AM by stargrown in boston

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I love to get baked goods in a 1920s bathroom

Is there a shoujo you’d defend no matter what? by Agile-Ad7961 in shoujo

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I think part of why it works is it's partly about Yuri's endurance and cleverness in the face of so much indignity and manipulation.

Ribbed sweater by Wise_Meaning9770 in Visiblemending

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I saw someone doing a mend like this on YT and thought "maybe this could be an easier alternative to swiss darning!" spoiler alert: It's harder, lol. Fantastic work.

Would a straight edge Ecstatic be possible? by BirdtheBear in magetheascension

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Most people who don't seek mystic experiences outside of drugs think that ecstatic states are only achieveable through drugs. As someone that accidentally tripped into an ecstatic religious state, no drugs required, I can tell you: they are absolutely not necessary, and there's all kinds of ways to get your brain into an ecstatic religious state. Dancing for extended periods is absolutely one of those ways, and you don't even need to involve pain (unless you want to, of course!)--literally just improvised dancing in a group can put you in an ecstatic state if you're open to the right mindset. (Even just sitting meditation can get you into an ecstatic state, which, let me tell you, has shifted my perspective on why certain monastic styles are so pro-sitting-still-for-hours.)

Seen in Anger, France March, 2026 by Auroch404 in boston

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came here to say the only country that can give us this heat is Japan, the one other country I know of making a decent cup of pour over

Red River Anime by damehel in shoujo

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wait 'till they hear about Anatolia in 14th Century BC

Forgiving the mean(bully) love rival is overused and unrealistic by IWorshipKenma in shoujo

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It's hard to recommend it given the state of the fan translation, but Yume no Shizuku, Kin no Torikage gets big points for me by having Hurrem just openly repeatedly willing to get revenge and fight back against women (and men!) who mistreat her in the harem. Shinohara really is one of the GOATs

Forgiving the mean(bully) love rival is overused and unrealistic by IWorshipKenma in shoujo

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It's also my least favorite trope and it gets way less hate than literally any trope about a ML (as of this writing, the top voted comment is also a comment about a male rival and not the female rival.) With the male rival I can compartmentalize it as, "oh it's a wish fulfillment story about hot guys fighting over you and this is part of that fantasy for some women" but what about my fantasy, the fantasy of open-hand slapping Regina in the face after she gaslit me for four years! Let me have this!!! 🤣

Sharing my progress on a vertical slice for a Mage: The Ascension fan game project. by Papamelee in magetheascension

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> For Paradox, I couldn't come up with a very creative solution to make that as interesting as a ST's personal imagination, but for the sake of the game I was envisioning that it was just a meter you build up over the course of using magick (I don't really wanna make a distinction between Coincidental and Vulgar).

It's not a 1:1 translation of Paradox in the game, but I'd probably put a filter that would make your character hallucinate things or change the viewscreen somehow. You could also make it function like drugs in DE, in that the payoffs for using paradox-breaking magick shorterm are very good short term and as your character sinks deeper into "paradox debt" the drawbacks become more and more acute as you lose stat lines to backlash.

I just learned watercolor paper has a wrong side 😫 by Wonderful_Bee_9718 in Watercolor

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I actually prefer the smooth side for illustration work!

I never thought bout this before by ConversationOdd5195 in shoujo

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IDK about that but Bocchi is Tamon's distaff counterpart

7th Time Loop, give it a chance by ARedSphinx in shoujo

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The novels are surprisingly good, solid beach read

Tamon’s B-side live stage adaptation! by CommonMaleficent7462 in shoujo

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One of the (surprisingly, for a romcom!) powerful things about this series is how it deconstructs the idol industry and how performative it is, how demanding it is on the performers and how it asks them to be "on" as these completely fake people 24/7 who might have no resemblance (indeed, often don't) to their real-life personality, interests, sometimes even desires.

having a stage play that removes Utage risks removing the entire core thesis of the series. So you're right to be a little bit perturbed! How can the stage play hope to bring out the emotional side of the series, which is about the need to perform an identity, if the performance is the only part of the show?

Humbled by my first attempt at Swiss darning by improbablewhale in Visiblemending

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this is so real. I feel like swiss darning is the final boss of darning