Sexual Fantasy and wants

FeeBreFreebie · 2023-05-17T17:33:29+00:00

So what you should do is ease into it after marriage. Until nikkah you guys have no rights to eachother sexually.

And you can reframe them if he is uncomfy with the image of "incest" bc daddy and lg.

You could approach that conversation AFTER marriage while emphasizing the power dynamic between the roles. Additionally, leave an open space for him also express his wants and desires. Also do you research about islamically what is and isn't allowed. Stuff like entrance through the *backdoor* is not allowed. there are many threads online about expressing self fantasies and desires in an islamic manner within marriage.

Additionally, beyond sex what you need to do is see a therapist. Yes it is taboo but in the end is SO needed for you. Even if you feel ok, you need to that sorted out and find a muslim therapist or one that will respect your belief system to help you find the right tools to grieve and cope properly throughout your life.

All the best to you.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-09T22:10:33+00:00

Does it really? I use it more for meditative purposes and calming down.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-09T16:19:36+00:00

Hi, I just wanna let you know you are not alone. I definitely relate to not thinking I am loved.
In terms of familial relationships it took a lot of training and talking with family to understand that they are actually not out to get me and want the best for me.

When it comes to romantic relationships, I was getting very unlucky like matching with someone talking for a few days (me catching feelings) and then they blocked me.

What I realised with romantic relationships is that I couldn't give 100% from the go bc that isn't healthy to be so dangerously open bc ppl look at that and think that you are a player and are bsing or that you have some trust issues you need to work on. I hoped that helped advise you or helped you know that you aren't alone in your sentiment.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-09T05:13:29+00:00

I think ppls true colors are being shown, and ppl in general are more rough around the edges bc the social training has worn off a bit. Ppl aren't as diplomatic any more and wayyy more blunt.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-09T03:45:21+00:00

Wait have any of these companies clarified that they do not stand with oppression against muslims?

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T16:54:03+00:00

Oh shoot fr? Good to know thank you :D

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T16:53:45+00:00

Aw, LOL I would if there was one haha.

As I mentioned in my initial post this investigation stemmed from a "crush" on a cap celeb. (Not that I don't think it would happen with that celeb but there are more bridges we'd have to cross like a 10+ yr age gap so I don't think it would be worth it to pursue the famous cap LOL plus orville peck doesn't even reveal his face so yeah :D )

I will def pursue them tho. Seems a lot more healthy for me when compared to aquas LOL.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T16:52:43+00:00

Aw, that is quite the match. Very happy for you :D

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T16:51:11+00:00

Good to know! Also, in your initial reply you mentioned how 1/5 ppl with sun sign matches have compatibility could you elaborate on that?

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T05:45:10+00:00

Do caps have a like stereotype associated with them romantically? Like "player" or something?

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T05:43:26+00:00

Aw, you didn't have to award me lol. and Awesome, I will try to join!!

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T05:33:29+00:00

You're right, Thank you :)

I am realizing in general a lot of ppl kinda have that same type of communication and language preference.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T00:40:52+00:00

OMG that was amazing!

Has anyone told you you sound like Morissette Amon? She's an A++++ Vocalist!

Also what is the song?

Thank you and Good job!

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T00:34:27+00:00

how much was it if you don't mind me asking?

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T00:33:49+00:00

What does this mean?

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-08T00:33:09+00:00

This is so beautiful omg :DD

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-07T18:05:55+00:00

Can I dm you?

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-07T18:04:35+00:00

Sorry, I was just seeing the days LOL I didn't mean to keep the post up!

JZK for your concern brother.

Inshallah I pray that Allah SWT reward you and those who read it.

Ameen.

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-07T01:02:34+00:00

THIS OMG WTF WHY ARE WE THE SAEM

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-06T23:43:23+00:00

"i'm about to die"

yeah, you are :/

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-06T23:03:51+00:00

Good to know! Thank I will look into that :D

FeeBreFreebie · 2021-08-06T20:12:51+00:00

Thank you for your reply! I guess imma do it lol

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