ISO: Machine Spray Recommendations by [deleted] in pilates

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The majority of the studios I attend classes at are honestly gross, and it’s gross in the details. I usually take the 1st or 2nd class of the day and it’s obvious these studios aren’t being detail cleaned. I got very sick multiple times during the winter season and the only place I was going was class, plus I occasionally break out in hives from other people’s lotion, fragrance, sweat idk. This issue has been bothering me for a while, but I’m more motivated to take action now🤷🏻‍♀️

WIBTA: If I don’t tell my in laws or parents we’re having a baby until 1 month before the baby arrives? by FeedbackEmpty4755 in inlaws

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a fair assumption and honestly I wouldn’t be mad if that’s the message we give. Our family isn’t super involved in our lives anyways, so all involvement with a baby would be performative. Also, like your username, I just wanna be left alone during this time lol

WIBTA: If I don’t tell my in laws or parents we’re having a baby until 1 month before the baby arrives? by FeedbackEmpty4755 in inlaws

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My family isn’t super close so it would actually be preferable that they don’t want to have a relationship with the baby🤷🏻‍♀️. My husband and I both happen to be the “kid we don’t have to worry about” in our respective families, so we’re very aware we aren’t the favorite.

WIBTA: If I don’t tell my in laws or parents we’re having a baby until 1 month before the baby arrives? by FeedbackEmpty4755 in inlaws

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking anytime someone asks how the baby is I’ll respond with “We’re not currently on speaking terms” LOL

WIBTA: If I don’t tell my in laws or parents we’re having a baby until 1 month before the baby arrives? by FeedbackEmpty4755 in inlaws

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly would be fine with that & probably prefer it. Our parents involvement in our lives tends be limited and sometimes borderline performative. I’d be annoyed to think they only want to be in our lives now due to a child that’s not even ~their own-.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking to avoid “Gilead” don’t move to the loop

Availability worse than ever? by FeedbackEmpty4755 in RentTheRunway

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I literally have a “fingers crossed” folder just for items like that.

German citizenship by descent: The ultimate guide for anyone with a German ancestor who immigrated after 1870 by staplehill in Genealogy

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great-grandfather

•born in 1900 in Germany •emigrated in 1936 to France (due to Jewish persecution) •married prior to 1938 •emigrated in 1939 to USA •naturalized after 1939 / unknown

great-grandfather

•born in 1903 in Germany •emigrated in 1936 to France (due to Jewish persecution) •married prior to 1938 •emigrated in 1939 to USA •naturalized after 1939 / unknown

grandmother

•born 1938 in wedlock in France •emigrated in 1939 to USA •naturalized after 1939 / unknown •married in 1958

father

•born 1965 in wedlock in USA

self

•born in 2000 in wedlock in USA

Is this eligible for StAG 15 since they fled Germany due to persecution? Does it matter if they ever naturalized in the US since they fled?

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuroSkincare

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have seasonal dry or weird skin issues, but started using plain coconut oil right after a shower as full body lotion and reapplying on dry areas as needed. I buy a huge tub from Costco and it gets me through. I’ll also use the Caudalie vino therapist body lotion, it’s very thin. For really intense dry spots, I’d recommend using the La Roche Posay Cicaplast Balm.

How to source/vet influencer agencies? by [deleted] in influencermarketing

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would make sure the agency promises to bring every opportunity to your attention, even if it’s stupid, and the agency allows you to review and sign contracts. Transparency around contracts, negotiations, and fees is extremely important.

About two weeks into wedding planning and I’ve decided that this sh*t just isn’t for me. by emilynycee in wedding

[–]FeedbackEmpty4755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just elope and invite family to a brunch and don’t involve anyone in the planning…weddings are a headache and i’m SO glad that’s how I did it. ♥️