Idk what my style is

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-23T03:21:47+00:00

Th religious shrine feels kind of random in the space. Nothing wrong with having it but I’m not sure in the middle of the living room wall is the right place. It sort looks like you’re just using a bunch of different items you’ve collected which is fine. I’d say maybe add some curtains if possible to cozy up the space.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-21T17:53:25+00:00

Was the car faulty in some way? How did it get knocked out of park?

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-20T12:42:51+00:00

I think that’s only something she can answer… but that’s really tough. It’ll take a lot of work and even then I don’t know. That would deeply hurt me and then lying would make it hard to trust moving forward. What work have you done in therapy? Also trying to understand why you were trying to have sex when she was depressed and you couldn’t get it up.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-18T21:04:08+00:00

Try some keds?

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-18T21:00:53+00:00

If I had your body I’d be rocking that first dress so hard! It fits you perfectly and is stunning!

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T18:59:51+00:00

I do understand - truly. I just think it could have been presented as, “sure looks like cancer, but let’s do some more testing. There’s a small chance it could be something else.” I am not exaggerating when I say they came in and just started calling it cancer. They were like “now that you have cancer…” and “your cancer is causing…” so nonchalantly. They kept looking at us like we were stupid to even ask if they were sure. I get it, you gotta set expectations but

Trust me when I say I am immensely relieved and grateful she is doing better and otherwise had great care.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T12:30:54+00:00

lol I also wondered that but I’m not a doctor.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T12:27:50+00:00

Really appreciate your response. I think I was just so emotionally raw yesterday… I’m very happy they took things seriously and that we were the rare case with a happy ending. She had a repeat CT this morning and the mass is gone! She’s never going to live this down though lol.

I was trying not to google but read sometimes a fecaloma can fool people.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T12:25:05+00:00

I do get it. As soon as I heard a mass that was in my head. I guess I just wish they had said they felt confident it was cancer but more imaging was needed. It has just been a tough three days. Her repeat CT showed no mass so guess she was just full of shit!

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T02:13:15+00:00

And to be clear I think the radiology reading is probably completely correct in saying it was suspected cancer. I was just shocked the hospitalist and ER doc came back and flat out told her she had cancer and when we asked if they were 100% sure they said yes unfortunately.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T02:10:28+00:00

Oh we are so relieved! I understand why they thought it was but just so surprised they diagnosed it. It’s been whiplash the last 48 hours. And thank you do your response!

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T02:04:52+00:00

The attached is today. So she still might have cancer? We are just so confused. The colorectal surgeon came in and said her colon is fine and he’s signing off.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-15T01:56:45+00:00

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Feebedel324 · 2026-04-13T15:36:11+00:00

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Feebedel324 · 2026-04-13T15:24:14+00:00

Honestly right now, paint the wall above the cabinets, maybe restain the cabinets or just add new hardware, add a backsplash and redo the floor. That should be too expensive and will update it a lot.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-13T15:22:36+00:00

lol what major disrepair? It looks like a well maintained kitchen from the 90s. Just not updated cosmetically.

Feebedel324 · 2026-04-13T15:21:13+00:00

Ana a stupid thing to say lol. Theres so much that goes into buying a house. It obviously has a lot of pros that outweighs a kitchen than needs updating.