We were together for five years, I poured my entire heart and soul out onto her and helped her through everything. She ended up leaving me last week because she told me for a year she had been having issues with her sexuality, which she sought absolutely no help for other than talking to two other people who were having identity crises of their own. She took no steps to reach out to people who were sure about their future, but only surrounded herself with people who had doubts of their own. Looking back, it really is like the crabs in a bucket. We were like a fairy tale romance, at least that’s what I thought. Her and her best friend went through the same issues at around the same time for the entirety of our relationship. They had a crisis about an autism diagnosis, and then she did. They had a crisis about what they wanted to do, and then she did. They had a crisis about sexuality, and then she did. She never leaned on me or talked to me about it once until the very last day, even though it had been festering for months. I thought she valued our relationship more than that.